RHP

RHP User

M63

Do women prefer guys with hairy chests, is grey hair a turn off or is my profile generally crap?

April 19 2012

Hi, I'm fairly new to RHP and seem to be fairly unsuccessful so far. I wonder is it the hairy chest, the lack of hair up top, a lack of good pics or my crooked teeth that is putting you girls off. Any constructive feedback will be appreciated. Thanks Herb

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Plenty of women like a hairy chest, as far as baldness goes, I don't really know, but I reckon plenty might, as for being relatively unsuccesfull......well, hate to break it to you, but that is quite the norm here.If you had of said you were spectacularly successfull, we wouldn't be believing you.Cheers Felonius....Just post a" please fix my profile"....everyone else does!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Women judge just as we men do its just a matter of what they want and like, compared to what you portray? Find your best points and accent them. Most girls like tall and built and funny, but will still go out and maybe "play with " short , older, balding, cute guys... 30% might like hairy chest.. but 25% might not like bald men..   Put your best pic and profile forward...some will want to know more, some wont.. we are still honing our profile after 2 years :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ive been on and off here for years   i get no where...never have done   so suck it up princess...people on here are just fussy...trust me   Hugs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Bald men have a higher testosterone level...they same as hairy men... Love bald and hairy. My man is both.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    He does have very striaght teeth though so that may be it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Herbal, it's all a matter of personal taste. Some like it hot, some like it cold. Some like it well done, others like it blue.In my experience, the delightful folk who choose a sexually liberal lifestyle be they single or a couple, are all looking for a particular set of 'somethings'. They allow themselves to be 'particular' (picky is such an ugly word). You will have some of those things for some ladies and not others. It's not personal so get used to being overlooked, it will happen a lot. It sounds harsh, but consider your own though processes when looking for playmates. Personally, I like a man to have a bit of chest hair, it shows me I'm not in bed with a child. Having said that, I'm happy to play with fellas who choose to get rid of, or don't have any hair there. You'll find some people who are repulsed by any kind of body hair; personally, I don't get that at all but my point is We all have our 'thing'. And there's nothing wrong with that.Oh, and for what it's worth, I have a soft spot for the bald guys...week at the knees!xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    a bit of chest hair, it's a masculine thing........down below and especially if they are grey trim them as short as you are comfortable with. Wiry , outa control, crazy grey pubes are not your friend my friend !!!!!! 'Own' your bits n pieces in regards to balding and greying hair, be honest about your age always, and make yourself as presentable as possible to increase your chances. A Lot of women like hairy men, but they also like to know it's a well maintained and clean hairy if you get my drift

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    as we are on the honesty trail today i don't think ill stop now....Herby your pics leave a lot to be desired. The lack of hair on head, the hairy chest and the crooked teeth are nothing, though as DGT puts it manscaping is everything.... It's the picture! It's all about presentation. On the upshot your profile reads well. Says you appreciate good food and wine...doesn't look like it in your pic. Just sayin yanno

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. | Okay so this sort of topic has been done a lot recently, in fact there's a thread similar open now...but let me see if I can help at all? Not that one woman here cares one goddam bit...but who ever said a bit of self-promotion isn't good to lift the spirits, not me not ever. | I have a very full head of hair and keep well groomed, I have only a very light bit of soft and silky chest hair with a bit of platinum showing through, I braid my armpit hair into dreadlocks so the hot chicks think I'm kinky and have my pubes looked after by a gorgeous young thing at Exotic Erotic Electrolysis. The good part there is that I can't help it and I bust a chubby....the really good part is that she play naive and says "Oh my look what I have done" and fixes it without charging extra. | Best of breed and bet...go the electrolysis and forget the women here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You say you are fairly new to the site? Did you join last night and expect it to be raining women? Lol... . Your profile reads good...but as the others said...some of us don't like bald heads or guys over 40 or short men or hairy chests or pierced cocks or pubes that you can braid or facial hair or long toe nails or a bent nose or tattoos or mangy fingers or men who have one leg shorter than the other or men that are breathing lol. Don't give up...you never know what tomorrow will bring. My only piece of advice is to make sure you read her profile (I know...gasp horror you have to actually READ) and make sure that you fall into the criteria that she is looking for. Good luck xo Hugs...xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    No rugs up top. Bald is fine and a better alternative to combovers. A bit of chest hair isn't a problem. Providing you aren't carrying a flokati rug on your chest don't worry about it. Some women don't like hairy backs though.It's the hair on the palms you have to worry about........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...it's nearly winter you know.| Quoting 'MistressT' It's the hair on the palms you have to worry about........ Besides, in the spring the hot chick at the electrolysis shop does me and my palms for free! |I love my hair...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    That you had to have a particular look to enjoy food and wine Inspirit....... Thats what I love about this place, learn something every day!Is individuality truely lost....how truely sadI don't think I even want to know what that look is.Cheers Felonius

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' ...some of us don't like bald heads or guys over 40 or short men or hairy chests or pierced cocks or pubes that you can braid or facial hair or long toe nails or a bent nose or tattoos or mangy fingers or men who have one leg shorter than the other or men that are breathing lol. That's me out, bugger.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Wit and personality are the things that do it for women and men. That said there are plenty that have there own set of requirements. I find that people who judge will be judged, if you are insecure then expect the same as your own judgement. Be your self, carry your head high and be proud to be who you are. I am balding and have no chest hair, I have a goaty, over 40, graying and could lose a KG or more. Yet this has not presented a problem because I carry my self with pride and to be rejected from time to time is water of the ducks back. No one can get everyone and only fools would think that they could, or worry when rejected.Give it time OP you will find that RHP will change your view on life. You will be surprised at who may turn you on. Be your self, be open, honest, and have fun.Oh and don't bother with the blow and go attitude (men and women). If its just sex your after go to a brothel.:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Perceptions are not allowed to be individulised now Quoting 'feloniusfossil' That you had to have a particular look to enjoy food and wine Inspirit....... Thats what I love about this place, learn something every day!Is individuality truely lost....how truely sadI don't think I even want to know what that look is.Cheers Felonius

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yep op,everthing that you said, are the reasons why women aren't flocking to you,just fix it.We are all deeply shallow here .We can't see your charm and scintallating personality,worse than speed dating really,at least there we can tell if you smell good.x Hugs Miss .Manners