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Fill in your fetishes!!!!

October 06 2009

I don't know about you guys but when i read through a profile i ALWAYS like to see what fetishes people are into (i kinda ticked all the boxes )What is with people too afraid to tick their boxes??Are you afraid that people will judge you or not like you if you reveal a little more about what you like to get upto in the bedroom??Would you judge someone if they put watersports on their fetishes and you weren't into that??To me that's something someone would like to try or like to do with their partner but not necessarily something that HAS to be done everytime!Your thoughts??

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RHP User

16 years ago

maybe some people have just never thought "hmmm, i wonder what my fetishes are?"so they tick nothing when they get there.LRE (looking for a dictionary)

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RHP User

16 years ago

I think that people are scared to admit certian likes and dislikes for fear of being judged. Some fetishes are certainly out on the fringe area and potential friends/lover migh pass on some one because they listed a fringe like as in your water sports example. Personally i find very little that would be distracting in fact until you have tried some things you dont really know if you like them or not. There are certain thing that people will certainly not like you if put stuff in your profile, other will also be scared of certain thing. lets face it though every one respect boundaries so if some thing is no go then the fetish liker will respect that. There are things i will only express an interest in once I really get to know some one, other I am pretty open about. Mike

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tamworthguy46

16 years ago

Hey There OhSoBi one Yes i allways read the fetish bit.....I just assume the more boxes they have ticked, the better i wll probably get allong with them !.....I also think it is fair enough to think that the person may not have tried everything they have listed, and that some could be fantasy ? Some things I'm not realy in to, but i certainly wouldn't judge them if they listed something i wasnt in to ! People should state what their into, or what they would like as a fantasy, If your scared that someone will judge you, they probably won't be your type anyway !

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RHP User

16 years ago

Eeeekkk... I just checked my profile and I'm guilty of doing this! Fixed now. Boxes checked. Thanks. :P

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RHP User

16 years ago

that worked for us... we figure adding another to our play is already pretty kinky and do wonder if we would be boring for the kinkier peeps...CheersMrs P

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Mr_Invisible

16 years ago

Some people have never explored the "darker" side and have lead very closed sex livesSo maybe they are curious but unwilling to come out and admit their desires yetExplore slowly :)I'm abit kinky so my relevant boxes are ticked :)

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