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February 26 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Everyone has different ideas of what catches there attention in a message... Im not interested in any sleazy one liners...the ones I like are genuine sounding...not desperate. X
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RHP User
12 years ago
Go to Search Forum Tags, on the right of your page and type in the word messages. Heaps of useful forums to get you started!
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
One that really caught my attention, was 6 messages in subject line. 1) You 2) are 3) a 4) Super 5) Fox 6) Now I have your attention And in the last message he wrote a message in that. Pretty clever I thought.. All the best CheekyEddie and happy writing. Foxy
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Tough crowd eh, mate? You know, I don't think it's worth doing anything else but to write whatever it is you desire to say, and leave the spin to the bullshit artists, who will ultimately be weighed and measured, regardless. Anything else, well, is it really worth it? Of course, you can draw attention to your profile by participating in the forums, for instance. Just by doing that at least 400 peeps have reviewed my profile this month. Pity I got nothing to offer them, but still... as a marketing ploy, it seems to work. Well done! I'm going to check out your profile now..... Hugs Gazpacho
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Just be yourself and let your words just flow. A woman loves that more than anything. :) Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
And I just assumed that all the guys with dick wiggling profiles sending flirts were onto the winning formula..... they seem to be the majority lol ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi is nothing!!! You might get a Hi back...so where does that land you??? Not a long winded message but a short interesting one is appealing to me anyway. And please don't tell your life story in the first message which is what I get a lot. I don't mind that although I am no counsellor lol Just be yourself, what do you think you should say? If you went to a bar and saw a nice appealing woman, what would you walk up and say? People say anything behind computers. I call it speak say. Say what you would speak xxbs
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RHP User
12 years ago
My two cents worth First messages are a first impression, be it bad or good its just an opening line really. It doesn't reflect on the individuals personality......hang on! "Wanna fuck" yes that one does.....don't send them ones, it's degrading. Like Super foxy I've had the multiple liners, they're very attention grabbing, but been done before. So has the "hi" and "how you going" and the cute smiley face ones. There is no perfect message, if there was, we'd all be using it. Just be yourself, message what's right for you. It's a hit and miss thing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for the feed back...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sets the tone going forward, or not. For me you can see when a person is smiling in what they write and how they write it! The use of language, a degree of intellect and an approach that says they are interested in you as well as getting horny because of your pics.. something that reaches out rather than wanting to grab and fuck.. Manners maketh the man.. mischief beholds the woman lolChristie
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Do you like big dicks? hey there, i know we are all here to have one,but one question.Do you like big dicks? i have a big dick and always horny and know how to use it.are you keen to play? i can host at my place (insert name here) My reply: Yes I love huge cock but I currently have all the cock I can handle!! (Slap to the forehead) naybe I should've indicated I might be able to squeeze a few more inches in? 😣
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Welcome to the sandpit
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RHP User
12 years ago
READ the recipient's Profile before you send a Message . Make a reference to something from that Profile . Humour breaks the ice . Apparently some people are into blatant porn talk from the very first Message but I reckon the odds are against you if you want to use that method . Respect the person you are communicating with . Be yourself . Be prepared for Rejection . Remember : most of the people you send Messages to are just like you and they're here for some of the same reasons as you . Simply by being on RHP , you've already got something in common. Happy Hunting GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I recently got a message titled "Let me save you from your swarm of admirers" With a lovely intro following. Light but well thought out, he's read my profile and had made references to parts of it which made it personalised, he'd taken time out to read about me and messaged 'me'. It wasn't another banal, Hi - You're profile looks interesting. Want to chat? *snore You gents far outweigh us ladies on this site so you need to stand out from the crowd. And the best advice I can give, is remember we are ladies and treat us as such. As BS said above, pretend you were approaching us in real life. And keep it interesting. Don't get lewd by message number 3, keep the charm up, she'll lower the tone when she is ready. Hi & Cheeky just wont cut it. Make a real effort. And hey, good luck Cheeky. There are some great people here.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
The very first thing that one needs to be aware of is, whether he fits into my preferred age group or not! Then comes the message content! If one is too young or too old than my preferred age, then I'm sorry, it's always a "thanks, but no thanks" reply from me! :-) If you fit into my preferred age group, please don't write with the following contents: "Hey hun, wanna meet and have some fun with me?"; or "Hi sexy, I like your profile and would like to have some fun with you. I'm good and you won't be disappointed!". Eerrrrrrrrrr.......thanks, but you have just sunk my boat with your desperate message!!! So thanks, but no thanks :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
is part of a message I received recently. You need to read my profile to understand why I loved it and it really got my attention. The subject of the message was "hi how are u great arse lets catch up..." "After we catchup, I'd love to do A,B, E, G, H and XYZ to you ..... Hi Luckdragon23, if you managed to read this sentence, most likely you've gotten my sense of humour and realised I am taking the piss of your profile OR ..... am i? :) Anyway, how are you? I really enjoyed reading your profile and viewing your profile pics. I must confess, based on what I see, I am projecting an image of one sexy, gorgeous woman with flawless skin, great smile, cute ass (which I can see) and a funky, adventurous personality to match. Just wanted to say that pity you are not in Brisbane or should I say, I am not in Townsville. You would be someone I'd love to meet for a drink. I almost typed "btw" then I realised you hated text speak so I shall start again. By the way, you mentioned that you have other more serious interests, what are they? I have read your profile, managed to still stay awake and I am keen to know what they are - if you are inclined to share. Happy hunting!"
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madotara69
12 years ago
Don't fault him for having a fair crack at winning your interest Luckdragon We have had thoughts ourselves, to what a good sort you are, so far men, though recently we have been talking to having a lady join us, Tara has settled from the moving house pain in the arse stuff a couple times in the last year. So she is one horny little devil, now she has her house in order, and a poet from WA has her all excited and me having to play his part for her as well as mine until he gets here I am aware to it, and just deal with it as it is, and her as she is, times as such like she is. All worth it without a worry or to thoughts to her sexually frustrated even entertained for a moment, No just step up to times like this, I like it when she is all hot and bothered for hours of maintenance fucking, and with it has come a lady to be three. Lucky for us Tara is intelligent like you are too, Luckdragon and Secret ladies business would realistically be the way things went to any messaging. I'm a hopeless romantic and not so bright to attempt to an intelligent type of approach, all it would do is annoy you anyway for the Hyde to even enter some illusion as an introduction, smart arse maybe. So I would more likely get straight to the point and praise that beautiful arse of yours, plenty of points to how hot you are, would help fill the book, and humble to it, probably a few words to show that Maths was never a priority to the desire to learning, over a more caring nature of priority to learn how to be the same for those ladies who seemed to enjoy anal sex thrillingly and so to it for their passions expressed when fucked like they were being, so I learnt to that instead. Maybe just luck, or what ever, Tara is smart, so I'm covered for it anyway, and she is happy for me that I put myself to something meaningful, at least something and definitely nothing of similarities to differences clashing. Rather balancing it has become, we are both happy, and clear it is Tara is the multi talented one, smart and good at fucking, we are a team! Still reckon a message from either Tara at your level for realities over dreams. Or my dreams expressed to the reality for capable as the truth to things. We would be favoured to a reply from you as you are smart and one sexy hot spunk with an arse you seem to give a fuck about, and because I can read, I know you like a bloke who knows how to fuck one the way you like it to be, gives half a shot to getting straight to the point, instead of insulting your intelligences the smart arse would bother you with. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've also found this to be a little bit of an issue!!! I feel as though I come across as being, way to reserved... I'm quite respectful; well spoken, however get me alone and I enjoy being just as wild. Really not sure how to break the habit and spice it up to the extent of not offending, Fine line!!! and usually when something is written it comes across differently as opposed say saying the same thing in person. Due there being a lack of expression, body language, eye contact, tone in the voice or setting. Great reading all the suggestions though. Koz.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Good topic, I've been thinking about posting a similar question but I'm a bit shy to start a thread about it... I read all these female profiles claiming to want fun, intelligent, articulate men who take care of themselves and have a bit of pride and confidence. However, I'm starting to question whether or not such proclamations are genuine. I have written all kinds of msgs, but the majority are polite, considerate, and personal...I try to pick out something about the girl I like and mention it in the profile, and I try to only target women who have a matching seeking criteria to mine. But unfortunately, in my case, at least 4/5 msgs I send will never even be read. Out of the ones that DO get read, I very rarely, if ever, get a response. It's awfully frustrating!!! I understand women get innundated with msgs on these dating sites...but when you try so hard to be nice and can't even get a simple 'No thanks tigeroo', after a long day it can sometimes affect one's confidence...even though I believe I am a fairly attractive young man. It just seems to me that this website is becoming more and more a playground for women and couples, and unfortunately us blokes are getting in the way of all your fun!!! In saying that, it's nice to see the women on these forums providing good, honest feedback to us guys - it's much appreciated! -Tiger :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Would some you please look through my profile and make suggestions as to where I may cull/improve what's there? Thank you. X
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RHP User
12 years ago
You guys have hit the nail one the head, out of all the messages I send i would say 10% reply. I just find it is getting harder. Even with the first message I do hold back.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Tigeroo'(A) But unfortunately, in my case, at least 4/5 msgs I send will never even be read. Out of the ones that DO get read, I very rarely, if ever, get a response. It's awfully frustrating!!! AND (B) In saying that, it's nice to see the women on these forums providing good, honest feedback to us guys - it's much appreciated! Tiger.... I believe you have probably touched on the two most relevant aspects of sites like these....but don't realise it. 1. you're more than likely messaging fake profiles...... and/or sending ineffective messages.2. the people who frequent the forums are significantly less likely to be fake. Being able to identify the genuine profiles can be a learned skill....... and interacting with people you've observed in the forums... will see your messages read at a far higher rate.. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Looking at Tigaroo's profile I'm like what? 4/5 unread? Call me naïve, but is there really that many fake profiles on here? And who generates them?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most are VERIFIED profiles so I doubt those ones in particular are fake, although I am well aware of fake profiles and I am pretty good at spotting them.And considering my background as a radio announcer and copywriter (I wrote ads for a PROFESSION for 2 years) I am pretty certain I know how to write a few decent paragraphs...Perhaps its the different demographic of women...I'm going to try and tread VERY carefully here so not as to offend, but in general, it seems that girls in their 20s and early 30s have little to no interest, but 35 and upwards and I seem to be much more popular. Perhaps older women see qualities in me the young ones simply do not.Unfortunately I am primarily targeting women around my age, but in today's world, young women especially seem to be gravitated towards heavily tanned, tattooed and generally rough looking men, whereas I am totally the opposite: Fair skin, no tattoos at all, and a generally clean looking face and appearance. And I won't buckle to trends just to please the masses!Some of you may be reading and think "well...he must be lacking in the face department..." well, shoot me a msg and I'll be happy to unlock for any women who want to find out :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm wiping up dribble. Yes my own, I admit. I am SHOCKED your target market isn;t more, um, understanding. Please don't buckle, that's my job.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'CoolKoz' Would some you please look through my profile and make suggestions as to where I may cull/improve what's there? Thank you. X Gp to Hot Topics, Profile Cllinc Tips and advice. :) Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
If I sent you a message It would be blank. I am lost for words. * Please note: I apologize if this post is wet, it's from all my drooling* Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's so hard what to write at times and I'm some cAses our writhing can be taken (read) the wrong way... Do we try and be smart cheeky dirty clean or other ? Yes we do but it all comes down to how the lady or couple reads our first words ? What the mood they are in at the time..
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gazpacho
12 years ago
With obliques like yours nobody wants to bother reading anything but your glory trail. Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
I suspect many young women join these sites but don't log in often or participate as much as us oldies. I read an article recently about all these hook up sites and apps that connect you with a potential lover within minutes. A bit like grindr for straight people. The young women in the article all said that at first it was great but after awhile they found in very unsatisfying and it didn't really give them what they needed, perhaps the same thing has happened with their RHP membership? Besides I don't get it........... aren't young girls out and about all the time? I know I was at that age. I doubt I would have been online like I am these days. Your comments re tattoos, etc, probably does have an element of truth to it. Sigh, what a shame you are not in Sydney.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you ladies for all your kind words, it's very reassuring to learn that some of us blokes are still desirable. Really has made my day :) Unfortunately is all a little late for me...alas...my account expires at midnight tonight, and I don't think I will be paying to renew it again anytime soon. For a straight young male in Melbourne, there isn't much to find on this site I'm afraid. It's a shame I'm over the 'club scene' but I think I may have to revisit them soon to fulfil my needs. Because on RHP its months between roots if you're a guy!!! And I can't be bothered sending out msgs all day every day for little to no response, it's not helping my self esteem at all and I'm wasting far too much time trying. but who knows...maybe I'll be back one day. Hopefully not!! -Tiger xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for tip....There seems to be a great deal of drool and wetness, wonder why!!!
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I understand your frustration, however keep posting in the forums. As guests you can still post. It's a great way to expose yourselves and every now and again there's local meet and greets. Keep your chin up! •picks my up off the floor• Foxy xx
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
We all have needs, every one of us..As a single woman on here, I do get bombarded however I do have same issues meeting people. Over "club" scenes too. Actually men intimate me a little, but shhhhh don't tell anyone, I have a foxy reputation to protect. ;) Foxy
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Tigeroo' Thank you ladies for all your kind words, it's very reassuring to learn that some of us blokes are still desirable. Really has made my day :) Unfortunately is all a little late for me...alas...my account expires at midnight tonight, and I don't think I will be paying to renew it again anytime soon. For a straight young male in Melbourne, there isn't much to find on this site I'm afraid. It's a shame I'm over the 'club scene' but I think I may have to revisit them soon to fulfil my needs. Because on RHP its months between roots if you're a guy!!! And I can't be bothered sending out msgs all day every day for little to no response, it's not helping my self esteem at all and I'm wasting far too much time trying. but who knows...maybe I'll be back one day. Hopefully not!! -Tiger x This thing is doing the look like you again, sorry just a glitch, Mado not Tiger now. Seeing these lovely ladies occasionally lose their selves and openly drool over fellows like your self is always fun, and leave themselves wide open for a little teazing z just for zest and pizzaz, nothing eazy about them being easy, a bit of sexual release in the sandpit is Z bomb and often leads to the whole fucking bunch of us just getting horny and it's on for young and old. Silly to take a stick to a gun fight and these old girls, sorry ladies cum to the pit with two smoking barrels, every time. Can't get much more exiting than that. So if you aren't having much luck in here as a straight young male, then don't be afraid. Just let go and release that dirty fucker, no fears to that in you here. You know, that saying "nice guys cum last" Well these ladies must see something in you to synchronise like you can see, happening as we speak on our type writers. I think they see you and together chant for the dirty fucker to surface, could change your life, may change your success rate too. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dependant on what you want to get. Take for example on another site where ladies often post wayyy too much info or very little. I try to read and message based on some topics in their profile but often it's just the "how's your Xday going?" That gets the response. Which is fine I mean I don't see why I need to write a soliloquy just to introduce myself... that's what my profile is for... As for those girls who write too little or have lots of ask mes I think don't put too much effort in since they haven't given you anything to work with. If they're so dysfunctional as to be unable or unwilling to respond to a normal greeting from a decent looking guy pack up and move on.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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