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Email ping pong
March 18 2017
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SoftSlowFastHard
9 years ago
I'm not so much in a rush as to get frustrated by an email exchange, but am definitely more frustrated by taking the time to write a decent, polite message which results in someone viewing my profile only to have them block me as their first response...hard to comprehend really - no proposition or lude intent, just a genuine inquiry, and rather than reply at all, or even just ignore my pleasant approach missive if that's their want, but to be blocked for nothing beyond a salutation is plain wrong. Don't get me wrong, it's not like there's a ton of pics or info on the profiles in question that a potential stalker might get worked up by, so it's not like they are protecting their identity or anything by blocking, and it is certainly not like I was visiting their profile repetitively... just hard to understand - if it's my mug they don't like looking at then blocking me is the opposite of what they should do, they should really ask me to block them as, if they consider my appearance so horrible, this would prevent them from being exposed to it! sorry to hijack your email ping pong thread...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Capitalise the 'W' there>"women want to get to know you first" <Add a full stop there. Then hit 'accept this reality', and move on.
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RHP User
9 years ago
She is obviously not on the same page as you, so..... move on and find someone less "fussy" or.... Save your time, money and sanity (and everyone else's) and just get a hooker.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thought he would get a root and hasn't worked out
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RHP User
9 years ago
You really have to consider the girls intentions and personality and to do that it takes a few emails. Then they are either at ease in their mind and ready to meet up and if you are exchanging many messages then she is most likely caught up in the ridiculous amount of options available. Or maybe she is very shy and unsure. Perhaps she is cautious because she has spent many emails back and fourth with others in the past only to find she was lied to and met complete assholes as there are many here. One must respect these things and weigh up in your own mind if your big head has more patience that your little one. Cheers
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RHP User
9 years ago
now looking at my chokito a whole different way 😜 Interesting too, though not surprising, I never look at ingredients 😉 the bad stuff always tastes sooooo good. If he's high in salt or sugar but I'm into him, he goes straight in my shopping basket anyway 😇
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MissRedFox
9 years ago
We like the anticipation of being seduced - you know like it says on your profile Takes a few messages to achieve this XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'MissRedFox' We like the anticipation of being seduced - you know like it says on your profile Takes a few messages to achieve this XX - Posted from rhpmobile OP - you say on your profile you enjoy the anticipation and the buildup to sex... well flirting via email is an important part of that these days. Gone are the sneaky glances or the full on brazen staring across the room!! What a brave new world we inhabit... I'm one of the 'get to know you' brigade. Plus I've been reading ingredients on my food for years!! Deathly allergic to certain foods will do that to a woman..... It's also why I'm a meet first kind of gal. Sometimes it doesn't get past messaging.... sometimes it does and a coffee/drink/meal meeting is set up... then it's a decision on whether that goes any further. The best for me are the walk in the bar/restaurant/cafe and know straight away that it's 'right'. But first you have to get past the messaging..... Oh and for those guys that complain about getting blocked straight away, perhaps you contacted someone that did not want to be contacted by you. It's the on line equivalent of ignoring you and hoping you will go away. My profile says I will block and guess what - I tell the truth! I really have learned to trust my gut .... and ingredients are so important! Best of luck.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PlayNow77'I thought this was a sex site not a dating site? Seems like women want to get to know you first, which I get for safety reasons but surely it shouldn't be this hard right? ...you're likely to find a woman that doesn't want to get to know you first is in a bordello. The women here, these aren't them and personally I wouldn't meet anyone either without a few notes back and forth then speaking on the phone. This site can and does certainly lead to sex however to consider it a given simply because you contact any of the women here is actually quite presumptuous. Best of luck on your quest...... CM
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RHP User
9 years ago
So youre at a night club and you see a woman across the room that is attractive to you. Do you go up to her and say hi, then expect her to come home with you? No. Of course not. You have to show her who you are, make her feel comfortable, chat,flirt,laugh.It will take all night to build up to her even wanting to come home with you. Even then, its not a sure thing. So online can take just as much, if not more effort to get a no strings root. It does happen on occasion. Some ppl are just on here to hook up for a blow and go. But read their profiles. Again....read their profiles!! If they say they need a connection or a spark of attraction, then it needs to build. If it says they like to meet first and play another time, then thats what they like to do. "Give us some pashion and lust for us!!!"
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RHP User
9 years ago
And this is how the proverbial "Player" is created. We have all just told him how to get into our pants. So it will be seduce with everything we want to hear, then the blow&go (also known as bagging a woman) doing zipper up as he runs out saying,"I'll call ya babe" .... Off into the sunset.
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you guys played a little hard to get( selective in who you will fuck) you would probably get more sex anyway. First messages wanting to hook up even before seeing my face is a total turn off for me. Just sayin'
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RHP User
9 years ago
lose the attitude of "entitlement", no one in this world owes you a god damn thing, especially a selective woman on a dating site. Yeah it says dating site.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Grow up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sadly, I'm back to being a guest, so they'll have to ping me for me to pong back 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
The biggest problem on this site with a lot of single guys is a sense of entitlement or expectation. As we relayed recently to one guy just because we are swingers doesn't mean we are a sure thing. As a result he cancelled a meeting we had planned for a week. Sending a dick photo with the text I'm so horny right now does nothing for women or couples. (I'm generalizing so perhaps for a small handful of women but I doubt it) The art of flirting and discrete seduction has been well and truly lost for many (and this isn't even age specific - even the 40+ males think a photo of their junk and a crude line will work) Some email conversation would be expected before meeting. As per a previous post if you are after a sure thing with no communication requirements $350 cash or more will take care of that.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Do you take Visa ? Couldn't help myself , I actually agree with your post.
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RHP User
9 years ago
that I felt I had to add the disclaimer ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Or at least the replies. I'm getting flashbacks to high school and the 'jocks' thinking every girl wants to date him and getting shot done. Except even better as there's almost no one at the she is mistaking sex for love, falling for the 'look at moi'. To the OP if you're willing to change your mindset this site is filled with many wonderful ladies, some of who may, that's may, want to spend time between the sheets with you, if you don't treat them as interchangeable heads on a set of tits and a pussy. And even if you don't hook up with them, you may even find you enjoy just chatting to them. 😯 There's plenty of ladies on the forums that I do a mental 'Damn it! Miss what they want by that much!' after viewing their profile (And too often in the wrong state), but I still enjoy reading the sometimes heated discussions they have on various topics. If you just want a root, without paying, Tinder is probably a better bet.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I love a game of ping pong, table tennis ping pong 😉 it's been way too long, anyone up for a bash? 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
nude ping pong 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
You should issue a disclaimer - insulting comment and pretty ordinary off topic reply.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is it sad that I had to post that reply ......
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RHP User
9 years ago
That obviously state they are here for sex and not for chatting. I've seen a few profiles they say they are DTF and want nothing else. There might be queues equivalent to a new iPhone release though. Personally? I'm a challenge - you can't fuck my body until you've fucked my mind.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is safe mind sex discussing the weather? 🤔 Yes, yes, almost there, now hit me with your views on government subsidies of private infrastructure, to address urban congestion. Oh god!
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RHP User
9 years ago
How do you know it will be a night of lust? I agree it should be easier and women should hop on a lot more dicks. A lot more. Including myself, but after a number of ordinary encounters where I haven't really got off I realise that it's not that easy for most women. We just need more, more flirtation, more seduction and more forplay then men. It's a fact. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sometimes it almost doesn't matter which guy it is - as long as his dick is long and hard and if he has a charming cheeky look in his eye all the better. But that's impossible to discern online. It's a first world problem for sure. Haha
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RHP User
9 years ago
More multi stories around railway stations. 😂
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On_Safari
9 years ago
Left the building and heading over to Tinder to see if he light his wick 😳 I soooo agree with so many posts on this topic from both sexes. Nice to see you Gentlemen get it as well. Honestly being a woman here is as much of a challenge as it is for the men who cop the brunt due to a number of lacklustre predecessors. Or in other words "twunts" ~ Indy OS
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' nude ping pong 😊 Well maybe a game of strip ping pong if your game ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
lol I once played nude football with a guy, you know that table football or soccer game where you flip the levers on the side 😀 good music, good food, good company, too much to drink, fun night 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha classic that would have been a fun night. The best I have done was a game of nude twister. Very interesting and great for a laugh. Didn't last long though.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' LOL maintain the forum rage I say Quoting 'toohottonot' Is it sad that I had to post that reply ......
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RHP User
9 years ago
Women are on RHP to meet others. Period. There isn't a certain code or rule that dictates how many emails is considered too many or just enough to prelude a hookup. Nobody is entitled to place their own expectations or attitude of entitlement on said woman as to whether she answers you or how long it takes her to get to know you. I'd suggest you change your mindset to accepting that each member has their own expectations from the site and is not always going to share your views. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sent u a ping itm! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi, WOW....gee I have a lot to learn , though I wonder will it help long term. some how I don't think so. I have a few guys send me a post on swingers NZ, and I do quite a lot of messaging to let the guys know about myself and being very open so maybe my approach will be different yet I know then the guys concerned have a good background on who I am what I can do and not possible, maybe im too open about my self I don't know its just how I do things , And so to say this difference from many men is I can write some 20 lines compared to men with only 2 or 3, and I,m finding some wont be open with me . I may not show a sexy photo yet I can write though not my best subject at least I try and do my best. ...noeleena...
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