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Do you mind if I use my vibrator.....

March 19 2008

sex

While reading some other posts this question popped into my head so I thought I'd get some feedback on it. Do men mind/like/dislike a woman using a toy to help her achieve orgasim while they are having sex? Also you women out there...do you use a toy to achieve an orgasim while having sex and have you ever had a negative response from a male?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    As the male of a couple (married 25 years) I dont mind at all any devices (toys) that my wife can (or may) use to achieve orgasm, although we have never had any problems in that area. Really the guy should be confident and self assured in himself to not suffer any "EGO" issues from use of vibrators. And we watch porn to help us males, why can't she have a vibrator... NOTE: large imitation penises are fun.... and can be a turn on for the guy...(LOL) Cheers P & C

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Not only dont I mind but Like a woman to have a toy and will happily operate it for her,great stuff!!!!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    If the subject came up .. Firstly it would be - "show me how you like to use it" Then "Let me try this .. tell me what you are feeling ..." The only time it would be a problem would be if she used it after sex and without any interaction with me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I love it when my wench wears a vibrating buttplug while we fuck - or a vibrator in her pussy during anal sex. Either way we get to share the vibrations and enhance both our fun. Try it and let us know if you like it - lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    You go girl... Ha, ha, ha. I do not mind in the slightest. infact I find it a huge turnon. Whatever gets a girl off gets me off, it's all good fun. Don't stop what your doing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Fine by me! If a girl needs a toy to help float her boat far be it for me to complain. Although I guess there would be some who would get their ego dented by it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I certainly dont mind a vibrator being used. A mans sole purpose in life is to make a woman orgasm in my opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    its fine with me but only if i can be involved as well . if its what you need why should i mind personally its a big turn on getting to use a vibrator on a girl and while I'm wealding the Wagner of wonder it gives me more of an idea were the best spots are for you and great sex for you means great sex for me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I love it when a woman achieves and orgasim, be it with a toy or ........... for me when she looks you deep in the eyes and uses a toy on herself, its the greatest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    i love seeing a woman lose it in the moment and whatever it takes to get her there i'm all for. besides that I also like to be the one using the toys on her especially in a long session, it gives my tongue and him a break. mind if I watch ? lol have fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    With me its NEVER a case of minding, and with one freind in mind he absolutely adores watching me use toys. Its a huge turn on for me to use it and him to watch,, the visual aspect wins for both of us hands down every time. With other partners its not an option, one friend actually bought me a vibrator and said its to be used for the times when he's not here !!

  • playfulhorse

    playfulhorse

    18 years ago

    i think its great. having a girl who is using a vibe while i am fucking her only adds to the excitment, mainly because i can feel its vibration too. its good, clean, horny fun!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    We regularly use toys to improve sex, vibrators and butt plugs mainly. a vibrator on the clit doesn't just add pleasure for the woman the guy can feel it too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I love to wield it, I love to watch - it's all good. Just the thought that the woman I'm with is willing to do it or use it, really turns me on. I don't care if she's shy but if she's got just enough courage (or is so horny she doesn't care) that she wants to go there...HOO-WHAH! (think Al Pacino in "Scent of a Woman"). Yeah let's take it to he next level. :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I only ever had one lover who didnt like this - he was young and it was all about his ego .. He assured me he was man enough to give me what i needed without the aid of toys.. and he was right lol - meh - we still had a good time and it ended in the same result lol ( for 2 years lol )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    i can nealy fly my flat mates RC hellicopter.. so i't probaly time to learn to drive other things as well.. lees chance of breaking the expensice xtal too.. LRE

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I guess the 'vibes' have it!!! Masterandwench - I have used it that way before and enjoyed it very much! I've never had a guy say no I can't use my 'BOB' but had wondered what the guys were thinking at the time, if it was a turn on for them or they were just putting up with it because I wanted to use it. The reason I wrote this post was to get feedback and boy did I! Thank you to those that posted! xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Can I bring my camera and a speculum? Plus an esky full of refreshments and a good supply of fresh batteries, a torch light and an ample supply of lube. If you don't mind the presence of an amateur gynaecologist with plenty of time on his hands.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Its not that big that you can climb into it for gods sake!!! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    would have to say that most would get horny just seeing a girl get her self all worked i unfortunatly have not had the pleasure but would love to be able to help or just watch