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Do people actually read our profiles?

January 01 2011

I'm sure this has been discussed to death here, but does anyone take the time to read a profile here? We have spent quite a bit of time writing our profile and then going over it multiple times to make sure we haven't missed anything, and paid particular attention to detail. We've also quite clearly specified what we're looking for. Why is it then that we get inundated with flirts and messages from Single STRAIGHT guys who obviously don't read our profile, or just look at a pic and think they would like a bit of that. It's very annoying if not frustrating and it doesn't give us much hope of finding what we're looking for her. I'm bi-sexual and I must admit, I had to have a laugh at one of the responses I got the other day from a single straight guy. His profile said he was straight, but he wrote in a message he was bi-curious. He also said "the guy can wank and suck me off if he likes"... LOL Well how thoughtful. I guess we just have to spend quite a bit of time weeding out all the rubbish and filtering our message so we only get the legitimate decent people contacting us. Shame, as it's not fair on the REAL people on here that are genuine. Happy New Year everyone... Mad and Angel

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RHP User

15 years ago

GOSH I hope that people read profiles (our's isn't overally exciting though) I think that some people are opportunistic and just try their luck. I would read someone's profile and then stalk their ramblings before approaching them anyhow, this way you can get a feel for them and begin to understand what makes them tick. But then I am the female of Mused_Pair so I would analyse people and things more than my husband who would trust all my psycho analytical profiling

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RHP User

15 years ago

Some of us do read profiles

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RHP User

15 years ago

Some of us do read profiles

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RHP User

15 years ago

Yes I do, but dout about those people who reject our request!! lol

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RHP User

15 years ago

MadandAngel, Great Profile!! The couple of things i would suggest is putting in CAPS something like **NOT INTERESTED IN STRAGHT GUYS, STRAIGHT GIRLS OR STRAIGHT COUPLES** **BISEXUAL MALES ,BISEXUAL FEMALES AND BISEXUAL COUPLES ONLY** At the bottom of your about us and looking for sections Even maybe change your heading to: Couple in love looking to meet sexy BISEXUAL friends. After that, not much else you can do.... P.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Trust me..it doesnt stop...sorry but in MY experience you are still going to get messages and/or flirts from those who dont match what you are looking for regardless of what you have in there...I have tried the caps lock disclaimers with no luck (sorry Maxking), my profile clearly states what I am not looking for but that doesnt help either...you just learn to ignore have a template response ready (so I am polite in the fact that I do respond to all messages and flirts but that is my choice and sometimes its not a very nice response depends on my mood) I even tried having a cock shot as my profile pic to no avail...I laugh at many of the messages I get...because it is clear no reading has taken place and move on...I have been here for a little while now (12 months) and am a rare one (single woman who is a paid member) and am waiting to see when my profile does quieten down...will let you know onlythebest if it does...lol.. Kisses Focus

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RHP User

15 years ago

When I see a profile that starts off with a direct order like READ OUR PROFILE FIRST followed by a threat with 30 pages of guff and clauses printed underneath I instantly click next, I don't read it because I would never be interested in fucking someone that anal.A few words to open with explaining that although you find the interest flattering you're ONLY looking for a certain type of person is sufficient, flirts are only flirts, you can quickly sift through them. Don't worry about the interest, one day you'll be old and saggy and nobody will give a toss about you, enjoy it while you can.

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RHP User

15 years ago

MadandAngel, If you have taken the time to write a profile stating exactly who you are and what you are looking for then well done. You may have to troll through alot of trash, but with a bit of patience should reap just rewards. As an aside on the profile issue I am often rather amused and highly bemused by the number of women who post titilating or raunchy photo's of themselves, followed by a few template lines (my favourites are 'my friends say I'm attractive but you need to judge for yourself', DUH, 'I'm not afraid to ask for what I want in the bedroom so watch out' and 'I'm looking for friends with benefits, nothing more'. Three things to guarantee any man a wet dream) and are then offended at an unoriginal message complimenting them on there physical attributes. Original profiles get original responses from the ones worth waiting for, the rest can be deleted at your leisure. As advertised this is a sex and dating site, ie dating where the end game is sex, not love or anything else. So the initial attraction will be physical (it nearly always is anyway) and while I agree there has to be some connection before anything physical can happen, that connection wont be found via any electronic medium. The only way to get to know someone is in person, and even then there's no guarantee. It's all to easy to post photo's that aren't of yourself, how easy is it to write a crock of shit about who you are. Thousands of horror stories of internet love affairs gone badly wrong are testament to this

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RHP User

15 years ago

I dont mind the attention at all...have met some lovely poeple through messages...not all are unwanted and without the unfortunate few how else would I be able to mess with peoples heads...oh dear..now I am going to get into trouble...but thanks for the advice - oh and you are right they cant message back.... Kisses Focus

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RHP User

15 years ago

Messing with peoples heads. Now there's a connection I long for

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