RHP

RHP User

M39

Finding the right first one!

October 09 2019

Hi guys I’m currently unsure and been finding it a bit hard and intimidating when it comes to meeting or finding a like minded friend as such, just seems no one wants to be down to earth and properly understand and patient with it all, can anyone help me with some advice or tips or what I should’ve like or doing would’ve great thanks,, - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    My suggestion is not to find the right first one. Your chances of getting it right first time are slim, find any first one and second and third... Get the shotgun out, paint the walls and see what sticks

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    When you genuinely click with someone, all the pieces will fall into place. Can take time depending on what you're seeking and whom you're attracted to ultimately. Just be patient. There's so many awesome people here😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It might seem hard at first and all you get is rejection or no answers to messages. Id first look at your approach and try and figure out are you doing anything wrong or should you adjust your approach. Second it is sometimes all about timing, that person may not be in the mood that day but may appreciate a fresh approach a few weeks later. Eventually you'll find someone if you try hard and long enough. Often it is when you least expect it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I find it hard too. Everyone wants to jump your bones and don’t want to slow down. I don’t want a relationship but I’m no one’s unpaid hooker either. Dating is difficult.