Flirts and seeing the History in the message

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  ...remind them that they did send you a flirt as these same ladies are still being hit on in volume. A flirt is an icebreaker and shows that someone is interested in knowing more. Too, never assume that a flirt means that with the next contact you're going to end up with her panties hanging off your bed post. Hey it could happen but best that if you find her attractive, tell her so....and if you want to know more say that in your first contact too. I've had a bit of luck when I am fortunate enough to receive a flirt and always found it....exciting. Best....CM

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I've had that. I've responded to a flirt, and they have even added me to their hotlist. And I have mentioned both. As expected, I still got the cold shoulder. Perhaps their shoulders get warmer after a few drinks, so to speak ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I am still in their hotlist... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Not the same topic but... Similar is the ongoing profile views before and after and still no reply/interest from a message. Short answer is, no matter how positive things appear from someone's initial behaviour, you can be wrong. Advise is to expect nothing, or even expect less than nothing if people are unexpectedly negative. Then on the occasion something positive happens, you are all the more pleasantly surprised and appreciative. But yes, people (assumedly real profiles) work in mysterious ways... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I have a lady or two and quite a few guys who visit my profile on a regular basis, my "Now I've seen you too" flirt is unread. Probably a con job. Most flirts are unread. Hateful messages are just small minds trying to create a ripple in the world.

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  VillainNVixen

  9 years ago

  Particularly with couples so what Summer says is definitely a good insight. Even if they reply and show interest and a hot conversation startsit will often go dead cold. Guessing the other half has shut it down. Dont take it personal, theres all types here, but dont give up trying because of it. Sometimes what seems like a very random contact can get you a great result.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Cos the hot or not feature sends a flirt if someone rates you as hot I believe.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Replies are different to initiating flirts. When you go to their profile, you can see how many messages and flirts you received from that person (not the app anyway), when you return a flirt sometimes it comes up as you have received 2 flirts from them. Check that out, on private browsing if you don't want more unwanted attention... but I think that's how it works. If you receive some weird message back, easy enough to block. No time to deal with time wasters issues. I very rarely read flirts 😋 but for the few that I do and look at profiles it does show the history of sent/received. I hope that helps? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  (*on the app anyway) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Great point Summer and certainly have had it happen to me as far as one partner being in contact without the other knowing. Even up to the point of meeting. Certainly not ideal and made me feel a little uncomfortable even though the gent was a top bloke. Always a good reason to ask who your talking to when messaging a couple. Op have spoken about this on Femme thread regarding Hold onto your houses. My view and it applies to all genders is if you have time and it's worthy of a reply it doesn't take to much to say sorry your not my type. (Understanding it's harder for women due to amounts of messages they receive.) How they choose to react only shows there maturity or lack off. (Block next) Certainly don't loose any sleep from them. 😂😴😴

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Sorry typo, auto correct on mobile. lol try to hold onto your houses. I should know lost 2 to ex wives 😂😉😭

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Hi I've been reading everyone's response's and it's the same conclusion I had given myself. I'd safely assume that either of the partners have said hello in a flirt (can I see your pics, or in just a.... Etc), but not informed the other half. I was swinging years ago, we had a simple rule, all communication is done together initially until we knew whom we are talking to. My replies have always been as a gentleman (you catch more bee's with honey), and assumption makes and ass of me and you lol. So, onwards and upwards. Thanks all for the genuine replies. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Quoting 'Stirry' Cos the hot or not feature sends a flirt if someone rates you as hot I believe.... - Posted from rhpmobile Yep, if someone is doing the hot or not rating thing, they can then opt to send you a flirt if they rate you hot - but they don't have to. If someone rates you as hot while looking at your profile (rather than in the hot or not section), then you get a notification, but not an automatic flirt. I think

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