Do we express ourselves better in verse ?

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Hi. I don't have an ego mind set what people see and when they meet me in person there is no difference other than I can explain better in spoken language, plus I use my body language to express my self , and yes I have talked to many 10,s of 1000,s of people and in large meeting,s so long as I know my subject matter and detail I,ll be okay, plus I don't read from any thing written down on paper, I would when I have tried too my mind goes into a mind blank. My writing and spelling is not the best because of being a major Dyslexic and before meeting any one on forums like this I do explain about myself so there,s no misconcepions or lie,s . And yes I have met some lovely women here maybe one day I,ll catch up with them,, I will say I,m not shy I have no issue going up to people and start talking to them , just I have found I feel out of place at swinger meetup,s what I have found is many guys have a expection of how a woman should look and be, so I,m pretty much ignored and walked past like I don't exist, and I don't measure up to their expections , fact of life and of cause my age, And yes I have looked at every detail about my self to understand where Im just not good enough or is my demeanor or some thing about who I am as a person, is lacking, I don't have the answer, ...noeleena

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  SpicyKale

  6 years ago

  Hmm... interesting topic. Mr here is the serial poster, but mrs is the articulate worksmith that rarely posts. We think we add to the general discourse without looking like complete tossers on a good day😐 We're not the type of personalities that would sweep you off your feet at a club, but if we've worked out a few common interests and chatted on here for a bit I think we manage quite well. A lot of introverts don't necessarily make great first impressions and sometimes take a few meets to open up, maybe that's issue with those you've met? In saying that, I'm sure you've never got as far as meeting someone that can't string two words together either

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I don't think it boils down to plain shyness that underwhelms and thwarts face-to-face meets... I think it's a lot more complex than that. We're all characters and we all have personalities and experiences that make us us. Some people are opinionated, domineering, non- listeners, it's difficult for me, personally, to maintain interest in conversations when that occurs. Others are vacuous. Boring. Inane conversations that focus on past hurts or gossiping about others. Again, this proves a challenge for me. Others are just bloody funny. Or lively. Topical conversations are always fun. Thought provoking and insightful ways of describing self, experiences and attitudes always hooks me. There are some characters around here. Some interesting topics and points of view. I always enjoy a good conversation and a good forum topic. This is one Mr. Sawadee and I hope it develops further. For now, as its Christmas morning, I'll say Merry Christmas to all.

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  SSExplorer

  6 years ago

  I really try and write honestly and to capture our true self in anything I post. As Mrs S isn’t in to the forums I guess I’m expressing her personality as I see her and I’m very impartial and biased lol. In person we are both initially very shy but once settled I will often forget the main objective and get into a great deep conversation wile Mrs S sits quietly waiting. She’s so sexy when she’s nervous and if a few drinks are shared she will get quite giggly. Then if someone in the room remembers what we are there for finds her ON button then my stimulating conversation gets cut short and it’s game on!

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  What you read is what you get when you see. My male side is a little different but l give him a bit of prod to liven him up a bit

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  Obi1kenietzsche

  6 years ago

  I view all forum posts as a great window and insight into people’s real (and often hidden) personalities. Such posts don’t have to be necessarily articulate or lengthy either in order to provide such insights. I often think (after reading various people’s posts) “hmmm... I reckon I’d like to hang out with “so and so” as they sound like good value”. There is something about the written word that I find really sexy. I also find personally that I appreciate and gravitate to those sort of people who express positivity on the forums, whether it be a considered comment or simply an off-hand “ripper”. 😊 Conversely, overly and consistent negativity in regards to posts gives me the opposite feeling. Obi1

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I sit, and I read...I don’t think about my articulation at all as I prefer those whom I have contact with to not mince their words either...no matter how hard those words are to hear... Ms Phoenix I’ve found to be just that too. However.... Face to face I’ve never really thought about...I’m equally as inappropriate with a dark sense of humour, and sometimes what I say is going to be in your face...but it’s not always the case with me... I think people hear other peoples posts in their own psychological loop of insecurity and/or anxiety...and that changes a lot of posts from their intended mark....I’m guilty of that one too. Mr dragon

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I feel that this question can be most easily answered with the word “time” Some have a quick wit and intellect Others, are more pensive and given the luxury of “time”, can construct a written opinion that reads far better than they could ever hope to convey verbally Does this make them the same person? Of course They are the same person.... with time on their side You know the story...... a half hour after the argument your brain tells you “I should have said this!” But..... you weren’t quick enough or articulate enough and the other person beat you in a word match Whether this is”good or bad” is a subjective point of view. But in conversation we rarely have time, and this is where people either shine, or, the shine fades quickly..... dependant upon your expectations, aspirations.... or simply your preferences Like all body parts, you can train your mind 😎

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  countrytouch82

  6 years ago

  Obi1 met me once and said he found I was just as he expected me to be :P (Which I assume was someone/something good/genuine/humble etc haha)

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  For me I guess if I was in a social group you would most likely find me more reserved. But one on one I am more relaxed and have the same ability to discuss most topics, quick witted and a bit cheeky.

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