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Double standards......
November 09 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey I am all for it if I meet someone from here I would hope that something can develop but then again I have had a relationship develop from FB too so hmmm I think this is a topic that can go both ways tho there are alot of women on this site just looking for one off encounters and wouldnt let something develop either so Im not so sure it is double standards
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well I have me standards, Sweet.. hehe... and I'[m sure I left 'em around here on this sex site somewhere! Seems to me... some guys want to screw a looker but marry their mother... Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Complete joke, double standards, hypocrisy.Anyone who is of this opinion doesn't deserve any other member's time.If they meet up for a quickie and then don't want to persue, that's fine, but it's not fine if the reason is because they are 'on a sex site.' I'd like to see said persons reaction if they met a chick they really like who threw it back in their face, maybe then they'd realise how silly they're being. If they sat down and thought about why the wouldn't date a girl they met from RHP then put themselves in the other person's shoes they would surely have second thoughts.If they still stick to this way of thinking then they're not worth anyone's love anyhow. It's a very selfish and arrogant set of principles.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've known plenty of guys like this, they act like an absolute slut in their single days but will only marry a girl if she's squeaky clean. Don't worry sweet, these guys although usually very suave are pretty much all tossers and not worth your time.I remember on some other topics guys have stated that they can't understand why couples would swing and they never would as a couple but then they have it on their profile that they want to meet up with couples, go figure!Sweet, we think you'd be fine marrying stock, you just have to find an open guy who can keep up with you!
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Well I can't se how meeting someone on a dating site can be any different, or have any more relavence to a long term relationship requremnt, Than meeting someone at a pub, park, church group, or otherwise........! Once more....Silly people,with silly requirements and ideals.......Block ......Delete........problem solved......Actually you should thank them for the dick head warning ! Love and peace Tam.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I blame it on the "Professionals" ! Trev <<< not having a go at Peachy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Tossers loosers wankers hypocrites not worth your time and energy ...your to good for them..and as tam..said Block....Delete......Thank goodness they gave you the dick head warning.Karma will bite em xoxoxo heymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
This is where i meet John, ( coopersmydog) and we are a full on polyamory relationship now. It is the best thing ever, and thanks rhp. So yes guys do pick up girls on this sex site....lol Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yep could be Trish...little boys playing at being men with big egos...a real man wouldnt care if he met his woman on here.Leezas" real men"..have proved it!!..Like many other guys that have or are on here.... xoxox heymumma......think i need a name change..lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
well sweet p,to put it bluntly,l would rather be in a serious relationship with a "slut" than the "nice girl next door".why would anyone with a high sex drive want to be with the nice girl.i think this would lead to either cheating on the partner or a life of sexual frustration.i envy couples that have absolutely no inhibitions like many here.to me,you just cant get more intimate than that...........xxx D
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RHP User
16 years ago
A girl got married some time back, her new man was so proud of his pure as snow wife to be; She told him she was practically a virgin, i thought she would get hit lightning the second she walk in the church, We are all squeaky clean when we what to be. these type of men deserve everything they get.....Amen.
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RHP User
16 years ago
pfffft... NEXT!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i know a few guys on here in particular that have double standards for girls, yet they think theyre gods fuckn gift. all i can say to them is pull your head out your ass, and realise we can do exactly what you do and most of the time do it better... love you sweeet xoxoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
yes well I agree with coupleint. A lot of Guys have double standards, and I think a lot are intimidated by a women who show sexual freedom. I say bring it on, Im secure enough with my sexuality and would like a polyamory relationship. Im amazed at the amount of wanking on cam here, I cant see how a women would find that appealing, but thats me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Would never ever think of finding partner from a sex site,Who knows who they have been with?lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks all for your wonderful responses....Through a personal experience and mainly because of a girlfriend of mine on here that I asked this question. It has been eating at me for while now.... Leesa babe....You are a lovely woman who has helped opened my eye since my first days of being in chatroom..(ya all shocked the hell outta me when I first started going there..LOL..)..So glad I stuck with perving there even though I don't hardly get in there now. xxxx Tease babe...You are a lovely lady who is wiser than your years..love ya back..xxxxxxxxx Puppy...Thanks but I don't want to get married again..lol...Just would like a best friend to share our lives with.xxxxx Dredds...Where the heck to you spring out from lol? Bunbury dude!! ..lol.... Thankyou to you all for responing....xooxoxoxoxx Embracing life ............ sweetpetite41 oxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
guys and girls have the double standards when u mention u were talking to a guy on the net, or even meeting someone of a date site. Hell its just like going to the pub and meeting them only u can discuss alot more and let your inner devil show thru on the net.!!! Before u meet. !!! If u had ve asked me what l thought about meeting someone on the net four years ago l wouldve smilled and said not for me thanks, now god!!! what would l do without it?!!!! let those prim and proper little"" boys let thier mums pick thier wife out for them, let me do the window shopping and taste testing myself thanks...!!! not that l ll ever get married ( damaged by a control freak), but hey its fun just getting to know new people without the hassles of going out all the time, and sweetpetite41, gazniceguy,sopie,dredds,gaz,puppy and all u other deviates out there, keep it coming, u make it worthwhile.!!! cheers redhotallikat
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RHP User
16 years ago
sweetp......you are a sweetpI like to think that my behavior in the chat rooms has helped a lot of new peeps.I love chatting and making sure everyone is having a bit of a laughI dont go in much anymore lately either due to work commitments, but when i do , i enjoy seeing all the old hands, and the new ones, and helping people get into the swing of things....pardon the pun..Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok..I just got home and checked messages...I wa thinking about a guy in Bunbury that I have been exchanging messages for a few weeks now. I was up front to him and said I am not interested in a casual fling..I would prefer a friend to socialize with..If that turned into something more then fine.. Well....Surpise Surprise Surprise ( Gomer Pyle..lol) ..He told me that he would be honest too and said he would only consider a friendship or something casual as he is on a *Conventional dating site* in the hopes he would meet a woman for long term commitment...... OK...who shocked?? I naturally told him ..pfftt...men with double standards...And that I am a good person/mother with good morals..who just happens to like bedroom antics... So...to you.. you silly man!! I wish you many a starfish night... bwahahahahaha.. oohh...I feel better now....Ok off to Taekwondo...focus on postive ..woohooo!!! sweetpetite41.. P. S....Leesa have ya seen Gaz's post on Xmas..ROFL...xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
It makes me smile how people think that people on sex dating sites are sluts or not worthy of relationships.Some people just like to chat naughty and watch, is that so wrong.It is the same stereo type in the swinging scene, people still think that the average swingers party is made up of old guys wanking in the corner and dirty smelling nasty sex orgies everywhere.Just for once i wish people would understand that you can be a "nice girl"lol and go on a sex site, and might i say i have not met a NON nice girl yet in person.Sweetp, dont waste your time on those that wish to change you or judge you, for god sake i have been judged so many times for owning a swingers club you cant imagine the shit i get.But the best part is, i know who i am, noone else does. I know that i enjoy my life and even though i own a swingers club i dont play and simply enjoy my life outside that area.Yes i have had some fun, and yes i will continue to have fun with my guys, but i wont allow anyone to judge me or try and change me as i am who i am, and that is simply Leesa. ( mother, grandmother, lover, friend, and a swingers club owner, oh and a building designer and website owner) Just plain little old me.So sweetp.....dont change for anyone, dont allow others to make you feel 2nd best. you are a wonderful and shining star, amongst so much hurt and pain in the world, keep your chin up and look for someone that will love you for YOU and simply dont take second best babe.Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree to some extent but I also disagree..if u meet someone off a "sex site" and u click rlly well with them then why not date them? but bcoz they hav a profile or internet profiles the trust issue cud be hard
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RHP User
16 years ago
i agree that trust could be an issue but I can be a little naive that way, or perhaps I prefer to be... in that I will trust someone until they give me a reason really not to. And yeah, i think that if you meet someone and click with them, theres no reason why a relationship couldnt develop from meeting someone off this, or any other site - you just have to be open to it and let it happen.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm guessing that the people here who enjoy sex to the hilt and have no hangups are those with a demonstrated healthy libido and mental attitude to suit. Also guess that guys that want a bad girl in the bed but want to marry a good girl, have concerns about fidelity. The question is how to be both? People on this site are more likely to be open to swinging, so that offers the best of both worlds. My main concern about a lady who has had an infinite number of partners, is that she be healthy and disease free, not damaged by her experiences, willing to go home with me and wants me in her life. Consider it a wonderful compliment to have a lady who has experienced it all, but is happy and content to be mine.
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RHP User
16 years ago
your best bet, if your the sort of person who what's a long term relationship, is starting in a like minded community.and i don't understand the trust issue re; the net.. when you meet someone, surely you like them for what they are. why would you ask them to change? anyway i think trust is a misused word in relationships. i think it has much more to do with honesty and less to do with flirting/shagging or whatever you do on the net. the confusion come from people not being honest about sex.. not the act.LRE (don't change)
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