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First time at the swingers clubs

May 18 2018

I love swingers parties , I find them fun , Exciting and the fact it’s different is intriguing to me. However I often post datefinders up to find someone to attend with me. 95% of people that do respond , find it a daunting experience that’s scary and wierd. They want to go to cross it off their bucket list however are quite nervous to go. When you go to the swingers for the first time - what are you expecting? What makes it so ‘ scary’ for you?? Is it the unknown that makes it so daunting?? Or the entire experience itself? I’d love to hear your thoughts! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I was invited to go to my first swingers club by a beautiful lady I met through RHP. She was very confident and I had complete trust in her. We had a wonderful time. I have also attended many private parties, but as I knew a number of guests already I didn't feel anxious. More recently I went to a swingers club alone, chatted to a few great couples that were amazed I dared ventured in by myself. I guess it was reassuring that I knew a couple already there. I had a great night and met more fun people. It is the unknown but we're all just people, same if you are at a pub or club. At the end of the day if you're not enjoying yourself you can leave 😊

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AnnieWhichway

8 years ago

Hesitation is 100% performance related.Nothing worse for a guy than being a limp dick at a party and the guy feeling embarrassed. If it has happened before, the memory haunts for the next time. Certainly confidence eroding No such problems for those that receive, lube is your friend and no such mind games

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RHP User

8 years ago

At a swingers club if you have already been at a house party.

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