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M52 F36

Finding a unicorn

July 15 2019

Hey we are new to thins and are looking to meet a unicorn to add some spice to our bedroom. Have been sending some messages getting the odd reply then just seems to go cold. Just looking for some advice or ideas to make things easier. Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Best advice anyone on here will give you is. Go to a meet n greet night. Be social make effort to get to know people without expectation. Then u might actually have some success.

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    6 years ago

    Well basically unicorns aren't just here to "spice up" other peoples bedroom. Most actually enjoy a friendship of sorts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You don’t lick ? ( See other topic)

  • 3SM_Events

    3SM_Events

    6 years ago

    It’ll be a hell of a lot easier and cheaper with less disappointment.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You and 90% of other couples.. They're called unicorns for a very good reason.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    And well said freaky fun..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Being a unicorn myself.. I’m inundated with msgs.. it’s off putting.. I’m not into the guy making it his reason to FUk another girl, or feeling used myself.. it’s a shared experience.. I’m not into ice and over being offered it 🙄 be nice and ask us what we want, it will be different as we are all individual people.. anyone know of a unicorn support group? Lol 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I can fully understand how unicorns must feel regarding being used for the couples pleasure, to 'spice things up' as freaky said. It must be so hard to find couples focused on her pleasure, not just theirs. I tend to avoid men who predominantly see young women, because I have come away from meets feeling like a fill in fuck u til they can find another 20 something. At least I'm honest about what I want. I also had a guy I saw over a reasonably extended period of time. He was great in many ways, always respectful and loved seeing me BUT I realised after a time that he wasn't really interested in my sexual pleasure. The last time I saw him, after playing for a while, I was really aroused and he could have finished me off in minutes, but he didn't. It was the cruelest thing to get me worked up like that and leave me frustrated. He thought I had gone to sleep but I closed my eyes and cried. I never told him how I felt but did the next time he wanted to see me. He seemed surprised and apologised, begged me to see him, said he wanted to show me he was interested in pleasuring me, but I declined. It was too late then and I'll never forget how sad I felt at that last meet. I wonder how often unicorns have that feeling?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don’t, as a unicorn, to be seen as a sex toy. I want to be seen as a human with desires and those be actively considered and cared about when I join a couple. As with dating men, I seek people with patience to meet; chat; feel safe and connected. Any rush or pressure is a symptom it won’t work for me. I’ve met two great couples from RHP, and a third which was a “one and done”.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hi there, Im a Unicorn man, struggling to find someone to have good times with. I feel like I am wasting my youth away these days and can't believe there will be so many people out there looking for fun who will be skeptical all the time and miss out. I feel Women dictate and seem to mistrust me or something. Anyways, if some Unicorn needing Woman wants a good cub or brown machine inbox me or send me a flirt and lets go from there. Some good times is what we will make the time to be! No Inhibitions! Fantasies are great but regular hook up is just as good. Cheers,BunnyCaramel

  • couple6270

    couple6270

    6 years ago

    A Unicorn Male, they are a true rarity. As a couple looking for a third, as we have done on occasions, we are inundated with single males with profiles that read as if a couple is a second chance draw. Something they would settle on if a single female is not available. We have only seen one true single male profile that is actually looking for couples and he was in Sydney.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ok so this is all very useful. We signed up here to meet people who are like minded as we come from a small town where this sort of fun is frowned upon. Also my partner loves the stories I tell him from my younger days when I lived in the city and had many fwb that were all females and since moving back to the small town I have lost contact with all of them. 😔 also we now have a toddler which makes it hard to get away so we like to book some where for a weekend that we have never been to go exploring and find new adventures. All of this makes it hard to have a regular thing with someone. We r looking into going to meet and greet nights and swingers clubs while we r away. Also someone said hooker. We have tried that and it was fun but not as much fun as meeting someone who is there because they want to b not as a job.

  • D_Light

    D_Light

    6 years ago

    Couple 6270As previously mentioned, it is common and easy for a couple to get a male to join them but the extra is there for the female and the other M does get left out on occasions and feels horrible that they were fill ins. Its just as rare for us true M uni's and even harder for us to be considered in the vast selection pool of fake M's out there destroying our plains to feed from by poisoning it with their disregard of its existence, so we keep foraging where we can.Bi M activity at the clubs is still considered taboo unless on designated nights where couples are at a min if at all so it's a lot of effort to put yourself out there for a little return or a long time between feeds sometimes. But that return/feed is off this world amazing and what keeps me seeking it more over anything else. We unfortunately can't use the word Unicorn as the impression is a thing of magical beauty whilst Bi M is perceived as Shrek to the un initiated... Recently I've had success impersonating and becoming CD (& would look good in that body suit on yr profile pic couple6270) as it helped them both relax and be themselves and both occasions will be always up there as highlights in my journey and strengthened my focus on what it is I want and seek. Its not everyones cup of tee and can work against me as it has in the past too, its another specialist tool in my saddle if required. But as I said it is a lot of hard work composing of time after time rejection and being ignored completely and its always I who make initial contact too. Whereas a true Unicorn does is inundated with request after request from singles as much as couples and from the shear volume of incoming requests do the screening and rejecting and unfortunately the ignoring as they run out of time not on purpose. Then once they have their comfortable number of friends they are then needing to do something juggling appointments to fit in and not too many opportunity to add more unless the effort of attracting them stands out above the rest. This is my brief summary of the differences from my 4 years relationship with such a beauty that had hung up her horn after 5 years to assist my bi journey as well as her desire of true Bi MMF experiences and we endured all the crap and when the stars were lit up in our eyes made it all worthwhile. Trixiechick there are some great LGBY bars and venues in Cavell ave surfers whilst there Unicorns go there to cool off out of their camouflage and disguise as humans but will definitely notice you and your partner together ask you'll look like a large carrot for them to gobble up... Enjoy your holiday and good luck! Hope to hear ALL the positive adventures on your return D xx

  • AndrousFox

    AndrousFox

    6 years ago

    Life has a strange way of making things happen. We all have come this place through differing experiences and they shape our tastes and wants. The key is being open and honest and leave your nerves at the door when you first meet someone from a site like this (so much easier said than done). I've found frank honesty when delivered well, will open doors. I have to thank some great couples that have added me to their life and bedroom over the years. Taking a chance on a single especially for the first time is nerve racking. So take the time to weed out those that don't fit your bill and take a chance pn the ones that do. Remember we're all here for a good time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I'm a newbie who just found out what a unicorn is... and realised that's me !!. I had concerns that seem to reflect the reality for many other bi single women whose comments above reinforce exactly what I feared would be the experience. I'm not seeking a couple to be their plaything, I'm bicurious and want to explore threesomes in an equal playful curious way so all three people get to explore. To do this I set up a couple profile with another friend with whom I've shared threesomes and therefore I know he plays generously and respectfully so everyone is part of the "three". Can you be unicorns seeking a unicorn? haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Windows spent you are a gorgeous unicorn and love your company! You can be quite witty at times! Attend some meet and greets Trixie. RHPsocial run some great events and OSS have fun nights called the monthly mingle which have lovely single ladies attend!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Leave alone unicorns ... Couples ghost other couples like they don't exist. Unfortunately, nothing you do about it

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    6 years ago

    Unicorns are an Irish Mystical Creature .they are magical and amazing but very Fickle and can disappear into the bush quickly. The are wild and free and can not be tamed by a couple who wish to place them in a bridal and saddle. To capture a unicorn you need to have an honest heart but you will never tame you may enjoy a brief liason . remember they are not a pet they are wild and need to be returned back into their natural habitat and thank them for the brief . but enjoyable experience