First time encounter try mff or mfm or go full swap

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Absolutely by far, communication is vital. At ALL times! Remember that there are 3 (or 4) people involved. So EVERYONE needs to be ok, the entire time. It's ok to call stop at any stage. You need to all agree that if anyone feels like they want to stop, they need to say so. Even if you think you know how you'll feel in a certain situation, you may not feel that way once things get going. Good luck, have fun, talk and be safe! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  ##NO SINGLE GUYS JUST COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES## stands out. You guys really need to talk with each other about what you want out of being on RHP. Being completely open and honest with each other is the only way to get the most pleasure you can both get out of it together. Because sharing the pleasure together, mentally and physically is the thing. Love to know how you go.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Kisskiss80 says it all, sometimes it doesnt matter what you "think" you want or can do, once in that situation it can all change in an instant so yes, discuss discuss discuss all scenarios and make sure you both have a way to let the other know you dont feel as comfortable as you thought you might....and in my opinion, this includes not letting things happen just because the partner seems to be having fun! Will only cause problems further on. Just my tuppence worth 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Communication is the main thing... and the woman is always in control😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  Gives us the impression that this is something that you want and that you are now trying to convince (or coerce) your wife into going through with it ? We could be wrong, but this is the way your words come across to us. Communication is extremely important in a case like this. If there are feelings of jealousy or insecurity, or even concerns that this may become an issue , you are not yet ready to go down this path. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  According to your profile blurb you two have been on here for a couple of years. Maybe it's time you actually started talking to each other about why you're here and what you actually want.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  It sounds like you and your wife have discussed pretty much everything about what you are leading up to, yet you are not sure if she'd go for a MMF? Plus, you have to have your thing first it seems before she can have hers? Excuse me for saying, but that is rather ungentlemanly.

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  madotara69

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'spicyswinger1972' Communication is the main thing... and the woman is always in control😉 - Posted from rhpmobile although suggesting the woman is always in control, may be misleading if any were to set the controls putting it in place and off they go playing up. Tara rarely is in control while we play up with guys during an MFM threesome, she loves sucking cock and goes off with the fairies and has no real idea of anything else going on around her, while us guys fuck her again she goes to her own place and I am responsible for making sure a guy keeps his condom on etc, general respects upheld and if not then I again by principal, must act in regard otherwise every moment from then by not responding is disrespect to my wife, something I would regret and something of a letdown for my wife who trusts in me to allow herself to not be in control. Op, we suggest that any decisions you make, you make together and discuss not only what the joys may be, what may hurt each other too and as well. Be honest and listen to your wife open minded, she thinks differently than you do, sure you know anyhow lol, isn't that what you love about her ? Mado Mado Tara xx

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  intheswing

  8 years ago

  It’s pretty obvious that communication is the key that’s not just talking but listening We are new to this so the memory is fresh lol we talked for a long time and role played with toys and our big thing was the pleasure our partner was getting was most important We don’t really want our partner to fake an orgasm so don’t want them faking pleasure or just doing something they don’t like trying to please the partner So my advice is to listen to your partner try and make sure she gets what she wants if she does the same you will have an amazing time that will get better and better as your confidence builds - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Woman had to be in control x

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  madotara69

  8 years ago

  Hi guys happy new year, all the best and hope you have an awesome 2018 xx Just a question with the control thing, If a woman chooses not to want the...distraction with being in control of the moment, She can't make that choice ? Equilibrium.. only a word, but don't you just love the way it looks, the way it sounds and everything it means ? Sorry guys, matter of principal, can't just let fly something like the meanings of control, when the meanings of respect are challenged by an terminological inexactitude. Or Control needs to be rubbed out or liquid papered and Respected put back in again.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Communication is the key hun! I think starting with a 3way is a good way to test the waters and get passed any nerves or herdles its how we started :-) first with a ffm then a mfm. We did start with same room same partner previous to this but as swapping made me nervous at the time we opted for a 3 way to get passed that hurdle. Now I have the taste I want more more more 😗 Maybe we can chat as we are both in Perth :-) I'll drop you a message x Mrs spice - Posted from rhpmobile

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