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Duckfaces, Snapchat filters, “ask me”, don’t take life serious...

September 15 2019

I may be opening Pandora’s box here... Does anyone find it immature and disturbing that adults post photos of themselves with whiskers and animal ears effects? And we have men on our homepage posing with duckfaces. Men, with duckfaces. These are grown up people. Do you think extending your lips that way will get you what you want? Does any woman find this attractive? “Ask me” is another one. What makes people think everyone else will run to their feet to learn about them? Just tell people what you are into. “I don’t take life serious” is my favorite to hate. What does this mean? That nothing will happen to you if you live your life like a joke? Did you try crossing a busy road without checking if any cars are coming your way? You’ll find out pretty fast that life takes you serious enough to kill you even though you don’t take it serious yourself. What annoys you with profiles? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ask me.....laziness Doggy ears and bunny ears.....not cute if you are over 21 Guys posing with big fish...? No photos at all....zero interest And...." lets face it, we are all here for the same reason". No we are not. Just a few of my pet dislikes. X

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yep, spot on.

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    6 years ago

    "Dont take life serious" means they like having fun and are easy going, not that they have complete disregard for their safety, take a chill pill! 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Wow! ..someone get up on the wrong side of the bed.. 😜 ..but yes, Snapchat filters are totally false advertising.. ..and guys pouting lips to me.justvsays your slightly gay.. and you possibly don't realise it..

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    6 years ago

    Oh thank you for the giggles....if you want to know more..just ask me! 😂

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    I find them immature, childish and pointless as well. Another pet peeve is just having NO photos whatsoever.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Nothing annoys me to be honest.... Other people’s profiles are no real different to mine in that it’s merely a vehicle with which they use to get themselves out there... Who am I to say how they drive it??

  • Supernova

    Supernova

    6 years ago

    Agree with everything you’ve said. When I see people with Snapchat filters , I basically see someone with the mental maturity of a 15 year old 🤷‍♂️ In fact, filters in general are just ridiculous. I don’t think in the last five years I’ve met one person who was attractive as their touched-up photos...it’s ALWAYS a let down . All you really achieve by scoring a date with enhanced photos is dissapointing your date when they meet you!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Like no reply is a reply, whatever is or isn’t on a profile tells a story, the interpretation of that is up to you. Agree with above, take a chill pill.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Particular to all forms of social media now, filters that people that apply to their photos to make them look younger, make the lighting less harsh, smooth out their skin etc. You are fooling absolutely nobody, the photos look doctored and it looks like you have something to hide (usually age-related). I have an old high school friend who posts doctored selfies on Facebook all the time and it is just embarrassing. Profile pics that are ill-advised is another. It really should not have to be explained that an out-of-focus pic of your wife's vag at extreme close-up doesn't really do anything for me. The old ''nude selfie taken in the bathroom mirror'' (almost exclusively the domain of the blokes) tends to imply that you are in a relationship and your missus knows nothing about you being on here. I tend to not place any particular emphasis on the main body of their profile blurb. As in The Actual Real World, you can get quiet types that say a lot with little, noisy types that talk plenty but say nothing. Simple can be just as good as detailed, but only so long as it's coherent and gives you at least a basic idea of the type of person you are looking at. My particular bug bear is people who may otherwise be quite intelligent coming across as an imbecile in their messages. I sort of have this rule for people over the age of 40 - those that use txt spk can just fuck right off. We have full QWERTY keyboards on our phones now, there are no character limits to a message anymore, haven't been for a very long time (since the advent of the smart phone) so there is absolutely no reason at all to use abbreviations. "U'' instead of ''you'' is the classic example - how hard is it to add two extra letters? Ditto ''R''. When I get messages like ''how r u" or ''what u up to'' from anybody, regardless of age, I am sorry but that person is dead to me. Some might see that as quite irrational, but it demonstrates laziness to me and that person is probably going to be a waste of time. Don't even get me started on ''lol'' - I have to endure this particularly vile abbreviation as it is so prolific. I simply would not converse with anybody if I drew the line on this unfortunately but my heart simply sinks when I get an otherwise articulate message, here or elsewhere, from someone and they stick ''lol'' on the end, or in the middle, or whatever. It's like finding out that the queen likes to smoke a durrie while she takes a shit, just ruins it for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    OkeyDokey45 Your comment wins internet anyday : )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Usebi&Curiousgirl; I am very chilled, I don’t need a chill pill : )

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    I think public tiolet selfies...ridiculous! Ms Foxy PS My cats bum is cuter. 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yes If I see one that has a car in it I assume that they are a tranformer

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If anything on a profile annoyed me my first question would be to myself.Something along the lines of "How the hell did this trivial shit gain enough value and importance to annoy me?".I suspect the answer would have nothing to do with whats in peoples profiles.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We read profiles to see it theres any attraction. To say nothing about anyones profiles bothers you is strange....in that case we would all be willing to accept every profile on here. Profiles give us personal choice in what we like/dislike about people, and as we are all different then there is obviously scope for likeminded people to meet. There are things about certain profiles on here that make me think Id probably never meet that person, and Im sure my profile is too tame for most of the men on here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'TheQuiet1' If anything on a profile annoyed me my first question would be to myself.Something along the lines of "How the hell did this trivial shit gain enough value and importance to annoy me?".I suspect the answer would have nothing to do with whats in peoples profiles. I find the older I get, the big shit worries me less and less - it's the small things that burn my arse.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    Profiles are like people's faces. No need to get annoyed by them. Lol. @OkeyDoke

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    No pics, no information, profiles or messages full of errors or short cutted e.g. how r u? Plus size people saying they are athletic or slim. Plus size people only wanting athletic or slim partners. Dick pics, pussy pics. People ignoring messages makes me say no to them if we accidentally meet them at a party or meet and greet. I detest being ignored.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Koko... Yes nothing irritates me about people’s profiles at all...it’s not my profile to be that invested into in order to feel angry or upset at...and I’ve not read a profile yet that aims to cause distress or pain to others... Sure I see many profiles that I’d not contact for sure....but I’m sure that would be the case for my profile too, and I’d expect that other people wouldn’t be upset or irritated just because my profile isn’t what they wanted to see...I’d find that rather strange that someone would be so agrivated by what I’ve written instead of merely seeing it for what it is..... Sure it could be a misinterpretation if the information being asked, but if I’m asked if people’s profiles annoy me, then no they don’t annoy me....but I think being annoyed is somewhat different to the age old topic of “what kind of profiles do I choose not to contact or reply to?” Don’t you think ??

  • Rubyt25

    Rubyt25

    6 years ago

    I'll make sure I post this disclaimer -- This is for entertainment purposes only --- hahaha

  • Rubyt25

    Rubyt25

    6 years ago

    if a profile isn't someones cup of tea swipe on and away, no point in getting ones knickers in a twist. You will always find another one that will make up for those that annoy you. 🙂🙂 Quoting 'The_Antichrist' Koko... Yes nothing irritates me about people’s profiles at all...it’s not my profile to be that invested into in order to feel angry or upset at...and I’ve not read a profile yet that aims to cause distress or pain to others... Sure I see many profiles that I’d not contact for sure....but I’m sure that would be the case for my profile too, and I’d expect that other people wouldn’t be upset or irritated just because my profile isn’t what they wanted to see...I’d find that rather strange that someone would be so agrivated by what I’ve written instead of merely seeing it for what it is..... Sure it could be a misinterpretation if the information being asked, but if I’m asked if people’s profiles annoy me, then no they don’t annoy me....but I think being annoyed is somewhat different to the age old topic of “what kind of profiles do I choose not to contact or reply to?” Don’t you think ??

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    6 years ago

    If you're going to skip on the cats bum / duck face poses, that eliminates at least 50% of the profiles on Tinder :p

  • Rubyt25

    Rubyt25

    6 years ago

    I haven't been in yonks, whilst I'm hopeless at setting up a rod ie; line, hook and sinker, I'm ok at putting the bait on the hook. I've hooked a few native fish in my time and hooked more carp than the native fish though, with regards to my fishing technique I'm pretty good at getting the line snagged and loosing the hook lol. So keep an eye out for a the possibility of a new profile pic of me holding up my catch of the elusive Murray Cod the biggest one ever caught in Australia -- LOL --- well that's the plan.If I am correct I'll be the 1st woman on RHP to post a pic posing with a fish --- 😁😁 Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Guys posing with big fish...?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Is usually how it's stated.It's a generalization obviously. Misstating and misconstruing it in order to ridicule it only reduces its effectiveness for you. It's a philosophy that applies to this thread and is an effective mental health tactic. Duckface might look like an idiot to me but he might be right up miss cat ears alley.What's that got to do with me and what business do i have being annoyed about it?How is a snapchat filter different to the chin up to hide the jowl and other well known selfie techniques or the more subtle,natural looking filters a professional photographer uses? If no photo doesn't affect the outcomes for the person with no photo why should they have one just to please me?If people with no photo are messaging me how are they supposed to know i may have a problem with that unless i tell them? I,m not here to tell anyone how to suck eggs because i sure as hell wouldn't tolerate them telling me how to suck mine.So i do them the same courtesy i expect. I,m not going to waste my precious time feeling negative emotions over things i have no control over, that have negligible to no effect on my life and in most cases aren't even about me. Letting profiles annoy me would be unhealthy psychology in my opinion. So i don't take them too seriously.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Im not too bothered by filters or profiles either. My profile is as lame as lame can get. I really don't think a profile maketh the person, generally speaking. I met a guy once. Nice enough profile brochure, BUT he left out the fine print or ot was the said brochure got stuck in the printer. Anyway a few months later the damn printer became unstuck and WOAH. As for the snap chat and insta "makeovers:" Some one introduced me to them the other day..... Yeah a bit of a laugh and fun, tho not for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Profiles that strike a negative chord only help us to move on to the next one. Maybe "bothers" isnt the right word........but honestly Ive looked at some and felt uncomfortable.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    FFS.....🤓

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don't do drama. That comment gives me a twitch. What would happen if something dramatic happened though? You've already run for hills? You clam up? You won't be the shoulder to lean on? Yes, run along and away from me, quickly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    One persons juvenile is someone else’s lightheartedness. Ce la vie.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Yes, "I don't do drama" statement, to me is red flags - an avoider. What I'm hearing is those who state, can not handle life's ups and downs or daily life pressures avoid it like the plague, including in their jobs, relationships etc. Everything to them is too much hassle. They are not very stable at making decisions and are Very unreliable. Ms Foxy

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    6 years ago

    I don’t get perturbed by much but the f’ing duck faces suck dogs balls! If you have naturally full lips then you can be grateful you possess a certain beauty. Unless you’re aiming for a humorous Blue Steel then excessive pouting just makes you look stupid, fillers and over stretching lipstick above the vermillion line doesn’t fool anyone either. Of course this is only my thin lipped opinion 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Foxy and Sexy.... 😁 I don't do drama either. Doesnt mean I'm in avoidance mode and can't deal with lifes issues... . Means I seriously can not be fucked with it. Id rather walk away and stay happy. My view is why create drama when things can be solved in a calm manner... I choose to be happy, not in some drama usually caused by inability to communicate effectively or honestly OR it's someone else's baggage. ✌🌻✌

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    6 years ago

    I hate ask me but I don’t let it bother me I just don’t ask. I love Snapchat and the filters are funny. I don’t post them on my profile however. It’s like photoshopping your pics. Don’t take life too seriously 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think its a throw away line that people over use and can’t really define anymore. Personally I prefer to say that life is for living and enjoyment and stress and drama is not welcome in my life anymore. I like to laugh lots and love often.