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Does the best sex of your life really start at 40?
August 15 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry to have give you the bad news amigo, the say men hit their sexual peak at 18. All down hill from here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think I have hit my peak yet.... What ever that means.
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RHP User
12 years ago
35 and still peaking :-) although I must say I loved the norty forties... I think it is all about your attitude personally... Good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have always been highly sexed Naughty Forties ... Young enough to flexible & have sexual stamina Old enough to know what you want & how you want it Getting Closer to Filthy Fifties ... God help you Babe :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
The commonly referenced phrase "may" say a mans physical sexual peak is 18... .... but as sex and sexuality is a very mental process... I have to admit that as I age, it keeps improving with knowledge and experience. At 18, I thought I knew sex. At 42, I know a LOT more about the things I didn't know that I didn't know. ;-) DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Of course... Hence my comment about my peak. What does it even really mean? Everyone's sexual development is individual to them. I certainly know lots of women who have hit their 40's an have started to really experiment with sex and to explore their sexuality. Much more than men who are mostly pretty straight and vanilla.... Well that's my interpretation based on a very limited information I guess. I think more women are experimental than men. True or not??
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madotara69
12 years ago
We are counting on you with this one, Could possibly become your greatest deed to the better of mankind!?&*..?MadoOh hello Meeka, hehe, and thanks very much, you have got me right in the shit with Miss Freya, so I have to go hide once again.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just reading a book review about "what women want" he makes an interesting point, that men are not restricted in their sexual expression unlike women who are forced into some good girl mould or taught to act in certain ways so it can take much longer for some women to feel free to experiment sexually. Well they are my words, but the point is the same. Possibly a reason more women start experimenting later in life... And dare I say start admitting they are bored of their husbands and their sex life. (Lol ... Being cheeky)
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RHP User
12 years ago
All up hill from here xknots
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RHP User
12 years ago
I married late, had children late, at 53 I have an 8 and 11 year old ! It must be good for me as post marriage and 50 has been the richest, deepest, most vivid purple patch of my life. And I know with certainty the best is yet to come !
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hope it keeps getting better and better... I think the older I get the more sexual I become. The sex is better as I get older because I've left my inhibitions behind and I know what and whom I want/like as opposed to being younger and content with bad or disappointing sexual experiences, because I did not know any better.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I've always been highly sexual.... I did start exploring more in my mid 30's - both mr cheeky n I did. As for age and sex, depends on your comfort zone.... Depends on your lifestyle, confidence and how you want to live your life...
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Plain280
12 years ago
Nah you keep on improving as you get older, it is just folly to say you can shag like a jack rabbit as if you are 18 all through your life, then again it also depends on the partner highly subjective. I am afraid, there are some guys and dare I say it ladies out there, that have had limited partners in life and dont know any better apart from what they have experienced sadly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
the eternal optimist,the best is yet to cum
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is key I believe. If we are healthy and interested, then our sex life should keep improving. Hp xo 💌 I'm only here for the forums...
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RHP User
12 years ago
My sex life was as flat as china.I had given up hope of ever wanting sex again. then bingo, RHP and men who were patient and willing get me to where I needed to go.For every one it comes and it goes, depending on what life is throwing at you.Bad health, kids , stress from work and trying to feed your family, over worked , trying to be all things to all people.this is why women and guys sometimes go off the boil. Then something sparks in their mind, something gets all the libido. going.I think I may have had a peak this morning, god plumbers are hot! RHP does that, it fires up the possibilities.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Just reading a book review about "what women want" he makes an interesting point, that men are not restricted in their sexual expression unlike women who are forced into some good girl mould or taught to act in certain ways so it can take much longer for some women to feel free to experiment sexually. Well they are my words, but the point is the same. Possibly a reason more women start experimenting later in life... And dare I say start admitting they are bored of their husbands and their sex life. (Lol ... Being cheeky) Peer pressure. I would masturbate myself silly when younger, but with a guy nothing would happen.Here am in trying to be the good girl, while in bed. The usual I don't do this often, so please respect me, what a load of crap.If you went for it in the bedroom, you were a slut and not wife material. So most girls had to lie or play hard to get.And women are the most judgemental to others. I would not even hint of what I do to my straight friends.The only ones I ever am open and honest with are the women friends on RHP.two worlds will collide for me with ugly consequences.I was squished int a mould, and I was called a slut at 13 just because of the way I was built.My fathers friends could not keep their hands off me, so I shrunk into myself.when a woman hits forty, she has usually had her kids she has a job she is feeling safe and she looks around and saysnow its my turn and she lets go. Well the brave ones do.the others shrivel up and die like grapes on a vine.I am to make fine wine with my sexuality for as long as I can.LadyT...come dance in the barrel of grapes with me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now that I'm over 40 , I can confidently say : "I'm not afraid to ask for what I want in bed" (& other RHP Template Gems). Something for you to look forward to Op ;) And as for someone reaching their "Peak" , Stamina & Skill are two different things . With Age comes Knowledge . What is more desirable ? Someone who can fuck badly ... All night long ? Or Someone who can fuck brilliantly? Quality or Quantity ? At my age , I just know more . I've had more Experience . That makes me more Confident . Therefore , Sex is better . & I'm really enjoying it ! GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've only just started ... mwoooooaaaahh ha ha ha ha ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
when people talk of a sexual peak it can be really misleading. It think it makes people anticipate that it 'should' get better or that somehow they're missing out on some key ingredient. It is what it is at whatever point in life that you are. Libido is a fickle creature.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The best sex ive ever had was only recently at the ripe old age of 27, i believe age is only a number the rest is all in your head. im as fit, if not fitter than i was at 18, im certainly richer and more grounded, i travel 10x more than i used too and i think im by far happier at 27 than i was at 18, im looking forward to my 30's and 40's. Those who calculate age into their relationship only limit their possibilities.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me it seems to be a perfect storm of confidence, experience, and maturity aided by libido and a healthy dash of curiosity, naughty boy and total indifference to what the mainstream thinks and does. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was told at 18 that I wasn't going to peak sexually until my 30s. I remember thinking 'Pffft, as if I could get any better and as if sex could get any better'. Boy was I proven wrong I will admit though, for me, it's far more about having someone I'm comfortable with and who I trust than just pure biology. My appetite has grown as I have gotten older and my ability to know what I want and not being afraid to ask for it has definitely been noticed, but I wouldn't be who I am without my husband's support
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RHP User
12 years ago
I thought I had peaked when I had my first 'o' at 19. Now I think if I peak any further I will be wearing either a witches or a dunce hat!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Am going to say "Peak" has nothing to do with age and has everything to do with the larger, greyer organ ....On the flip side I have never heard of someone who said they had the best sex ever with someone they had no connection with. So in some respects I think its just as dependant on you as it is with the person/s you are with.Also is down to perspective. What seems like the best at some point in life can quickly change or be replaced when looking back over time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well I done know about 40 but I just turned 30 in June and its like my sex drive went through the roof!!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had this thought recently at one of those fun runs - you know, crazy people running 10 odd km for "fun"... but hey - all ages, all shapes, and (as usual) my thought ventured to people's ability in other areas - how good are they at sex? As you can tell - the 18 year olds were not all taking the first positions, in fact men physically when it comes to endurance in long distance running peak in early to mid 30's (not sure about women). But there were some 18 year olds carrying more than average weight (good for them to coming to do a run - or perhaps more of a walk at times but great effort) and they would have had trouble keeping up with 60 year olds who were passing them by at times in swift speed. Anyway, I guess to cut the story short this is a very individual ability - ask yourself this question "If I met my younger (18 y.o) self how would you rate yourself from the other point of view of the opposite sex?"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Good person (or people) stunning timing and amazing nights = best sex evar!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm 51 on Saturday. And I've got to say life has never been better. I was not looking forward to turning 50 - now I don't want to leave it behind. I've had a great year!! I had a baby at 40 uh oh. Yeah OH MY GOD hear we go again. 8 years between the two youngest!! Life did begin again at 40 in more ways than one. But by 50 wow it was fantastic. I learnt to experiment more and relax and enjoy!! Gypsy💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
for me, this was the pattern....16-25 a few boyfriends, learnt new things, mucked around as much as possible, late nights, no real responsibilities....then moved out of Sydney, more settled, 27-40 child rearing, marriage, separation, not much time for "me"! Present- kids are older, im comfortable in my skin, have time to find 'me 'again, ready to explore, having loads of fun!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Happy birthday gypsy, have yourself a smashing weekend xo. Hp xo 💌 I'm just here for the forums...
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Coops27M
12 years ago
Not sure if i've peaked or not but at the moment i feel like having sex with anything that moves.... Wait what was that?! BRB False alarm, was just a shadow :(- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
32 still have the sex drive of a 16 yr old as long as my partners cums and keeps cuming it can only get better- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Still peaking , certainly does peak after 40 , especially after a ten year sexless marriage , or maybe that was it .
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you are open to learning there are a myriad of experiences to be had age is irrelevant
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks HP - I plan to 😄😄😄 Never come by this way again!! Gypsy😘- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I was young it was about quantity, notches on the bed head if you like.... Now its about quality and mutual satisfaction. Far less inhibitions as you get older on both sides of the fence...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nortynorty ur just a year older than me.. We got a while to get to that age bracket, we've barely finished puberty lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have recently come out of a 7 year relationship and "hooked up" with a 40 y/o and must say it was refreshing to be with someone who was comfortable with them selfs and new what she wanted. So maybe it's not a sex drive thing more so being comfortable with them selfs?? My 2 cents :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
😜- Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Women just keep peaking from mid-30's onwards into thier 50's and 60's look at some of the amazingly hot ladies in that genre' on this site. Men don't hit the height of thier sexual power until 35 (yes gents that's a fact) then it's up to the quality and life experiences of that individual whether or not they continue to grow as Lions among Men OR if they revert backwards until they are 50 somethings with the mentality of a 15yo girl......so, there you have it Men. ~ insert wickedly delightful laughter here ~
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On_Safari
12 years ago
In answer to your question HELL YES the greatest sex comes in your 40's onwards!!!!
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Coops27M
12 years ago
Only 12 and a bit years to go.. Sounds like i have a lot to look forward to. :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
18 huh? Im still peaking :s does it mean I'm still 18? :)
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TrymeonForsize
12 years ago
The best sex of my life ........ Began after I'd left my husband lol:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
My sexuality as come alive since reaching 40, I threw away all my bullshit inhibitions I learnt from my very conservative parents who couldn't make a marriage work anyway (mines been going for 24 years) and started enjoying more sex than I ever have before with my husband and other men!Damn sure I'm not going to stop any time soon either lol!
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TrymeonForsize
12 years ago
I hit 40.......... & was introduced to the delightfully hedonistic world of RHP....... Have never looked back :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess I'll have to let you know next year :)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Fantasyplus
12 years ago
I have always been highly sexual. 20's were the experimental years (swinging, orgies, you name it I did it...with hubby :) ) Dirty 30's...currently 32 and finally have my mojo back after eating wedding cake and having kids (I blame it on my body image...I was fat and not comfortable within myself). I know what I want and get what I want Naughty Forties...too far off for me to think about...but Hubby is 10years older than me...so is he peaking with me when I peak or will his downhill slide start before mine???
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lets find out i say- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
stay healthy bro and its all good
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RHP User
12 years ago
Pmsl (rather both of us) its not that peeps hit there peak it's more as we become of ate we become more open n trying without cause of hesitations or reservations? We have been nudist for like ever n have enjoyed the swingers party's for few years now but sadly as we have aged its no longer desired to be with older couple? So no u don't peak u just become honest ? And that's honest to ur self???
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RHP User
12 years ago
As an add in to our last post ? One of us is an ex stripper one of is is an ex truck driver and one of us is marketing manager... Does these things slow us down n make us dull
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RHP User
12 years ago
I never got going until I was 35 and now im in my 40's its amazing
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im 35 and used to think damn its been and gone and i didnt have enough sex bit Noway..i think im having the best sex ever now and i think its only going to get better..Having been w alot of young girls and older WOMAN sex can only get better..older firls now what they want and are more comfortable asking for it..and young ones get hooked on you because guys their age just arent cutting it..So sex for me is getting better and my stamina is far greater now than when i was 18 or 28 so just look forward to what u have cumming ur way- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
My lady has passed the half Century mark and is more demanding than ever... I'm going to have to get some "Chemical" Help the way She's going.... But rather that than She go completely the other way and want Nothing!!!
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mule916
12 years ago
I'm nearly 40 and I'm just starting to get to the top off the hill not the peak yet I'm horny then a young boy. Sorry ladies some blokes can defie the normal
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fuck Yeah, lol !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'u6me9' Pmsl (rather both of us) its not that peeps hit there peak it's more as we become of ate we become more open n trying without cause of hesitations or reservations? We have been nudist for like ever n have enjoyed the swingers party's for few years now but sadly as we have aged its no longer desired to be with older couple? So no u don't peak u just become honest ? And that's honest to ur self??? I would hardly call you an older couple!! Seriously you guys are still young!
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madotara69
12 years ago
When you are in love, It does not matter what age you are.Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
Did we really expect any guy in here to say..."yep, I'm a shadow of my 18yo self.... I'm like a worn out piston with half the pump, half the time....and some days, the inly way i can get it up is to do a handstand" Really??? lol
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