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Everything you always wanted to know
April 22 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
To your question about reference to intelligent on profiles. I have the words "intellectual attraction" on my profile, by that I mean I would like to have someone like minded that can hold a decent conversation too. I am no Rhodes Scholar but I would like to think I can add substance to most conversations. Having someone I connect with to discuss a variety of topics with is an attractive quality to me.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why do people repeatedly send messages to profiles they know they don't match what the person is looking for and then get upset with no response or a decline? 🤔🤦♀️
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'Bazingal' Why do people repeatedly send messages to profiles they know they don't match what the person is looking for and then get upset with no response or a decline? 🤔🤦♀️ I'm thinking the gatling gun approach. Fire off 25 -50 Messages a day to anything that might resemble a breathing female. Anyone unfortunate to responds negatively, wears their frustration. I had one male of a couple travelling solo, that messaged that didn't realise l was a trans until l told him to read my profile as to what l liked.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Why do guys message and when l reply in at least a slightly positive fashion, ie a maybe, they disappear.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why do guys think that creating a profile which for all purposes appears female..... ...... but the written section sneaks in the typical “I have a male partner who is super sexy and we only play together”.... is seen as anything other than deceptive?
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RHP User
7 years ago
What is a "professional couple"? I'd like to get in on this 😁
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Because they were only after access to your sexy pics 😘
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horneycouplewa
7 years ago
Q: Intelligent man or woman....we love good conversations on a variety of subjects, fortunately my hubby is the smart one and has an answer for everything with humor throwing in (ex military 22 yrs and several degrees) as for me I'm not an intellect but can converse (leaving out politics) generally my conversations lead to kinky shit LOL, so we like to mix it up with similar people. But really you don't know until you meet them. Baz: Fuck knows, I tend to agree with Annie and they are just trigger happy. Maybe they had success once and will keep trying their luck. Annie: I think you already have your views on your question. Time wasters and probably didn't think they'd get a reply back, getting their rocks off, married, got scared...... Mischeviouslad: Because they are annoying idiots. Which is why I think everyone should be verified. summer: Good question ! Why would a hard working trades person be different from someone in the public eye, we're all here for the same reason. Just love those ones that refuse to give you pic's on here, but will email them :/ Phew....back to my bubbles, cheers xx
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horneycouplewa
7 years ago
Why don't people whether single or couples want to get verified ?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I arksed/wondered/posted the same question re: intelligence not too long ago. Intelligence is measured, expressed and interpreted in many ways; academic, pragmatic, cunning, emotional, analytic etc. Someone highly educated can have the same base "smarts" as someone who isn't. I find it very interesting. I like learning from and getting along with humans from all walks of life, high and/or low brow especially with a mutual desire for wonderful sex being the common goal. I think sensitivity to our shared vulnerability in the face of the sexy unknown here is probably the more pertinent thing. Why 42? Why am I such a wanker sometimes? Why not !/?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ms Horney I meant "professional couple" was a funny descriptor unlike other uses e.g. "professional dancer". How do I get paid is my question? 😁 Ms
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horneycouplewa
7 years ago
Baahhahaaa ooh I get it now. Thought you were looking for a professional job !! kidding ;)
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m just merely wanting to know the powerball numbers for Thursday night so I can retire early lol
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AndLovingIt
7 years ago
My question... Half my messages get a 4-5 word response and the other half get a 4-5 paragraph response.... Why do the 5 worders even bother? After 2 or 3 exchanges they forget they're in a conversation anyway!
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Le Moko Why won’t you tell us your job 😂 (This relates back to an old post ) Nude yoga instructor ? Life drawing model? Topless waiter? Tantric masseuse ? I’m running out of unclothed options?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ms Horney, I concur. I (Ms) had some recent solo explorations of my own, and found a charming tradesman who was the most talented being in the bedroom. He was bright too. Not well educated but clued in socially and quietly questioning everything around him. We got on very well.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think intelligence means different things to different people..that was my point. Someone can be rocket scientist smart but have almost no emotional intelligence..conversely another person may not have super smarts but be really tuned in to another's wants and needs..what's more important? Hugs Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can be a little......dumb (hee haw) Do rhetorical questions count in this post?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ooh, it's one of those..but I don't teach, don't touch and don't serve ;) Or do I?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Perhaps they are fond of Haiku.:) Hugs Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am attracted to intelligent people - those who know what they are talking about and usually have a passion for it; the quick witted smart ass; the artistic; imaginative; those who think for themselves; academic; great at their trade or sport; well read; well traveled; talented; driven; accomplished - often a mixture of any of these and I have probably left some out. Intelligence and beauty come in many forms and are both captivating especially when combined.
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RHP User
7 years ago
After great conversation and a fantastic night what comes next? When do people validate each other and how is the subject brought up or do people just leave a validation for someone without first discussing it? What is the protocol? It kind of feels like kissing and telling.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'XantheaHunter' After great conversation and a fantastic night what comes next? When do people validate each other and how is the subject brought up or do people just leave a validation for someone without first discussing it? What is the protocol? It kind of feels like kissing and telling. No protocol.You can just leave one. They have to be approved by you before it appears on your page.Sort of like an adult bunch of flowers. You chose if you want to put them on the mantlepiece for all to see who you've been shagging, or Chuck in the bin. Though plenty validate via friendship only, no fuck involved
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horneycouplewa
7 years ago
Validating: Personal choice really whether you like them or not. I do think it's a nice gesture and certainly wouldn't be offended if they refused one. Some can be just to prove that you met them and enjoyed their company others can be saying what a great fuck you all had. Doesn't bother us if people know who or how many we uummmm really enjoyed their company ;) Everyone see's us (ok mostly me) fuck at the club, parties/orgies all the time so I'm not bothered. Keep in mind we have been swinging a longtime :/ and please don't see it as a notch on the bed post as that's not the case. I do like to validate single men's profiles especially if they don't have one and found them to be super nice people along with everything else. Shows others that he is real, reliable or whatever.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Question from complete naivety perhaps... Do any gay men simply not enjoy anal play either way or both ways? Is it an issue for them if so, finding a partner?
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
CT I’m not a gay man....but I was listening to Dan Savage the other day and this came up. It was surprising to me the stats on number of men who chose not to receive. It was something like 30-40%. Another one of my assumptions on life refuted. Then I got to thinking how my assuming that all gay men would like it would be like saying all women like giving BJ’s Why should they be any different about preferences. Mind opened more🤗 His podcasts are so interesting .
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch82' Question from complete naivety perhaps... Do any gay men simply not enjoy anal play either way or both ways? Is it an issue for them if so, finding a partner? Gay guys are categorised......like everything....Tops ......give onlyBottoms....receive onlyVersatile.....Both, don't mind eitherTop versatile.....usually gives but open to receive Bottom versatile......usually receives but open to giveWankers......don't give or receive. Not sure of the proper name but only watch each otherGay unicorn......don't exist....lol
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Relationships are tricky. Often the question what are you? Bottom or top is asked early in the meet before mental attraction becomes an issue. Some gay guys dress in a manner that you know for example feminine so that they are offering the information that they receive. No hold and fast rules though
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
The question was less about preferences but simply more about the fact that one is not in control of what is pleasurable for your own body.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks guys. Very helpful. Brand new world for us and can be a little daunting.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Are black cats considered bad luck because we can't see them in the dark and fall over them? Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
The only black cat that brought me undone I clearly saw, hence why I fell over. :D 🐱
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RHP User
7 years ago
This is a brilliant topic by the way. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's because they are just evil:) Hugs Q x
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RHP User
7 years ago
Can anyone suggest me any good private house parties being organised by couples in Melbourne?
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Dominator, They are plenty. Find the swinger directory website for Melbourne which lists most active ones (not all are listed and some also have separate events including men if not listed). However the average price of entry is $100 for us.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Replying to ‘countrytouch82’ Thanks for the help dude. But I am more after the couples who organise such events rather than the big clubs like the monkey club etc. if anyone knows any couples or group profiles here on RHP of such organisers then let me know. Thanks
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RHP User
7 years ago
We have a cheeky black cat. They are usually the last to go in a pet shelter because people are too superstitious.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Dominator Depends on what you are looking for from your invite and what type of party. If you are only looking for non-commercial or not-for-profit private parties, you just have to keep an eye on the event sections for privately hosted events. I've only been to play events, commercial or otherwise, involving many men per woman or for one couple. You will have to find and bring a partner for other types of events.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Countrytouch Got it... thanks
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RHP User
7 years ago
FlirtParties meet and greet on 1st of June is for everyone.
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RHP User
7 years ago
What’s a “Professional couple”? It’s usually two things; 1-A white collar duo in corporate environment 2-Or just a polite way of stating that someone has a sensitive work or has a senior role in conservative environment that cannot be compromised. There are all sorts of people from different walks of life here, while some people are clearly comfortable with showing face photos publicly, some of them cannot afford to be identified around here. Came across a politician in another site not long ago, didn’t even know who she was until she disclosed her identity. Some people have their reasons to be secretive and to state that they are “professionals”, asking discretion, not all of these reasons involve necessarily bad motivation, it just means that they cannot be identified in public when they are involved in swingers, BDSM sites etc. Society is not as open minded as we think it is unfortunately, and some professions limit people’s freedom to express themselves sexually. It’s just the way it is.
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RHP User
7 years ago
EASY! It all comes down to experience when you write your profile. INTELLIGENT- You have had an education above year 10 and can string more than two words together! Even more importantly you can hold a conversation. PROFESSIONAL - You can dress and act accordingly to your intellect and reflect your job and lifestyle. A professional couple are two executive, classy types, less likely to find them down the pub swearing and carrying on like a pair of Occa’s and more likely to find them in a classy bar dressed classy and seductive. Faaark everyone comes from a different background and demographic. Just fess up in your profile so when you meet the first thing you don’t hear out of the female is “hey honey how the f*^#k are ya!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why do the guys in couples (and let’s be honest, it has to be them!) insist in putting up photos from weddings? Wedding nights would be different... Or worse, photos from family holidays with kids poorly cropped out? 😖 Seriously, take a night to take some boudoir shots for your profile, you might find you enjoy it! Also, why don’t people read profiles? It takes only a minute and saves both entities a lot of time...
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RHP User
7 years ago
FloozieandHim I do not understand either, but i assume that people at this days just want something quicker like for exemplo look at the pics and thats it similar to a vary famous app that everyone knows swap left, swap right. I think thats too shallow and very lazy to be honest with you, a bit disrespectful, specially when you put some effort on your profile. Ok, i dont understand one thing, you open the persons profile, read it and think well we kind of have stuff in comum, then you send this person a message, but how would you start it? Making a reference to something they have mentioned on their profile, or making a compliment to their pics, or go straight to the point? As i find myself lost in two sides of it, i hardly get positive answers if i am polite, but then when i am straight ti the point i am considered as an ass hole. What would you do?
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
Professional? M&C thanks for saying what you said, have read many times comments that say discretion isn’t required, these people obviously have no idea of restrictions in some fields FWU2 I have many letters after my name and white collars in the cupboard but have been known to swear like a trouper and if truth be known would rather be dagging out at a pub listening to a live band than suiting up for a swanky club....am I a very unprofessional professional 😂?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Does the winter season lead to more intimate encounters?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why do people lie about their age ? I see couple profiles,,, that also have individual profiles . Same pics , yet somehow their ages vary like I wouldn’t notice. I guess age is just a number yes . Is that why some profiles say they are 100 ??? What’s with the secrecy?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Leroy-tiger People hide their real age and location to prevent getting recognized. You’d be surprised how popular these apps are nowadays. We recognized the guy from local convenience store, petrol station guys, bakery girl and let’s-not-even-start with who else. Not all of them had face photos but we could still easily tell. Are you comfortable with whole neighborhood, family, friends and your employer knowing you are at swingers site looking for discreet affairs? They don’t really need to see your face to figure out who you really are. You are not really that anonymous on internet. Every message you send to even this page, has a destination and sender identity. I am not saying you need to take it too serious but this app is not as low key or alternative as you think, it is very main stream now, lot of people are using it, so chances of running into someone who knows you are pretty high compared to few years back. That’s why lot of people change their details.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Possibly because.... Yeah narr.. Your right.. 😁 i
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RHP User
7 years ago
I lie about my age because "I am only here for the forums"..my profile says that..and yet I still get flirts.Go figure. Hugs Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just on the intelligence thing I actually get horny from talking to intelligent people. No matter whether I’m actually intelligent or not myself (Which often I’m not) I love when someone says something so clever or gets my mind working. Makes me laugh. Makes me horny. My question is how do I phrase my profile to ensure when I state I would love to meet a dominant Its understood what I mean. I’ve stated I don’t just mean someone dominant in the bedroom. I have down that my main fetish is hard-core BDSM? Xx Nina
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RHP User
7 years ago
Straight Guys who wear G bangers??? Do chicks really care??
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Brett Yes. I can’t like them
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Obi1kenietzsche
7 years ago
Obviously how you phrase your words will result in the type of response you will receive, and the thus the degree of worthiness of those who contact you as a result (and no, this is NOT paradoxical) There are obviously key words to imbed in your profile that will alert your Sir as to your status, so use them. These words will act as a filter in regards to the dynamic you seek, and He will respond accordingly, but inevitably you will have to deal with a fair amount of noise from “others”’ before that happens. Sometimes, less is more. Ob1
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sounds like they are looking for a relationship, not a good night being your self
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usrightnow_Again
7 years ago
To give an opinion on the question you posed initially Q., re. looking for an intelligent person, I think it's all relative, as a starting point. My perception of satisfying that criteria, may well be different to the next person. Quite apart from the kind of intelligence someone is seeking in a playmate, partner or whatever, equally, someone who has an IQ of 140, may struggle to have what they deem intelligent conversation, with someone who has an IQ of 110. Likewise, someone who has a high degree of creative intelligence may seek an equally creative person. ..These broad criteria might help give a greater shared interest focus. That may be important. It won't be for everyone, however. Someone who shares a similar intellectual level may also prove to be a person with whom you can have interesting discussions, although, not necessarily have agreement with. They may in turn challenge your thinking and draw your attention to different perspectives. ..Usually I think it probably primarily pertains to someone being able to string a couple of sentences together, not just in messaging, also, importantly, in person. Many people have commented on threads in the past, stating a wish for some connection with a playmate, FB., FWB., partner or whatever. Fulfilling that criteria to the satisfaction of the person who has added this as a parameter in their profile, may lead to a greater level of success, who knows? Remembering that their own understanding of their intelligence and what formula carries weight from their perspective, regarding the make-up of that indicator. ..Just my usual 1c piece of musings, while it still has a value, after we go cashless, who knows, 1c may remain more than just a memory. ..Mr. urn. .
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RHP User
6 years ago
Here is my thoughts on the whole form fuck it and everyone that is related to it ! Fuck you all
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Quoting 'tnprincess' Here is my thoughts on the whole form fuck it and everyone that is related to it ! Fuck you all Hmmmm. Sounds like you need a good fucking. So l hope you can get fucked soon
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