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Flirts from guests
August 14 2018
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Of mine, especially when they're a guest asking me to send them a message. Complete waste of time - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
i haven’t worked out a way. except it says your interested and hopefully. one day you meet up at a oarty or meet and greet ,and then you have something to talk about ,have been playing ping pong viewing and flirts for months now with a guest couple in berwick ,drives me crazyyyyyyy, i thought as guest you got one message but apparently that not anymore ,boooooo maybe try finding someone off there friends list that’s s common denominator and get them to give them your number ,we have done that once or twice or ask a freind here you know ,if they can message them and get some form of what you can do to them ,eg kik ,done that also mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes especially from single guys
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RHP User
7 years ago
This ap is running so slow, looking for a playmate this weekend, if any lady's are keen msg me! - Posted from rhpmobile
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horneycouplewa
7 years ago
Yes, we have messaged on behalf of our Lady friend so someone would make contact with her. Sharing caring :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m a paid member and I send flirts guests and members. I rarely send a message without first sending a flirt. If they say “it’s a no from me” I don’t waste a message I pay for to get no response at all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
And when I post a date in datefinder And even when I write You'll need to send a message I'm a guest - still they don't get it Sighs sometimes I think alot if guys aren't actually serious in meeting - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
They hope that you’ll pay to upgrade to message them so they don’t have to pay to upgrade to message you? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes I agree they send you a flirt as a guest have no pic and their profile looks like a blank template Screams of no interest or effort!
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theoxisback14
7 years ago
Flirts are exactly that just flirting,it’s a waste of time for guys to send them if they wanna contact someone. I’ll always message if I’m interested. Saying that I’m sure most guys would respond to them if they were interested - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I always just figured they were probably new to the site and hadn't worked out all the ins and outs yet. Mrs A x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I was under the impression that women had so many free messages per day or week. Good to know they don’t, not sure where I got that from though - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Maybe its not the site running slow lol Highjacking forums for dates is way more eye roll worthy than bloody flirts 🤪 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'pommiefun' I was under the impression that women had so many free messages per day or week. Good to know they don’t, not sure where I got that from though But have learned that all guests have the opportunity to message paid up male profiles... And, that in the past the male profile didn't have to be paid up. Peachy
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
We used to get free messages daily. Haven't for a cpl of years now - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
99% of mine come straight from the Hot or What? feature on the amateur pics page. But for those who don't... ***You can turn flirts off on your Profile Settings page*** Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PeachySxynIknoIt'Quoting 'pommiefun' I was under the impression that women had so many free messages per day or week. Good to know they don’t, not sure where I got that from though But have learned that all guests have the opportunity to message paid up male profiles... And, that in the past the male profile didn't have to be paid up. Peachy It was never daily in my experience... a new message would become available 7 days after the last one was sent. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
When I joined in 2012 women pretty much had the equivalent of a premium membership for free. By 2015 when I returned it was downgraded to limited messages but you could still see restricted pictures. This 3rd time ive joined in 2018 you need to be a minimum of premium to see anything much, let alone message. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
are paid up members, who send us flirts,instead of messages, and expect us to then reply with a message. If they are too lazy to message us (instead of sending a flirt ) then we will not be bothered to send them a reply. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Upgrade 🤦♀️ Such an impasse. I don't take any notice of guest profiles at all. If you're serious about playing then you'd be upgraded. If I find a profile I like then I send a msg. Pretty simple stuff. Of course this is just my personal opinion. Each to their own 🤷♀️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
Theure trying to show they're Interested but are unable to message ..there should be a thing where if you both flirt then you can message for a few messages - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
Maybe they have run put of messages or want confirmation that you like them before sending a message - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
For me, it's just shyness. I'm pretty shit as messaging, so flirts are a cheap way out. It's ironic as I write a heck of a lot in my job and other persuits and write pretty well, so not being able to write messages here, or at least not being confident, is a bit of a personal hit to the old ego. I see it as a personal flaw and something to work on, so I'm not perturbed about not getting reply, and I acknowledge that there's a general dislike of flirts more broadly. But I am a paid member so I'm probably viewing flirts in a different sense than what the op was referring to? - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Are just an expression of a tight arse..... And that's from someone who occasionally runs with 2 memberships.Unless you are a single woman, you cant be serious.
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RHP User
7 years ago
We don’t mind receiving a flirt from guests or paid members, if we are interested we will send a message back, We also send flirts, it’s nice to receive a compliment on your profile and pics 😉 Mrs Sx2
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usnow
7 years ago
What really pisses us off is when you get a flirt from a guest asking to " please message us " , we do and get no reply . Usnow .
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RHP User
7 years ago
This is slightly off topic but friend requests from people I have never interacted with as well? Yes I received a message from Joystick who lists his age as 42 but is really 62 cmon you need to change that Joy! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We don’t mind receiving flirts either, especially if it is from a guest member. From a paid member it is a little off putting because you wonder if either they are out of messages for the day, which is fine - or - if you simply weren’t worth the effort of writing a message to. But we just assume they are out off messages and try to reply to all :-) It is the ones from single guys who think they are ‘that one special guy that we can’t live without’ when we expressly indicate no guys in our profile that are annoying. It feels disrespectful. But we have no problem getting flirts, they serve a purpose.
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RHP User
7 years ago
We also get friend requests from people we have never met, sometimes from people we have chatted to as well, we only accept friend requests from people we have met though... As to 86 flirts, you can select view all and that will show them all at once... But if you wanted to check out each profile that sent you a flirt ... that would be very time consuming!! Mrs Sx2
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RHP User
7 years ago
...a secret decoder ring from me for only $29.95AU delivered then you’d know that.... 76(*}{ AX4 ...is my phone number. Outside of that I do *occasionally* try it on in the forums. Hit me up with a solid and the ring is free. I’ll also renew my membership faster’n you can say “Oral sex rocks”. 🤫😉⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
..even from guests but we will request any unverified profile to get verified before we show face pics or get into any serious chat - Posted from rhpmobile
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WINEnCHEESE
7 years ago
A guest sending guests a flirt is probably pointless in terms of communication. But it’s still a compliment either way... so we always take it that way 😊. And paid up members sending a flirt is still a compliment. We don’t view it as lazy... maybe shy or a little intimidated, but once again a compliment. We’ve made wonderful lovely lifelong friends from a flirt... haven’t we Sx2 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes yes yessssss !! We do love a touch of flirting especially from your sexy selves xx 😘
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RHP User
7 years ago
We've had the several years here on and off with and without membership,depending on our time constraints and our busy life. It doesn't surprise us that some think a membership is like a class system and guests are a lower lifeform. Sad. But it seems some find it difficult to either give or receive complimentary messages or flirts. The age of being nice where you could pass someone in the street and say how good they look or if someone has opened a door for you and say thank you is now treated with suspicion. I pay someone a compliment on the phone or at the checkout daily because I feel it helps make someone happy and is better than getting abused. There's enough of that in society these days. I'll send flirts because I like the profile/ ideas/pics etc and the person deserves a compliment without conditions or expectations. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm paid up but usually send the "Looking for new friends, would you like to exchange messages" flirt as a well-mannered way of alerting them to my interest but not being pushy. If they flirt back, I message them. If not, I take it as a "Thanks but no thanks" and move on with no hard feelings. I'm not on here to waste anyone's time, lest my own. My interest in someone does not guarantee theirs in me, and that's ok! Perhaps by making initial contact with a flirt comes off cheap to some, however for me that is not the case, its just my way of giving the other party a nudge, but maintaining a respectful distance unless they give the nod. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I hate how guests can’t speak to each other on this thing. I guess it’s a ploy to have people paying for memberships. Add me on kik guys MrKlein10 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
so I don't respond to the overwhelming number of flirts. It's "select all" and "delete".
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RHP User
7 years ago
They can be turned off in the settings now. Peachy, enjoys the compliments herself... 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
i'm a paid member and i appreciate flirts. it lets me know that someone is potentially interested and that i could maybe message them, get a reply and so on... i only get 5 total messages per day and that's counting replies too. (so it's really like 2 messages lol) i don't want to waste my messages on people who may not even reply to me. i get why many women on here don't like the flirts though because they probably get heaps of them and it it's annoying. the only options are to be very, very discerning about who i send messages to and don't send flirts at all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
Its them letting you know they like you and want to get to know you.. stop being so arrogant - Posted from rhpmobile
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Highlander2025
7 years ago
...open your wallet and pay for a membership! If you're serious about meeting people, surely you want to be able to chat, not just send generic flirts? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
we use the flirt/message function to show interrst. Currently Fabe is away working so he sends flirts and then i can follow up with a message when i know we are interested in the same person. it's working ok so far and i hope we dont piss anyone off doing it that way. But Guest to Guest flirting seems like a great waste of time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've sent both and in over 50 flirts and messages less then 5 responded. I dont think the medium really matters on the 1st contact. Getting someone to respond to either is hard work - Posted from rhpmobile
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cockasian
7 years ago
Honestly, flirts are a complete waste of time, as are guests. If RHP had a clue, those two categories wouldn't exist, thereby eliminating most of the time wasters and tyre kickers. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Unless someone has hidden ways of how to contact them.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why are people hating on people sending flirts? It’s a feature of the website and you are being criticised to use it. I am new on here I am only a guest and I have already made a couple good connections. Why can’t you people just have fun rather than getting butt hurt over smallest things. This was meant for people to interact & have fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm surprised so many are negative towards a flirt. I view a flirt as "Hey look at me" much the same as you would try and catch someones eye in public. Feel free to send me a flirt anytime I will reply. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
messaging guest to guest - yep agreed. But it’s also a good gauge if they are interested - and if I’m super keen (which I was in one recent case) I purchased a premium plan for 1 month. Great way to message other guests I’ve had my eye on as well :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'd say if somebody is serious about actually meeting someone, their profile would be verified and they would either pay for a subscription or have an acute description of what they are after. See where I'm going? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Flirts make sense from RHP’s business perspective giving a carrot of being able to express interest at least to guests. There might be fewer guests otherwise and their business depends on having as many people as possible to attract some with the stick of not being able to communicate effectively into paying for a membership. There’s nothing wrong with flirts in themselves, I’m happy to receive them as a man, it’s the perspective and experience of recipients that commonly shades them negatively. The reality though is that most women seem to be guests, and with so many more men obviously here most women are so inundated with messages and flirts that they probably don’t even get through them all. That dynamic overtakes the civility and optimism that should be afforded to anyone who’s contacted you. C’est la vie! - Posted from rhpmobile
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LoveMaiden
7 years ago
I have the same opinion as Evie666. Just pay the money and upgrade it really isn't that much if your serious about meeting someone. I don't reply to guest flirts either and if I like the look of someone and their profile, then I'll message them.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I giggled when I read some comments. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don’t pay anymore because I’ve ploughed enough cash into many dating etc apps! It’s all just a scam exploiting peoples wants and desires for connection and free sex anyway!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If they’re too tight to pony up a small amount of coin then what’s that say about how giving they’d be toward the needs and desires of another. On the upside it’s always nice to know that someone is attracted to you so maybe it’s just their way of paying a compliment without any other intentions. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Within my first few days of joining, I tried to reply to every message I got with a personalised message if I was interested, or just to be polite not interested but happy hunting. Took ages, now I know why a lot dont reply to everyone. But my point is, I ran out of messages - it kept saying 5 left for a while, but then after 50 or so (?) it started counting down to zero. It reset the next day. I'm a paid member. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sending flirts and message to some on here gets ignored....some are polite and reply......have found most women are guests and expect guys to stump up to chat....just the way it is.....have never got a message from a woman who is a paid member.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It grinds my gears that there's guests whinging about guests.... We get plenty of flirts, and messages from people who clearly didn't read our profile. We just ignore them. It's pretty simples really :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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meandyou121
7 years ago
Another useless rant I can’t message lol Upgrade your profile then. FFS
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why not just reply back with a flirt if you are interested or not interested....!! Both options are there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I send flirts to test the waters, Im a paid member with limited messages. What I find perplexing is when a guest will say don’t send me flirts message only, ummm sorry you pay the high subscription 🤦🏻♂️. - Posted from rhpmobile
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panas99
7 years ago
perhaps it's a way of increasing traffic and therefore guests to members...and while I feel your frustration some of the flirts are simply that i.e. a nice comment rather than come over and meet up-just like in real life BTW you guys look great...woops a flirt ! :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Flirts and messages are all aimed at getting someone to look at your pic and profile. As a rookie I'm using both, and failing gold standard, to get responses from either. It will come down to the person you send them too, some peeps wont respond to flirts, and some do. It's a numbers game - Posted from rhpmobile
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back2it
7 years ago
We used to be paid members, in the twelve months we paid we found it wasn’t worth the fee. So we do most our hook ups outside the site and if we get something on here it’s a bonus. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We're newbies to the site and a guest profile, but if we get enough interest we'll consider becoming paid members. So far it looks ok but not enough for us to go premium yet. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Because I'm attached and we have a profile as a couple as well, which is paid, I sent flirts to know if someone interested I send messages using our couple profile. Does it make sense? - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
with back2it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think you will find the cost is too extravagant, most of the sites are! If anyone knows of a more cost effective one with guaranteed results let me know - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
To me a flirt is a way of seeing if there is a point to sending a message. I only get 5 messages/ day with my subscription that's not many in anyone's book. So I send a flirt for two reasons 1). To see if that person is actually still around as there is no way of knowing if they are not how often they check the site. There are a hell of a lot of unused profiles here which might help the site creators making people think that the database is huge compared to what it is in reality but a little dodgy in my opinion. A simple "last on-site" date would be so helpful I feel. 2). To gauge whether that person is possibly interested , not that many actually respond to messages,maybe it's just me lol, which does get annoying at times. And yes I realise women must get hundreds of messages simply because there aren't many on here in reality, and they have lives and can't respond to everyone. What would be great to deal with this is a button/icon that says a no, maybe "thumbs down", anything really but again that takes time. Sometimes I even wonder if my message has actually arrived. I use Kik at times and that has a simple "s" for message sent, "d" for delivered and "r" for read. Doesn't mean they have to respond but at least it's something lol. Just my thoughts :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'sc8ter13' I think you will find the cost is too extravagant, most of the sites are! If anyone knows of a more cost effective one with guaranteed results let me know - Posted from rhpmobile A month at a time is maybe. But a long term subscription 6 month or 12 month is about $3 per week.If you are serious about meeting like minded people, surely a 6 month commitment to give it a good try is not pricey. I've had 2 memberships at times and experienced the hottest times of my life. If you think the cost of a coffee per week is out of reach for a guy to make connections in the lifestyle, sorry, you are a tight arse.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’ve used RHP and other dating sites on and off over the past five years. RHP, premium & guest. In principle, I don’t mind writing a well considered, creative introductory message. Shows respect. However, I’ve found this to be frustrating and time time consuming when more often than not, I don’t even receive a reply. I think largely due to women inundated with messages. I’ve found it handy to have flirts as an option. I send them with sincerity. I hope for a flirt or better, a message, showing reciprocated interest. I rarely receive anything in response. Reading these posts I’m getting the idea why I’m not getting any response. Are people thinking I’m a “tyre kicker”, time waster or fake profile because I send s flirt? Worse still, I’ve this time not even bothered with filling out my profile description because even doing so in the past didn’t seem to improve my response rate from women. Sites are expensive. Women to men ratio is high. Gender experience very different. I’ve become lazy. Thanks for the insights. Please respond to my flirts! If it means we can message thereafter, I WILL! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We are serious in finding someone but don’t have the extra cash to pay every month ., it’s hard - Posted from rhpmobile
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