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Edging

July 13 2014

Lately I've been working on my technique of edging myself during masturbation (google if you don't know what that is), I've realised its given me amazing orgasms and a lot more cum. It takes a lot of will power to not orgasm but when I do its incredible. It is a time consuming effort but well worth it. Does anyone else do it? and do you do it during sex? I haven't tried it yet but would like to. do you know your point of no return?

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  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Edging for us is what takes sex into that euphoria, luckily both of us can cum easily which is a good thing, however by taking the time too build each other up by edging means that we can be off with the fairies for hours. We know each other so well and in turn have learnt how too edge each other along, it is something rather special when it becomes a two way thing and yes the orgasms are way more intense. Grape seed oil, plenty of it sure helps. Mado mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    can be great but I don't cum so easily so it is really annoying to know you are almost there but it may not happen.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    every time its the best way to have sex its so much better than wam bam thank you mam

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    11 years ago

    There is something intoxicating about taking a man to the edge and keeping him there, building the pleasure and the anticipation. Back off a little, start again. Repeat as long as you can... which is as long as his control holds.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'kissk' There is something intoxicating about taking a man to the edge and keeping him there, building the pleasure and the anticipation. Back off a little, start again. Repeat as long as you can... which is as long as his control holds. His control or yours?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The secret to orgasmic potential is related to the strength of your pelvic floor muscles...... ejaculation, and orgasm do not have to be the same thing.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There's nothing quite like that release after holding yourself there for a while. I've yet to meet someone who can break my self control but never met a guy who has such a high level of self control that he can do this.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I never allow myself to cum the first few times on the edge. Particularly if I want to have a mad orgasm :) Mind you, the older I get the longer I seem to be able to go. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' The secret to orgasmic potential is related to the strength of your pelvic floor muscles...... ejaculation, and orgasm do not have to be the same thing..... Correct!

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    11 years ago

    I only heard this term recently I need to do some self education I think.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Little kids were given a marshmallow and told they could eat it now, or save it for fifteen minutes and get an extra one. I'm the kind of gal that would scoff the marshmallow immediately.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I had some spare time this morning and did it. Was quite amazing, I love the anticipation of it and I didn't watch porn I just let my mind wander and I find that works best. I like it when Im ready and when I do cum its thick and big and the orgasm was incredible. I highly recommend trying it, you will stuff it up a few times and go to far but I sometimes just let go of it and watch it shoot out on my, it hits my chest now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Was with guys who practise edging... And one who liked to keep me on edge... I like looooonnnnggg sessions. God I love it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But yes, I have done this with my lover many times when I'm in control and on top. Usually I will tell him I'm not ready for him to cum yet and to cum only when I say so, or he's not yet hard enough for me. I let just the head of his cock inside me, lifting myself off him... then on...off then on...teasing only the purple head. After a few slow strokes, I slide myself right down hard onto his swollen shaft, squeezing my muscles around him... rock a few times then lift myself off him, and hearing his weak protests, only to repeat the whole process again I don't stick to any pattern but keep him guessing as to when I will slide all the way down and watch the surprise in his eyes as they roll to the back of his head. After a few rounds of this, we are both in a sweat and I'm ready to cum and he is begging me to let him cum. The orgasms are more intense for both of us this way, but it's always such a turn-on to watch and feel the spasms that erupt and take over his entire body each time. (It's also a great workout for the calves, thighs and buttocks for me. It's what you call sexercise)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That motorized gardning tool with a cutting wheel looks way too violent for any sexual act.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'kissk' There is something intoxicating about taking a man to the edge and keeping him there, building the pleasure and the anticipation. Back off a little, start again. Repeat as long as you can... which is as long as his control holds. His control or yours? haha! True! Test everyone's control

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sound amazing with a partner I'm looking for someone who would be patient and finds it appealing , sadly time is an issue and I'm not the type of guy to cum and go I really like to enjoy the experience of sex, I'd need about 2-3 hours to really enjoy it. Lately it's an explosive orgasm much stronger than a normal one.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    BAZINGA! Drives me totally fucking insane.......LOVE IT! Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If my memory serves me correctly, "edging" as it is now called, was first discovered back in the mid 50's by a fellow by the name of Dr Dulles Brinkmann (I think he was an Hungarian sex therapist). I believe that the poor chap self practiced too much and eventually went MAD.Anywho, I think it is bloody brilliant regardless!but if that is edging, then does anyone have a term to describe that delightful moment in time that occurs between the moment you helplessly know you are going to cum, and the moment you actually do?You know, like the delay at the petrol pump between the time you pull the pump trigger to the moment the petrol starts to flow? (and does anyone have a term for that as well?) Obi1

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    However, because I orgasm so easily, I always seemed to take it just that little to far and then the orgasm itself wasn't as satisfying...... Maybe I just need more practice :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have practiced this for a long time now but I just called it prolonging climax. It's easier for women as it's not over if we get pushed over the edge as it can be when a guy is pushed over the edge. Its fun to try and push each other over the edge and trying to not fall off the edge yourself in the process.Xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hi Meander Your funny comment about being the type of gal who would scoff the marshmallow immediately literally made me laugh out loud. Thanks for the free laugh; I appreciate it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hi TonyErotic Like Meander, your funny comment made me literally laugh out loud. As I said to the lady, thanks for the free laugh! I really appreciate it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A man who doesn't cum and go? God, I didn't think such a creature existed on this planet. (Or, if he did, he was hanging out with the unicorns.) Two-three hours to enjoy sex?! YES!! LOATHE 'wham, bam, thank you, ma'am'. I am certain you must keep your ladies very happy, Mr SimpleLife 123. Enjoy your edging. And theirs, too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sure why not? Should be a prerequisite for pleasuring a gorgeous woman.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What better way to spend a few hours just on the brink of orgasm, or keeping your partner at that level. It is the bodies own way of manufacturing exctasy. Personally I enjoy keeping a partner at the height of orgasm, using all means necessary, I am sure if we asked a psychologist they would say it was a power/control thing, or maybe a submissive thing. Who cares, just love it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ToowoombaSmoker' A man who doesn't cum and go? God, I didn't think such a creature existed on this planet. (Or, if he did, he was hanging out with the unicorns.) Two-three hours to enjoy sex?! YES!! LOATHE 'wham, bam, thank you, ma'am'. I am certain you must keep your ladies very happy, Mr SimpleLife 123. Enjoy your edging. And theirs, too! I could never just cum and go, I need to relax and chat, I'm the whole package guy when it comes to sex, Id really like to teach a patient lady how to edge me too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Had a two hour session tuesday night and damn, shot myself in the chest lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes! Edging can be amazing. I like do it with partner and used to but not so much solo these days. Sometimes it is on purpose, sometimes with the right partner I get so horny it just happens naturally. Weird I know, but when I'm really on the same wavelength and immersed in my partner I just want to stay in that zone and it happens naturally.I can understand how women try to explain how they enjoy sex even if they don't cum .When/if I do eventually climax it's pretty frkn awesome!! Conversely if I'm not feeling connected or if the other person is of the selfish persuasion I have to concentrate not to cum. Must be unconscious wanting to get out of there or something? I just try and avoid getting tangled with the wrong person at all costs, but you can't always tell what someone is going to like until it is at this stage. Mute point at the moment as I haven't indulged with a new partner for some time. Gawd, I must be in the running for canonisation!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'kissk' There is something intoxicating about taking a man to the edge and keeping him there, building the pleasure and the anticipation. Back off a little, start again. Repeat as long as you can... which is as long as his control holds. Ms Kissk knows what she is talking about.I'd love to experience being tied/restrained by a kinky girl and being brought to the edge and back again and again. I shall NOT be responsible for any stains on the ceiling tho!