Does age matter ?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi Orbieswar You could have uped the age to just over 50...lmao....im only wanting FWBs...m/fyet am still to find such one/s that want to spend time as a friend.or even chat for a while to get know me as a whole person...as by the sounds of things,it appears to me this option of FWBs is only for the younger beautiful people.But i do get it though..and i understand that ...its only natural for them..they have a vitality thats infectious,that makesus older ones feel younger and just as vital and a live and healthy..if you get my driftxoxoheymummagoing to up the age..

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  16 years ago

  Shame you live so far away..lol   Quoting 'heymumma'Hi Orbieswar You could have uped the age to just over 50...lmao....im only wanting FWBs...m/fyet am still to find such one/s that want to spend time as a friend.or even chat for a while to get know me as a whole person...as by the sounds of things,it appears to me this option of FWBs is only for the younger beautiful people.But i do get it though..and i understand that ...its only natural for them..they have a vitality thats infectious,that makesus older ones feel younger and just as vital and a live and healthy..if you get my driftxoxoheymummagoing to up the age..

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Yes age is everything...try being 32 & told by a 29yr old girl "Youre too old for me" !!!! Age is such a massive hang up for women these days...if you're not self sufficient & successful on your own with a young Ken doll Cleo/cosmo male model boyfriend,then you're not at the top of the female social status insecurity ladder.And usually if you are,you're a man hating pussy munching feminist. It used to be a non issue seeing a 40 something man with a 20 something woman,now that relationship is seen as the guy being desperate & the girl being a gold digging mail order bride.Yet when you reverse the sexes...the woman is liberated & the young male is mature....whatever!?! I've been called a peodophile by girls aged 18-24 & had a falling out with a good friend for over a year because I adore younger women.She's a single mother of two boys who's 33 & chasing an older man who's in his late 40's.The age difference is not different to me going for an 18yr old....but that apparantly is "wrong".Yet because she's now a mature woman it's ok for her to date much older men...her opinion is you're still a little girl at 18-19-20. Well then..let's take away their right to drink,vote,have sex,marry,raise children & join the military because then that's not socially being responsable for the welfare of "children"...unless it's an 18yr old boy with a six pack body who turns into a warewolf & you're a woman...then age is not a problem & being a "peodohile" is socially acceptable.

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  16 years ago

  Hmmmm, i get asked this question all the time.... And I guess its all preference..... I guess in reality a year either side doesnt make that much of a difference.... But still its my preference..Same thing goes in the Deli department LOL ... sorry for comparing this to the deli department But Fark it shits me to tears....At the counter and i ask for 200grams of ham, the person puts it on the scales and says ohhh is 240grams ok? Ummm no its not, if i wanted 240 grams i would of asked for it. So for people outside of my age bracket sorry im not after that extra 40 grams of ham :P, tho sometimes i guess i do get extra hungry and will take it ;) Nothing is ever set in concrete, But if you do come across a profile and your outside their age bracket, Please respect what it is they are looking for. By all means send them a message, but dont expect a reply.again my 2 cents worth Tiges xxx

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  16 years ago

  Age really is just a number when you are my age.. lolz. But I suspect a bloke who is over 50 on this site isnt going to attract a lot of sexual attention no matter what he looks like. When I turn 49, I'm going to be perpetually 49, if that's OK with you all... When you are 49, a few years here and there shouldn't count anyway. :p.. and after a few years, I'll be getting to teh stage where I can't remember how old I am... or where I live... lolz... I suppose its a good idea to have it on my driver's licence... as long as I get my eyes fixed, they'll keep giving me one of those every year... maybe we should establish a few rules... if you can still drive a car.. you're not too old to drive a six in nail... lol.   Lots of hugs Gazza

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  16 years ago

  Oh ffs, hello...there is a person attached to that number.  First and foremost, if I like the person, then the age thing is a secondary consideration.  Yeah yeah, I know that society kinda frowns on huge age differences...or has a quiet snigger behind the backs of those people brave enough to fly in the face of convention but quite frankly...up 'em.  And I know there are those who are 'conventional' and stick rigidly to age barriers etc...well, sad for you, you are denying yourself the opportunity to open up your mind and be enriched by those of greater experience- in the case of seeing someone older than yourself and for those who deplore the young and inexperienced - you are missing out on the vitality and renewed spirit the young possess, those who are like a breath of spring air.  As for me, I love to experience people period, regardless of the number of years they have graced the planet.

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  16 years ago

  Whitehawk....Thats just bizzarre that an 29yr old woman find you too old, even 24 is ok....whats up with that ??There is always going to judgemental peoplel and double standards and hypocrites in any situation im afraid As to their rights concerning to drink vote joining the armed services,as for having children at the ages 18-20.personalyi think they are way to young.....what life have they lived,let alone being able to support and rear even one kid properly.I understand your frustration at the situation...To be honest women shouldnt marry and have kids till they know"themself" and lived life for a bit..I know as well as others i know that when one is young even at 18 your tastes in men/women can change along with what one wants and likes can also.Hence the wanting the the model type guy with money.they aremore shallow and materialistic..(.ones that still live at home)and havent lived life yet.let alone the have the mental maturityto handle a sexual relationship18-19...im not saying all people.as their are exceptions to the rule..ie me being one..lolas i had to grow up quick..i was working and out of home at the age of 16..xoxoheymumma with patience you'll find what your seeking

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  16 years ago

  guys our age with much younger girls <25yo ...well... just feels wrong.....bordering on pedophilia! is my own personal thought. Whist they may legally be adults, they generally lack the life experience, head space and social skills of women that i find attractive, naturally there are always the exceptions to the rule, on both sides the age fence.So where does that leave the old standard, that younger women and older guys are better matched libido wise....is it an urban myth, and maybe i am becoming a little to conservative in my middle years.Cheers on Monday  Nev

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  16 years ago

  You may alter the age on your profile - but we'll know...   And drag you kicking and screaming to the invisible, sexless 50's   Ha ha   Mr. SR.

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  16 years ago

  ok..at 42....This is difficult for others my age to sometimes understand....I know a few ladies who are around my age with adult children on this site..and some don't get that I like toyboys ( my son is still lil and in early primary school)..So I don't see it as sick or weird to like younger men..   I have never dated a man older than myself since my early 20's....guy I dated for 5 years is 5 yrs my junior and my ex hubby is 2 yrs younger than myself..   Extremely rare that I find men older than myself attractive..even  if they are 1-2 yrs older..   Sorry but honest here....younger men are usually fit and have lots of energy..like myself..I like my exercise and if my abs are not hurting I am not happy..If I am not tired at the end of the day from fun or exercise ....  I feel lazy..   So you older men...get out there and exercise...please!!  girls like me would proberly then want to ravage you..lolz..   huggies   sweetpetite41<<< thinks I might get shot down for this post....ohh...well...we are all entitled to our opinons..

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  16 years ago

  If you are asking is it ok to message or flirt with someone whose age criteria you do not fit, then the best thing to do is probably message them, rather than flirt with something likeI know I do not quite fit your search criteria, but I read your profile and I really liked......Maybe if you point out something that you and they might have in common despite age difference then it might help.Everyone has there reasons for their age preferences and that has to be respected. Andy and I have argued this point over and over, and posted about it in the forums. I am more willing now to relax the age criteria that I set and judge on a persona maturity rather than a number. Look at Gaz for example. He may be 49 but we all know he has the maturity and the sex drive of a teenage boy :P Kid in candy shop comes to mind when I think of Gaz on RHPxx Salina

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