Finding a partner that enjoys the lifestyle

September 18 2025

Im 36 and single and struggling dating to find a female that enjoys the lifestyle but still wants a relationship any advice

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  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    8 months ago

    Perhaps you are approaching this the wrong way ? Rather look for a partner (girlfriend /wife) that you can fall in love with and enjoy a fulfilling relationship with. Make that the reason for finding one, as apposed to looking for one to get into swinging. Learn to walk first, before running.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    8 months ago

    That’s tricky. Reckon I’d struggle with this if it were me. My gut instinct on the matter though, you’re gonna fail if you start your search with an image for your future girlfriend to slot into. Not impossible but generally I don’t start things with a high projected rate of failure. Even if you put it on the table that any swinging will wait until “later” it’s a dark cloud of impending obligation rather than exploration together.

  • LouLou00

    LouLou00

    8 months ago

    Where u live?

  • arsenal2837

    arsenal2837

    8 months ago

    Melbourne