Ustwo71

Ustwo71

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Dont be Vanilla

April 30 2026

Hi all, my wife said to me on a date night…. Don’t be vanilla. What is and isn’t vanilla…. We talked about it and have our own ideas but just putting it out there to see what others think

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    one month ago

    IMO, what wifey is getting at is that “vanilla” is just a baseline. She's hinting and communicating for you to step outside your comfort zone and try a little spice. AKA Don't be boring on the date try to impress the other. Kinks and fetishes are extra spicey, delicious toppings, but only if everyone involved actually consents to various flavouring toppings. But if your not interested communicate because sometimes vanilla is quite nice on its own. Ms Foxy

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    one month ago

    Vanilla seems to have lots of meanings for different people. The usual definition is Vanilla = boring. Kinky = exciting, seductive, something different. I don’t agree with these as I’ve always thought of “kink” as something that doesn’t come naturally to most people, only some. It’s a different way of approaching sex. Things like power play and special interests. Swinging, sensuality and group sex is super vanilla IMO. Just tastier than your average.

  • nutsundae

    nutsundae

    one month ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    27 days ago

    Do you massage her? Go down on her?

  • bootyDD

    bootyDD

    21 days ago

    I use vanilla to describe more conservative, tradional people.