Do they think they are the best you an get!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I understand completely teasegoddess in what you are saying...   The younger fellas while they can be lots of fun and sometimes more energetic, the majority i have found DO suffer from - you should be grateful i wanna fuck you syndrome.   Confidence while extraordinary and something we all should have, can sometimes become arrogance and unfortunately some of those a little younger become guided by the misconception that we older woman are sitting at home, drowing our sorrows with a wine, with our saggy tits and non existent love life, just waaaaaiting for someone to ring the bell! Reeking of desperation.... but of course the opposite is true.   Some unfortunately believe that being with a 'cougar' is a tick on their bucket list and are literally are in and out... leaving an extremely dissatisfied 'me' in their wake   Having said all of that there are the exception to the rules. One adorable guy i met with was wonderful in every aspect. Mature enough to carry a great conversation, made me laugh, fabulous kisser and very attentative in every way. Made me feel like a princess, he wasnt out to score points (well if he was, he hid it very well).....   What they dont realise is that they're not doing me a favour - which is truly what i believe most believe - .... im doing them one by bestowing them with my experience

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Great topic! Well personally - I've always liked older men! I get alittle bored with the younger man - they tell you they have been there n done that! Lol!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Just over the guys no matter what their age is that think u should be honoured. Dosen't do it for me! Quoting 'SassyMissM' I understand completely teasegoddess in what you are saying...   The younger fellas while they can be lots of fun and sometimes more energetic, the majority i have found DO suffer from - you should be grateful i wanna fuck you syndrome.   Confidence while extraordinary and something we all should have, can sometimes become arrogance and unfortunately some of those a little younger become guided by the misconception that we older woman are sitting at home, drowing our sorrows with a wine, with our saggy tits and non existent love life, just waaaaaiting for someone to ring the bell! Reeking of desperation.... but of course the opposite is true.   Some unfortunately believe that being with a 'cougar' is a tick on their bucket list and are literally are in and out... leaving an extremely dissatisfied 'me' in their wake   Having said all of that there are the exception to the rules. One adorable guy i met with was wonderful in every aspect. Mature enough to carry a great conversation, made me laugh, fabulous kisser and very attentative in every way. Made me feel like a princess, he wasnt out to score points (well if he was, he hid it very well).....   What they dont realise is that they're not doing me a favour - which is truly what i believe most believe - .... im doing them one by bestowing them with my experience

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  erotictouch4u

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'SassyMissM' - you should be grateful i wanna fuck you syndrome. With the odds on here you should see it from the side of us older guys ET xox

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  wannabyummymummy

  13 years ago

  I completely understand what you are saying although I have found it to be more widespread than what you mention I have had guys my own age with this kind of attitude and as you say it's a COMPLETE turn off and I tend to run the other way quick smart. I call it 'God's gift syndrome' they are pretty easy to spot now though so I don't waste a lot of time with them. Great post by the way :-)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  ...but this attitude is definitely not unique to them. It's easy enough to pick them and then avoid them. They're the one's who place a person's appearance first and foremost on their priorities. They expect the 'perfect' physical specimen but are uninterested in what the mind has to offer.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  In my work environment, I am 'the old man'. The young guys will talk and brag about their 'sexcapades', and I just roll my eyes because they have no clue. A lot of the younger guys have the 'let's just fuck' syndrome, and yes, they prowl around looking for cougars to jump in their lap, and a lot do, but then they get ticked off when some older lady rejects them, and she is labeled as 'some old slut', or 'she wasn't that hot anyway'. some of the guys look for an older woman as an'easy kill' and just want to use you for sex. If that is what you want, then go for it. BUT, if you want to beat them at their own game, then play them like a fiddle, flirt with them all night, drain their pocket. Then leave them. Or rip them apart (older ladies ARE better). Make them leave wondering what the hell just happened to them. Your choice

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You are an evil man.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'jensman1903' ...but this attitude is definitely not unique to them. It's easy enough to pick them and then avoid them. They're the one's who place a person's appearance first and foremost on their priorities. They expect the 'perfect' physical specimen but are uninterested in what the mind has to offer. Thinking confident fat girls are so hard up we'd be thankful to be the "you'll do" playmate. LOL. Some people have no idea...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  So many different people in the world, so many different ways of being, thinking, living, behaving. I'm not too fussed what others do, as long as they don't cause deliberate harm. I'm more concerned with what I do, staying true to me, and trusting my intuition. If a man thinks he's god's gift to women, or you in particular, you always know. It doesn't matter what line he spins you to reel you in, underneath the line his words, actions and demeanour tell you how big his ego is. If you decide to play, you know what you're getting. If you decide not to, then it's as simple as that. So while I agree some men have an over-inflated sense of what they have to offer (as do some women) I say so what. It doesn't impact me unless I let it. (Objectively though, they're bloody wankers :))

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I don't think that the inflated ego is limited to young men, however I would have to agree with what has been said and that the majority do have an inflated ego.One thing that I have noticed is that many women on this site show the same attitude, as women have a greater pool to choose from on this site and men have to compete more with each other for the same attention. Saying this I also acknowledge that women have to compete for attention too, but as mentioned women can be more picky with whom they reply to and how they do reply and that there is no need to be egotistical in the method.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  we find it from all points...young, old, in between, whatever... but would have to say in all honesty that the ones who are most driven by their egos, and more likely to be a bit out of order..are the older, attached guys playing on the sly.... an 'over compensation' tactic perhaps? some of the messages have been 'mind boggling' to say the least, and others..... well lets say that they certainly are fine works of fiction.......

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I wouldn't worry too much, confidence is a good thing in any of us regardless of age or gender. It's sometimes mistaken for arrogance if that person also has a strong personality or outwardly expressive however arrogance is quite often just a mask worn by those with low self-esteem, they feed the need by trying to make you feel 'lesser than and not equal to' whatever standard they can't live up to on their own.   I happen to like 'Thinking confident fat girls (that) are so hard up we'd be thankful to be the "you'll do" playmate' as chances are they are also quite confident, fun and may even make a great friend at some point too.   The 'you'll do' part is what you do better than someone with low self-esteem and attitude, who might 'just do' but just not me. Thanks, you'll not do other than with you!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  of gender some people are just plain delusional.I suppose it works for them enough times for them not to change their behaviour.I dont mind as it provides me with a constant source of amusement.I love a man who can make me laugh

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  boots_69

  13 years ago

  Pick me Pick me

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