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Etiquette around asking someone at a sex club back to our hotel

October 06 2024

My husband and I have decided to attend a bi-curious event at our local swingers club. We’ve been on the verge of arranging our first mmf threesome for some time now but something always gets in the way and really,,we’re in no rush. Also, in our discussions around boundaries etc, we’ve agreed for our first visit to only play with each other while we suss out the scene. We’ve assumed that we’ll be fairly damn horny by the end of the evening and we were wondering if it’s ever the done thing to invite a guy back to our hotel afterwards or is this completely frowned upon?

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NeoAndTrin

one year ago

I think you're good hey.

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boobsandbusted

one year ago

It’s a huge step between playing with someone at an event your already at enjoying and inviting someone back to your place imo, but the worst they could do if you asked is say thanks but no thanks ,

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FeistyFatty

one year ago

Kinda the point of the event.... One of anyway 😜

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Apples_N_Oranges

one year ago

It sounds like you are still figuring out if you just want to play with each other (the boundary) or potentially bring another male into the mix during your first visit. If the right male does come along on your first visit, you are both feeling it and there are spaces to play at the swingers club, why not play there?

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teamaj2

one year ago

We used to attend events regularly. We actually preferred to play at home . We found the event a great place to meet likeminded people that we were both attracted to . We always asked a guy and occasionally a woman back to ours . We met some amazing people that way and we feel very grateful to have met some fabulous people at events . Good luck . We hope you have the best time . We found it best to go with no expectations and see what eventuates . The short answer to your question from our perspective is , it’s definitely not rude to ask a guy back . We definitely think it’s the way to go . Ax

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peter196921

one year ago

If you are all comfortable, yes it is, I have been to a few events and the couples asked, I would have to say, if the guy is spending time chatting to you he would be very interested ☺️

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FeistyFatty

one year ago

Same 😀

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gazpacho

one year ago

I’ve met some lovely friends at bi events. There aren’t any rules about taking home a keeper.

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inquisitivepair

one year ago

How did you find the event? We have been thinking the same about attending and plying together only as well

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Etiquette around asking someone at a sex club back to our hotel

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