RHP

RHP User

F37

First impressions

June 25 2018

First message Have had mainly guys message rudely or lately first message then when I reply start apologising saying that’s not who they really are or they were just being lazy and give them another chance. If you are going to message be courteous charming and not rude. Wanna fuck and het you don’t cut it I’m afraid. Honestly what is it with those messages?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I leave my interactions within the forums.... Charm isn’t my forte....nor is class... Unless an invitation to message someone to discuss something related to the forums is forthcoming publicly I don’t bother.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'The_Antichrist' I leave my interactions within the forums.... Charm isn’t my forte....nor is class... Unless an invitation to message someone to discuss something related to the forums is forthcoming publicly I don’t bother.... - Posted from rhpmobile But that's because you're a C... :D

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    On this cyber world of a dating/swingers site, the only first impressions that one can give / receive are :- 1. Your photos & profile wording 2. The messages you send to others It is important to realise that these are your first impressions. F*ck them up and the damage is done. You get added to our ever growing block list. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    it seems like you're having a hard time here.Anything good at all happen for you?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    This site is like real life, there are rude, obnoxious knobheads along with charming, intelligent, witty gentlemen? It’s not all rainbows and butterflies!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yes the couples are courteous respectful and fun it’s the single guys who are annoying! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yes, I get first impressions, Peachy, it's been a laff a minute around here these last couple of weeks... and so strange...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Those poor single and annoying men .... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I think some people have a number of lines in the water, when one of them starts twitching they disregard the others - often rudely. Then, when the line that twitched turns out to have nothing at the end of it, they realize that putting all their eggs into one basket was not advisable. Mixed metaphors there I know. I had a couple once give me the right runaround - organizing meets then cancelling at the last minute. This happened once too often and I let them know that I was finding it wearisome. I received a truly bilious reply - them letting me know in no uncertain terms that they had plenty of offers, they didn't need me and I could go jump off a cliff. Then they blocked me, which of course anyone who has had that done to them knows how infuriating that is. The next day, however, guess who messaged me apologizing for their previous outburst and that perhaps they were free that afternoon? I sent them a polite reply along the lines of ''oh, so all the others fell through did they?" I then blocked them, which gave me quite the aura of satisfaction. Revenge is a bitter dish, but sometimes it tastes heavenly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    "Vive la Couples! Vive la Couples..!!"

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    8 years ago

    Seriously lol My experience after quite a few years here and everywhere is that the single dudes arent the pests..... its the couples. And rarely do I get a rude or crass initial message. Just delete and block thats what its for. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    *sends fatfunfeisty a “wanna fuck?” Message* Can’t have you feeling left out 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sorry to hear that but it seems to be a common complaint. You wouldn't just walk up to someone and speak that way so why do it in here. Then again there are some that probably would. Just remember that not all of us single guys are like that and would be honoured to get to know a beautiful woman such as yourself. Chin up, block their profile and move on. No good if they are all muscles and no brain. You deserve better than that.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    8 years ago

    Where's my high horse so I can get all offended at your suggestion 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Bahahaha *grabs crotch* yep it’s right here 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile