First meet

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Informal 3 rounds of boxing. Tells you a lot about someone very quickly.

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  Flirty2020

  one year ago

  If and when we meet up with others, from here, it is always at a neutral public venue. Usually a cocktail bar / restaurant.

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Pretty much all of those places you mention. Have met for coffee, a drink, in a park, meet for a walk. It’s a safety thing for me and them. Organised meet n greets are good too I have met rarely at my place or at theirs but that’s really only when we felt a good connection chatting online or by text

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  For me a simple coffee and chat or better still takeaway and a pleasant chat in public at a park

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  Blueflamingo

  one year ago

  Either of what you mentioned, but always in public. I prefer a coffee or drink rather than a meal. Can easily cut it short if you don't share a connection in person.

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  justlookcat

  one year ago

  pretty much a neutral place over a dinner or lunch to relax every body .a couple glass of wine could open every bodies mind

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  Sawadee

  one year ago

  Agree with some of the above.. We perfer to meet at a club or bar for drinks only no dinner... You know in the first 5 minutes or so if you're up for more or just go home... Goes both ways ..

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  boobsandbusted

  one year ago

  Most of the time ,somewhere we have already decided we are going like a party or event ,we don’t mind slightly before hand for dinner or drinks nearby ,but have found it’s a much less offensive thanks but no thanks if people have a chance to continue fishing amongst others ,as that way it’s not a complete wreck of a night out for all those involved , Mr b

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  realcpl4funBris

  one year ago

  We usually meet at a bar or club that's close to where we are staying. It only takes one drink to decide if we're all going back to the hotel or not but if we've decided to meet someone we are always ready to play.

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  ReyandJean

  one year ago

  We only meet at swingers clubs/events/parties after too many wasted evenings (no shows, etc.) over drinks at vanilla settings.

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Well … it’s been aaaaages since I met anyone tbf I think last time I met someone we met at a bar first then he convinced me to share an uber back to his place … pretty good options for a first meet I reckon Really though… the only people I’m meeting now are the head nuns at prospective convents and weird cat ladies looking to rehome strays …

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  AGent67

  one year ago

  Best thing is to ask the person you are meeting what they are comfy with. Makes no sense meeting in a big crowded bar where you cant talk, also makes good sense to meet publicly where people are around as safety is paramount As always communication is the big thing :)

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Always meet in a safe vanilla public setting and if everyone is comfortable and consenting move to the private space.

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