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Fantasies

June 22 2018

I’m curious as to how people’s fantasies evolved. As someone who doesn’t necessarily have any fantasies that need fulfilling or a bucket list type thing (I prefer to let the situation unfold in the heat of the moment and see where desire lust passion and an open mind can lead) I’m intrigued as to what people’s fantasies may have been when they begun this journey and what they have evolved to.. is it the people you have met that have allowed those fantasies to grow and change or is it as you yourself have grown as person that has allowed for more exploration sexually... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Mr Zena2750 right?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Like most of us I'm hear to enjoy to moment. Love being with couples as it opens up you mind to maybe do things you have thought about and haven't tried. As I said couples are cool and I like them to do there bucket list with me as I to get stimulated knowing they are getting really turned on by fulfilling there fantasys. It does it for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You could not be any more wrong if you tried... It is MsXena who asked the questions, it is MsXena who is curious as to the nature of others fantasies and how those fantasies evolved and potentially curious at looking to be boldly led astray by someone else’s fantasy... corrupt my mind corrupt my body.. Sorry to disappoint you.. he is available if he is your fantasy but I think I keep him fairly well satisfied 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I am definitely a go with the flow and see where passion creativity and adventure lead but so often in conversation we are asked what is your fantasy so it does seem to have some place... Being we are all different creatures it piques my curiosity to hear about how we fantasise and desire different things and if we are driven by pure lust and passion for these fantasies or if they develope from other means. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    7 years ago

    I was always keen to see Mrs him_and_me with someone else. We were married young, and she had never been with anyone but me. I'd fumbled my way around a couple of previous lovers too, but was far from experienced. Mrs got to go away overseas about 5 years back, and we talked about the fact she should try and meet someone else. She did. A fireman. And, well, the rest is history. It wasn't always smooth sailing. In fact, when I first heard about it, I was overjoyed and very excited...but that quickly turned to fear and worry that I'd lose her. I even went to a sexual counsellor. We worked through it and have both had a bit of fun since. Lots of memories we can talk about until we're old and grey, but still make some great new fantasies along the way :) Him - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    we did not have a formal bucket list. What piqued our interest in swinging , was the “orgy” scene from the movie “Eyes Wide Shut” . Attending a masked swingers ball was therefore the first thing we tried (SnS 31/12/2012). Since then we have experienced many different things, our tastes & fantasies shifting and evolving along the way. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    i thought everyone had at least a few fantasy’s but mrs b is another that has none just happy going with the flow ,me well now that’s a different story,lol and we are ticking some of those off but not going out of our way things just happen and you think wow just did that also , mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Sybaritical

    Sybaritical

    7 years ago

    Great thing to discuss and interesting to hear other’s experiences. It’s has definitely been a “thing” that has grown and developed over time for us. Mr has always been an adventurer and excited by the prospect of pushing boundaries, Mrs although challenged initially found herself undeniably intrigued by the prospect of sharing. Initially it was a fantasy shared as a dangerous idea, but as the idea grew more comfortable in our minds the prospect of making it a reality grew. Over time we’ve refined our ideas, augmented them with details, discovered what we like/don’t like through experience and realised the courage to admit to each other what really gets us going :). It’s been a quite intense journey at times (with its ups and downs) but has brought us closer together than we could have ever hoped for :) ... the best bit is that it’s still developing! Mr Sybaritical - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Is it the chicken before the egg? Is the egg before the chicken? Is there even a chicken? Fucked if I know...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    MAYBE it is a fantasy.. but I will call it a dream, because it is more poetical.. I have a dream.. I have a dream, that one day, all my lovely little chickens will be able to live in a world, where they are not subjected to calls to clarify their Parentage and NOR are they constantly questioned on their reasons for crossing roads - I have a dream Today" See.. using "Fantasy" in this context takes away the impact to genuinely desiring change in the world...

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    7 years ago

    Mine started as curiousity for another woman,we talked about it for so long that i just said stuff it and decided join rhp. We started wanting a threesome, us both pleasuring a woman until she couldn't handle it. I personallly,following talks with hubby would love 1 on 1 with another woman. Over time i guess the idea of also being with another couple has crept in too after recently attending our first swingers club. Being in a club of people generally there with my same intentions was hot. Im loving that we are open to whatever fun comes our way. I should add though,we are still wai tuing for some firsts. We will get there though 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I have been enjoying reading your replies. I honestly felt like I was the only one who was just a go with the flow, leave them mind open type person and always felt like I was ripping people off when I could not provide a fantasy that I want to try to fulfill, Its funny that for me being in a sexual situation with a woman isnt something I would consider a fantasy.. It's something I desire but I never considered that someone would consider it a fantasy. It also seems that sometimes we check fantasy boxes without even realising until after an experience and we go - wow did we just do that! lol I like that the fantasies as couples begin as a couple and continue to grow as a couple, no one seems to have mentioned that he has this fantasy and she has this fantasy - as a couple you are in it togehter so its always kept as a couple thing. My partner did tease me a couple of weeks ago about blind folding me and having him and another couple kiss and tease me and I would have no clue who was touching or kissing me at any time nor even when i would be touched and kissed... admittedly this does intrigue me - I think my senses in this scenario could be heightened by being tied up as well.. so no ability for me to reach out and touch those around me. Obviously in this scenario I would be entirely dependant on my partner to read and monitor the situation in case things started to turn but I have that trust in him... hmmm maybe I do have a fantast after all... lol

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    7 years ago

    Ive actually had that exact dream before! It was pretty hot 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Maybe if I’m lucky I can have that dream tonight 😉😈 - Posted from rhpmobile