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Emotions & dynamics in the Hotwife lifestyle

August 26 2023

Hey open minded friends ! ... we have been into the Hotwife dynamic now for over 10 years not always active in it but certainly attracted to the lifestyle and allot of the kinks that come along with it We have found ourselves to be very interested in having more than just a hook up style dating dynamic we like to build up to the actually play and almost date to see if the potential plus one is someone we want to explore with hoping it may lead to something more ongoing potentially We know there is no right or wrong way to life this lifestyle as everyone is different and from the outside world almost anything in the Hotwife space is seen as taboo after all were married and took a vow which we decided to change together as a team ...we must admit it certainly has opened up our communication skills more than we ever would have if we didn't get into this lifestyle We guess our curiosity has gotten the better of us and we were wondering if we were alone in looking for this type of dynamic and are there any single males looking for just that also with a couple ?

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MrandMrsEss

2 years ago

I like this idea a lot. We’d prefer to do this with any plus one, two etc we were thinking about getting naked with but find most want play straight away and even if they are amenable it’s always so hard to find the time!

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curiouscouple4u

2 years ago

Yes definitely keen on this too. I think it really adds to the experience with some build up and flirting first. Plus always find sex is better once u know someone more

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Alex_Lover

2 years ago

We're in the same space. We like to connect emotionally, not just sexually. At the same time we're not going so far as to want committed relationships with others. I guess a middle ground between swinging and poly. Being emotionally connected with another adds another dimension to the physical connection, which for us makes it a far better experience overall. We've had a few random hookups, but they're not in the same league. - Alex.

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Fuckmywifexxx

2 years ago

Wife here - for a couple of years I had a boyfriend who fit perfectly into our dynamic and it was awesome fun for all of us. Although we started off as FWB about 18 months earlier an emotional connection was built which changed our dynamic a bit but actually just made everything better. My husband won't always play if he doesn't know the guy who is joining us so it really worked well and whether it was the boyfriend and I or the 3 of us we got to build on our sexual experiences together. In the end the Boyfriend decided he wanted a vanilla life, and one day a vanilla wife... but I'm hoping that that was just my first time experiencing that kind of connection.

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Succubusandbeast

2 years ago

We are very into this dynamic. We're still learning and still new in this lifestyle but I think it's definitely what we're after with another couple. I feel like it builds trust, deeper connections, loyalty, and all of those things that come with a relationship. The communication would be more open/stronger. There's a sense of care and compassion that comes with the dynamic that you wouldn't get from a a basic friendship.

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Viccpl

2 years ago

We initially thought we’d just go along with hookups and move on, as we didn’t think we wanted any deeper connection. But as it turns out we seem to have connected with all the couples we’ve played with to different degrees - and this has led to much more fun in our view. I don’t know if you’d call or a deeply emotional connection, but more a strong sense of knowing and understanding each other enough to be more relaxed.

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RHP User

2 years ago

Hubby is more of the I just want a hook up and no emotional connection involved. Where as I'm more wanting to have a deeper connection with a guy. I love the flirty conversation and great banter and building up the anticipation of my fwb meets. Since this fwb arrangement has ended..I'm waiting more from my next fwb experience. More as in the social aspects of it too. I want to date..do what I'm not freely able to do (due to our kids). Movies? Yes pls I'd love to. Going to events!! Yes definitely.. Hubby is always on board with what I want out of this lifestyle and yes communication is vital between us.

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RHP User

2 years ago

Leaving a comment as a young bull . I have had quite a few interactions with hot wives in a cuckhold situation and enjoy them immensely . I have also had a few with more emotional connections built up over time and found those more intense . I’m a very open minded and care free guy so always put the situation in context and respected the dynamics of the couple - I know some bulls do not . But in my experience all 3 of us found it hot

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RHP User

2 years ago

That’s exactly the idea there should be more people willing to Share their toys in this world but most profiles are only interested in adding women into the equation

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RHP User

2 years ago

Its always driven by the man’s needs for satisfaction with new women or where the women might be by which again caters for the men’s entertainment

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