M57 F56
First Time Threesome
September 09 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
For me friends pre sex can be frought with danger. With women in particular, i woulnd't be too concerned if it was a guy, much less emotionally complicated situation. What am i saying here? Well i guess i'm saying that i think that guys have their heads screwed on when it comes to sex, they won't tie it up with emotion and so if you want to go for your guy friend who's interested it will save you looking. You of course must trust that he isn't secretly after your mrs. Strangers are unreliable and an unknown factor but if you get a good one this could be major fun. Lucky, lucky lady! I adore MFM! It's what all a good girls wet dreams are made of. xx goodgrl
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Is the guy a friend of yours or hers ? Do you already have a friend who has said they are interested in joining you and your wife ? . As Goodgrl mentions it is all about if things don't work out. With someone else, you have the security and anonymity of meeting at a neutral place with contact by emails and phone before meeting and playing so if things don't work out as expected everyone goes their separate ways and no-one gets hurt. With a friend then things get awkward when you have to see them again at work or wherever. ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would definitely say make it a stranger. Talk to them first, exchange phots etc so you know what you are going to get. I have found it much easier being a stranger and have been lucky to have good fun with the couples I have been with Monkey24
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have tried mfm with a friend and a stranger with friend although it wasnt planned .was fun at the time but I (Mrs ) always think what does he think every time we see each other when we are out at the pub ect about how I act in bed or and he has said a few things in passing about that night when he has had a few drinks .Also there is the worry of if we have a falling out and he tells people what happened. We have met several men on rhp and although it is a hassle if they dont show then nerv racking meeting and playing the first time it adds to the thrill . We have been lucky and have had a great time every time we play and I have been spoilt rotten so I say find a stranger and have fun
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have tried mfm with a friend and a stranger with friend although it wasnt planned .was fun at the time but I (Mrs ) always think what does he think every time we see each other when we are out at the pub ect about how I act in bed or and he has said a few things in passing about that night when he has had a few drinks .Also there is the worry of if we have a falling out and he tells people what happened. We have met several men on rhp and although it is a hassle if they dont show then nerv racking meeting and playing the first time it adds to the thrill . We have been lucky and have had a great time every time we play and I have been spoilt rotten so I say find a stranger and have fun
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well really think people who are into the threesome seen should keep it simple ( friends ) and BED FRIENDS. I know alot of people who done it with friends both male and female and thing have went to shit, i believe things like this should be done with people you dont know.For a couple of reasons 1, in allmost all cases it can become uneasy when you are around each other after 2, alot of times after it if all of you are togeather he might think it will happen most of the time you are togeather 3, and most of all if it is a freind you might have other freinds in common, and if he talks about what happened it might get back to people who you dont want it to. So these are the things that you have to weigh up before you go and enjoy your sexual heavens.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Pick a Stranger, that's from me....Enjoy! xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you want to avoid future potential problems ' then make it a stranger.. If things go well and you enjoy yourself all is good, if its not so good then you lost nothing and can move on.. If things go pearshape with friends, its not good..
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've been the "stranger" for several couples now and I have to say these experiences are some of the most erotic I've ever had. It is important to take plenty of time getting to know one another first as this adds to the excitement, it also means you can be sure they're going to turn up so you don't have to be waiting too nervously. Having some regular bed friends keeps things simple, discrete and string free... Definitely the way to go.
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RHP User
14 years ago
pick someone you dont know, and who is happy to join you for just play. knowing them beforehand might seem all good and well, but after play, you wont share the same friendship you may once have enjoyed. it will be different from that point, and potentially dangerous for your relationship, especially if any jealousies or insecurities are present. be careful, be caring and most importantly, be honest with each other and your playmate.
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
Why not make it a friend..just let him know the deal first. We have played with quite a number of friends who weren't in the swingers scene. Girls, guys & couples...they've been curious so we all had fun. Sometimes it continued for a long time..other times were just a couple of times..but at the end of the day it NEVER changed or damaged our regular friendships....when we stopped playing, everything just reverted back to how it was. it's just sex after all !!
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JohnAnn2227
14 years ago
I think a stranger is probably the way to go first. Make sure it is at a hotel so if he doesn't work out he does not know where you live. Sometimes spontaneity is best. We once had a threesome with a waiter that I had been flirting with over dinner. He came up to our hotel room for a drink and we all had a great time. Good luck!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Definitely pick a stranger. Less problems in the future.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Choose friendly strangers that you feel comfortable and compatible with rather than an existing friend.
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nort4t
14 years ago
The single male friend we had join us ended up treating my wife as a maid whenever we would meet ater the event has put my wife off playing.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'nort4t' The single male friend we had join us ended up treating my wife as a maid whenever we would meet ater the event has put my wife off playing. ...and what are you doing allowing anyone to treat your wife as a maid?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'nort4t' The single male friend we had join us ended up treating my wife as a maid whenever we would meet ater the event has put my wife off playing. ...and what are you doing allowing anyone to treat your wife as a maid?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'DonnaBrett' Why not make it a friend..just let him know the deal first. We have played with quite a number of friends who weren't in the swingers scene. Girls, guys & couples...they've been curious so we all had fun. Sometimes it continued for a long time..other times were just a couple of times..but at the end of the day it NEVER changed or damaged our regular friendships....when we stopped playing, everything just reverted back to how it was. it's just sex after all !! We are with D&B we played with a best friend , and haven't looked back , he is in a relationship now so we don't anymore but we still are good mates
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'nort4t'The single male friend we had join us ended up treating my wife as a maid whenever we would meet ater the event has put my wife off playing. hopefully the 'friend' is now a stranger.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BBDDUK' Quoting 'DonnaBrett' Why not make it a friend..just let him know the deal first. We have played with quite a number of friends who weren't in the swingers scene. Girls, guys & couples...they've been curious so we all had fun. Sometimes it continued for a long time..other times were just a couple of times..but at the end of the day it NEVER changed or damaged our regular friendships....when we stopped playing, everything just reverted back to how it was. it's just sex after all !! We are with D&B we played with a best friend , and haven't looked back , he is in a relationship now so we don't anymore but we still are good mates we initially thought to do the same, but as all the good looking men we know are already in relationships, we couldnt go there.....
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nort4t
14 years ago
Quoting 'kitty_couple' Quoting 'nort4t' The single male friend we had join us ended up treating my wife as a maid whenever we would meet ater the event has put my wife off playing. ...and what are you doing allowing anyone to treat your wife as a maid?Thats why we no longer see him.
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