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Do women respond to flirts
April 18 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Firstly ,you will get more responses if you are not a guest,but a paying member.Pointless to send flirts to other guests,they cant respond,could be your one true love and your are in RHP limbo land.Most women are guests. Secondly you seem to be attached...women interpret 'ask me ' as meaningjust that. Thirdly where are your photos?...women want to be able to easily see your photo. I always reply to flirts ,at least the first time, but many women dont perhaps for the reasons I stated above x Hugs H.
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RHP User
14 years ago
depends on my mood...I have gotten many abusive messages from guys when I try to politely say no thanks... If I feel like taking the chance that they will get abusive, I reply. Sometimes I just block when I know I do not want to meet them, and others I ignore... It saves the hassle. I used to reply to all flirts from guys when I first joined the site but I am over that... block and ignore mostly now lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well I am interested in MM... Twins would be nice :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
i found that the auto responseto flirts button doesnt work......maybe they are expecting in 8 hours the flirt will be auto replied to????.......... and the group reply makes people think you have looked at there profile. did you know that when you rate someone as hot they send a flirt on your behalf...............i always reply with i am a guest please send message but dont look at profile til i get that message
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RHP User
14 years ago
Us chicks/ couples , get a ton of them , most I don't reply to as I am often just checking on here with my iPhone and it's too fiddly ( lame I know) BUT if you have a picture, and it matches what I am looking for , you might catches my eye , I might read your profile and respond, especially if we are actively looking to play that weekend - MOSTLY I don't reply because I like forward confident men (* if your a member and too shy to message me, we won't click in bed) I also like a generous man, who is not married or hiding himself on here :) So cough up some money and pay to message the women you really like :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I will answer flirts and messages, because I think it is polite to do so. However as Hesione said it sounds like you are attached andon top of it no photo. I am still dont get this about men...why no photo? So many men do this, there are so many men on RHP with photos, why respond to the one without? I mean you all look at photos of us women read maybe the profile and then decide yes this woman is worth a flirt or message so why do you expect we dont like the same. Had someone yesterday saying...I work in a high place position I cant send you a photo....I say bullshit...I would like to see a face..please. Should he say no he goes in the waste busket. Cheers and good luck.
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RHP User
14 years ago
but only if the criteria match mine and the question is 'would you reply if I messaged you'.There is no appropriate response for 'I love your profile' so I can't respond to those flirts. RHP, maybe time for a thank you response that says only 'thank you'I do have the automatic reply box thing ticked.
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RHP User
14 years ago
we figure that if the guy is so slack that all he can manage is a piddly little flirt, then hes not worth the time....or the effort.... so if we answer....its always in the negative.....100% of the time. if yr serious, make sure you have paid membership, and send a message.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Pay your money upgrade your profile and send a nice message....no more needs to be said.I ignore them all the time..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Well I am interested in MM... Twins would be nice :) Are such a dirty bird twins indeed lol . OP some of the reasons are as the girls have mentioned above, if they are also a guest the flirt thing is going no where fast. If you are a guest and are expecting them to be taken with your profile and message you, you are going to be disappointed Im afraid......no pics and not willing to be the person who pays for a membership to contact them isn't exactly a stimulating proposition, not when there are many men who go that one step further. Now when I get a flirt, if the guy has all of the above....ability to send me a msg and is just testing the waters with a flirt, at least one public pic (doesn't have to be a face) just a presence can make a difference, and meets my criteria....then yes!!! I do respond to them, they may not be in the first 5 minutes Lol Im too busy yapping in the forums And shock horror!!! I actually send flirts myself
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RHP User
14 years ago
...to various types of clitoral stimulation. I don't know if that helps or is the answer you were after but most do seem to respond, some of the sneaky ones though will fake it. | David Jones and Myers...they respond to sales held there too.
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RHP User
14 years ago
If I'm overwhelmed with contact at the time, I usually do a group reply with the lame 'my dance card is full right now', without having looked at the profiles.. After becoming a paying member, the additional exposure isn't helping with my organisation. Possibly means I miss out on some nice people, but I can only remember the names of so many people... :/
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RHP User
14 years ago
New changes to be experienced and you been blessed 2 go alone..... and your pic is but a shadow of yourself. I wouldn't respond to your flirt as you're menu is a little to table d'hote for me. Now where is that brick wall i was so happy licking
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RHP User
14 years ago
i have on my profile i dont respond to flirts, and yet i get flooded with them, i dont mind getting them but if someone wants to talk a msg is the way to go, oh and i dont respond to some of them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'we figure that if the guy is so slack that all he can manage is a piddly little flirt, then hes not worth the time....or the effort.... so if we answer....its always in the negative.....100% of the time. if yr serious, make sure you have paid membership, and send a message. some people send out flirts to test the waters....after a possitive flirt back they will message you but being a guest whats the use....men cant message at all if they are a guest, if a man is a guest i always reply with "im a guest can you message me" hahaha but i always reply to flirts and messages....i find it rude not too Hugs
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Sensual_fun42
14 years ago
As a "Paying member" i usually send the If i send you a message would you reply flirt because if we send a message and get no reply then that message is wasted, hense why i send that particular flirt, if i do send a message i do try to keep it polite, but still no reply..and yes i am married and can play alone and also can have it verified by my wife if required!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'just_sin'i have on my profile i dont respond to flirts, and yet i get flooded with them, i dont mind getting them but if someone wants to talk a msg is the way to go, oh and i dont respond to some of them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...is that I'm a flirt and even if I send them messages the don't reply. | Is it something I said?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Men whinge about not getting replies to flirts, I send about 15 a week to men , often getting no reply!! My flirt , flirting is just a " fuck you are hot , bummer we live 100 million miles away , thing" I NEVER expect a reply - I message if I want a reply , even then it not always guaranteed !
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' Men whinge about not getting replies to flirts, I send about 15 a week to men , often getting no reply!! My flirt , flirting is just a " fuck you are hot , bummer we live 100 million miles away , thing" I NEVER expect a reply - I message if I want a reply , even then it not always guaranteed ! I completely agree that flirts just to say i think your hot, but it probably wouldn't work do to distance (or whatever). If you think it could, send a message!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' Men whinge about not getting replies to flirts, I send about 15 a week to men , often getting no reply!! My flirt , flirting is just a " fuck you are hot , bummer we live 100 million miles away , thing" I NEVER expect a reply - I message if I want a reply , even then it not always guaranteed ! i've sent out plenty of flirts to people around the place just because I've liked their profile, or pics, or both. Very rare to get a response back, but who cares! Was just letting them know I appreciated them.I see flirts similar to a wink and a smile out at a bar or somewhere. Doesn't cost anything, doesn't mean anything, it's just showing a token of appreciated for the other person.
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RHP User
14 years ago
thanks hesione, understand what you are saying and the reasons you have, for its those reasons that i wont bother, ive seen profiles where they say and mention that if you are a guest, dont bother, so i dont, i send flirts to profiles that dont have any of those reasons and still nothing
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RHP User
14 years ago
the answer to whether i am attached, yes i am, i have a couples profile on here aswell, i do recall a forum about couples in single profiles and singles in couples profiles, i have a single profile because i am looking for myself, so isnt it the right thing to do? my wife totally supports this,im only in this profile thru her blessing and that is it, look at the name! i dont send flirts to woman who have, looking for unattached because i am attached.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fair enough, No Photo, NO RESPONSE! so you are saying , put up a photo and you will respond or if i was Hugh Heffner with a better menu , Ive heard that before, you seem too judgemental Quoting 'inspirit' New changes to be experienced and you been blessed 2 go alone..... and your pic is but a shadow of yourself. I wouldn't respond to your flirt as you're menu is a little to table d'hote for me. Now where is that brick wall i was so happy licking
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platinumblonde69
14 years ago
I get a lot of flirts but I must admit I reply to very few....I might reply to the ones where I have actually spoken to the guy before and make contact again...But i find a lot of the flirts I receive are from new members, who, when I click their profile, its still under review....so I can't read much information about them...Another reason I don't reply is one guy....has sent me over 70 flirts....but the silly man can't remember we have actually exchanged emails...and..because i told him nicely he was wasting his time with me due to distance etc, he BLOCKED ME....hahahha....But...he must have forgotten because I have a serious collection of flirts from him....Kind of funny when u think about it....Flirts only mean something if yr name is familiar....Thats how flirts work for me...Oh..and..if a guy who is a Premium Plus or Platinum member sends me a flirt...I think..u tight arse....U have 20 or 50 emails...and u can't spare one to say hi....so...DEFINITELY no reply....hahahhaa...Plat
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