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Females paying for sex
July 26 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi guys Top marks to Venus for following through on her desires. I am both impressed and jealous all in the same breath! Nope, can't say I've ever done that, thought about it an awful lot, as I think the idea is fantastic, but I have not followed through. I did, however give out very strong hints to my girlfriends, prior to my 40th birthday, suggesting a paid toy boy for the night, would be the best present ever, as I was doing loads of exercise at the time and was damn horny to boot. Unfortunately, and much to my dismay, the fantasy fell on very deaf ears and the three year drought continued. Seriously though, I had a very close girlfriend recently comment on how awful it would be to get a hooker for the night. She was absolutely appalled, and this amazed me, as it came from a girlfriend I thought very liberal and non-judgemental. I think her viewpoint was that you must be desperate in order to do that. Hardly I think. If you were desperate, you'd just go to the nearest pub or club, grab some dude by the ***** and take him home. Splurging on a toy boy would be fun and fanciful, therefore quite stimulating perhaps, and a very deliberate choice in buying some sausage without having to invest in the whole pig! Oops, did I say that out aloud. Note to self, invest in Powerball next week :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ive thought about it. Just recently I was looking on the net to see if there was anyone decent. I mean u get a hot guy for a hr or so... no judgement and u get ur needs met. Ive also looked into a female. Some are super hot and u get to explore things with someone who knows what they r doing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't see any moral dilemma with it. You get laid by a man of your choosing... And you can ask him to do anything you want him to.... He'll, get him to bring a friend and tell them to do each other! You know he's not going to be awkward and hassle you for the next 6 months... It's really a winner. Warm hugs gaz btw... I'd be happy to bring my mate along and the reasonable rates rules apply. :p
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for speaking up girls ☺ My advice: GO FOR IT GIRLS ..... FOLLOW YOUR DESIRES ..... DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK .... JUST DO IT and most importantly .... HAVE FUN ☺ The Story: I was in a long term engagement (8yrs) and hadn't had any sex for the last 2 yrs of it. I have a very high labido and found myself playing with my vibes and toys most days by myself almost every day. I was faithful. When my ex fiancee and I finally broke up .. the first thing I did was look in the local yellow pages (Sunshine Coast QLD) for a male prostitute to come and have sex with me for the whole night and do with me what he will. IT WAS FANTASTIC!! .. I was 42 at the time .. quite cuddly .. and very horny. He was about 26 .. great body and wonderful person with a great personality. I think I paid him $200 for the night and he ended up staying for three nights! .. and all for free after the initial night. I had a sexfest with him (as a new found friend) for the last two weeks of my life in QLD before moving to Melbourne 6 yrs ago. It was the best $200 I ever spent in my life. lol I wasn't desperate at the time as there were many male friends I could have contacted to come over and fuck me, they would have been there in a shot ... but I chose not to get involved with any friends on a sexual level as I didn't need extra emotional stuff with everything else that was happening at the time. Also I wanted to be really selfish ..just lay back and enjoy without worrying about having to give anything back unless I felt like it ......... which I did! I love sucking cock .. hehe 'Just ask Mars' ... he loves the fact that I love to suck cock too .. LOL After finding my Mars I have now for the last 4 years experienced the best sex and lovemaking ever in my life with a man. I am a lucky girl :) Cheers N Hugz ♥ Venus
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RHP User
16 years ago
it has occured to me and I'm super curious one day, I was hoping for my thirtieth if i'm motivated enough, but at the moment it's just a matter of priorities, I'd rather spend my money on a great meal out than sex. though now I think about it, my current lover is a lot younger than me, by almost 10 years, and I do pretty much pay for everything whenever we head out for dinner or movie. I don't have the heart to make him pay, since I earn twice as much as he does. It's a situation I'm not altogether used to and not sure how long i can keep up with it. I'm used to being the one spoilt, not the one doing the spoiling. I think the only reason why it bugs me is because he gets more out of it than me, he's great company out of bed, but the sex leaves a LOT to be desired. Awesome kisser, but refuses to touch me below the neck with anything but his penis, though my going down on him is his favourite thing, lucky for him I enjoy doing that. And no, I don't smell, I keep scrupriously clean and have regular health checks by the gp. So, I'd probably be better off with an escort for the same amount of money.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Casava, I cant believe anyone would put up with a guy like this. Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
M & V, Hence one of the reasons why I'm on these sites. I think sometimes I'm just being a spoilt brat, having the cake and wanting to eat it as well. Emotionally, he satisfies me, sexually, no. I do get satisfaction, actually more than I have had with any other lover. But I'm not sure whether it's because of him, or because i'm reaching my sexual peak, I'm more confident about myself and what I want and need, these days I take responsibility for my pleasure and not relying on the man to always do the work for me. I have to, I'm more experienced than he is, unfortunately he's not willing to let me show him the ropes. He is aware that I'm not altogether satisfied with the sexual side of our friendship, we have discussed it numerious times. His solution is to get him really drunk or high on e's so that his inhibitions are gone, and he gets desensitised to the feeling of repulsion whenever he touches a wet vagina with something other than his cock. Personally I'd rather acquire another lover. Anyway, that's my rant. sorry for hijacking your post.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Have to admit Yes I have paid for sex once - in bali with one of the balinese men that frequent the nightclubs. Didnt really realise I was paying him at the time but what the hell it was fun and he was yummy!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i cant believe you really put up with this behaviour its a shame your on the other side of the country, as i personlally love to taste a women it is merely gods best work. maybe you'd like to fly me over there but then im probably to old it seams when you get over 45 no ones interested in you well me anyway lol casava do what makes you happy cause it would seam that your not so go out there and find the package that you need. mal
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are so many men on here and out there too, i cant see why you would need to pay for sex. Casava get rid of him.!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like others have stated, what are you doing girl. Ditch the dude and find one that is decent. Cannot believe he is repulsed by a woman below the neck. I reckon you would find 97 out of every 100 guys would not have that problem. The problem you may have is the emotional side of things but here's a hint. Next time try a guy that isn't in his twenties. You will do much better, and I do not mean a teenager.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Casava.. I like the truthfull way you present your case. You tell it as it is.. Really darlin' while ever you put up with the unbalanced relationship you're in now.. you're not going to be happy. Should you contact a male for sex on your terms..? Hmmm why not... I was once offered $$$ to sleep with a woman which I refused at the time because I didnt think it was the right thing to do... but now and in hindsight.. I think why not " Forfilling someones needs and desires without commiting to a full on relationship cant be a bad thing. Anyway... had my say... If you are ever in Sydney Casava' let me know... I have a great tounge and guaratee it will make you squirm.... ummm dont know if I should charge you or not LOL... (joke) Oh by the way... Im the male half of our profile...
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RHP User
16 years ago
A few years back I was sent a note backstage from an unknown admirer in the audience who apparently been a few consecutive nights to a play I was acting in. On the final night the director brought a bottle of champagne and a card backstage. We all thought one of the girls was getting sent it but to my surprise it was to me with an offer of a all expenses paid weekend at a luxury motel should I choose to after we had met for coffee. (I took up the offer and yep it was fun)
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RHP User
16 years ago
A lot from couples and women
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RHP User
16 years ago
Tanda As if! Lets not diverse from the question for women to answer rather than a guy/Tony blowing his own trumpet probably using hot wind or worse still gaseous shite. Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
Tony has massaged women and couple for past eight years he also provides other services. This is for couples or women who do not wish to be on sites such as RHP, AMM, Lavalife etc, please do not degrade yourself by being a dissbeliver. He also advertises in local papers. All above board. Sorry to see people on here who help others and then get shot down by other dissbelivers. Actually he has a job this evening. Enjoy Life Mars.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh goodie for Tony....Venus used to massage too. Its a job and a hard one at that. What are his other services? I read your profile and I leave it for others to make the call. All take and no give from the female is what I read. As if you will ever get a female to play out your fantasy. Maybe you will buy one? Thats what this post was about anyway. Disbeliever...of what?...I say it as I see it. Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just for the record, the couple I met this evening had discussed for ages about visiting web sites only to be shot down by men as the lady did not want sex with them. The engaged my service so I could massage her as her hubby watched and then joined in. all above board my friend. Oh and by the way YES I was paid for this service. be kind to those who are kind to others. Tony
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RHP User
16 years ago
Life is far too short. To ensure there is not judgement, discretion is a must. I have been invovled with this and it worked for me.......... My other job keeps me too busy to take ist seriously Happy to help, Call me or message. Good Luck with your search Michael
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'ozrockchick' Hi guys Top marks to Venus for following through on her desires. I am both impressed and jealous all in the same breath! Nope, can't say I've ever done that, thought about it an awful lot, as I think the idea is fantastic, but I have not followed through. I did, however give out very strong hints to my girlfriends, prior to my 40th birthday, suggesting a paid toy boy for the night, would be the best present ever, as I was doing loads of exercise at the time and was damn horny to boot. Unfortunately, and much to my dismay, the fantasy fell on very deaf ears and the three year drought continued. Seriously though, I had a very close girlfriend recently comment on how awful it would be to get a hooker for the night. She was absolutely appalled, and this amazed me, as it came from a girlfriend I thought very liberal and non-judgemental. I think her viewpoint was that you must be desperate in order to do that. Hardly I think. If you were desperate, you'd just go to the nearest pub or club, grab some dude by the ***** and take him home. Splurging on a toy boy would be fun and fanciful, therefore quite stimulating perhaps, and a very deliberate choice in buying some sausage without having to invest in the whole pig! Oops, did I say that out aloud. Note to self, invest in Powerball next week :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
There was a time, a few years ago, when I went out on a date with a lovely older woman. Nothing happened, it was just a quiet night on the town with me on her arm as her showy boy-toy. A little while after this, she called me up and asked if I could take a friend of hers out on a date - same principle, but she was new to Melbourne and needed someone to show her the nightlife of the city.I meet up with the lovely lady and, after a night of drinks, dancing and fun, one thing leads to another and we end up back at her apartment.That was all fun and games, but not the crux of the story.The morning after, as I've showered and had a little breakfast with her, I've went to leave - wishing her a happy stay in Melbourne and giving her my number in case she ever wanted to catch up again. I step out the door, and she quickly hands me an envelope saying 'I hope this is enough, bye and thanks again!' and closes the door.In confusion I stopped and opened the envelope.Five hundred dollars. I was slightly agape and not a little flattered. I wanted to return the money, but I felt incredibly embarrassed at the prospect, so I went to see her friend who had introduced us. She laughed at the misunderstanding, but insisted that I keep the money, saying that her friend would feel better thinking she'd spent the night with a high-class Melbournite escort than a random youngblood. I kept the envelope as a reminder that, sometimes, people just want to believe that they are paying for the best - no matter what they are actually getting.
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