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Flowers or no flowers
February 20 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
It implies that you care about her - something that you can't possibly know never having met her. It would look desperate and make her uncomfortable, in my opinion anyway.
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RHP User
15 years ago
personally i think flowers are a waste of time so unless you really know that she would love that...dont bother you didnt say what you were meeting her for or if you are just meeting in a room or just for a drink if its for a drink and to see where things go from there...then just buy her a drink or two if your meeting in a room and just for sex...then dont forget some condoms and if you want to be nice, then take some oil and give her a massage good luck and play safe roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe'It implies that you care about her - something that you can't possibly know never having met her. It would look desperate and make her uncomfortable, in my opinion anyway. I agree with Snowshoe. Altho i would definetly take it as the guy was serious and wanted some kind of relationship if he brought along flowers. I would skip the idea on a first meet anyway, unless of course you both have been chatting alot and both of you are looking at a future relationship. But if its sex only you may just scare her away. But then you know her better than us, maybe she loves flowers lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
They die. Try a bottle of wine ..... to share
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would run a mile if it was a first meet. If it's a private room a bottle of wine would be fine. And Craig baby Please start using some full stops. Even here on the forums. I have to read your posts a couple of times to get the correct meaning.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Who insisted on flowers and believe it or not....Sunflowers ! and yes I did get them for her.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
And let her take whatever is left home with her.
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RHP User
15 years ago
something decent and bubbly and ice cold...
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RHP User
15 years ago
We think that flowers are alittle bit to much for a first date, We like the idea of a bottle of wine to share.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Unless she has specifically stated that she really loves getting flowers or wants to be 'romanced', skip it. Likewise with the giant black dildo and inflatable sheep they're more of a second-date thing... Good luck and play safe! xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
personally i wouldnt go the grog either unless you know she can handle her alcohol that could be a disaster lol roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' Who insisted on flowers and believe it or not....Sunflowers ! and yes I did get them for her.Were you dining nouvelle cuisine that night? She might have wanted something to graze on later in case the portion sizes were meagre...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I always think it's a bad idea to try and buy a woman's affection or impress her with gifts. Just my 2 cents. Steve.
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RHP User
15 years ago
No we didn't do dinner of any sort, but I guess if she ate them....that would be pretty hardcore. I don't know what she did with them.....I had them delivered.So may be she did eat them.....RAFLMAO......or ...I can't remember if she had a pet bird or not, maybe she was to tight to buy bird seed.. LolCheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
it would freak me out completely
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RHP User
15 years ago
Personally I think you should shower the room with rose petals, some scented candles, restraints set up on the bed and in the shower, some hardcore porn on the tele, a curiously placed inflatable sheep on the bed and wear some goat pants (PM Stalky if you want to know where to get them). This will guarantee a good night! . I agree with the idea to have wine on standby, but hide it in the wardrobe and get it out if you think she might be cool with the idea. You don't want her thinking you're a freak!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think the problem is you said "flowers" and people have in their head that you're fronting up with a whopping bunch of red roses (or a sunflower ffs) but if you front up with say a single frangipani flower.... you can casually hand it to her as a sniffer (you know... rather than overpowering her with Brut)... and you can use it to get that awkward first conversation started. Oh... and scents trigger memories so wear the hair pants.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Bring on the Flowers! We talking Flowers Not Marriage! lol So Yous are Happy to Go to a Hotel Room to have SEX! but not comfortable to except Flowers! Really I think Yous are all Crazy! Sex is more personal than Flowers! Wake up & smell the Roses! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh how weird society has become. My personal initial reaction was "how sweet", swiftly followed by thinking that flowers would indeed be too much for a first date and they don't seem to match in with the meeting in a hotel room vibe. BUT does life have to be so damn hard? Can't buy flowers and you better not open doors for her, so unPC!!!! Sheesh I'd probably turn up with flowers in one hand and a big black dong in the other, whichever one she reaches for will give you an idea of how she wants the night to progress! :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
i dont know about all the others but i wouldnt want flowers because i dont like flowers i have no sence of smell so flowers are kind of wasted on me although if you turned up with a gerbra of a very pretty colour...then maybe id want it, but dont count on it but to go to any expence there with flowers is wasted on me if you want to turn up with a gift...bring me chocolate but then id probably take the chocolate and shut you out so just to be on the safe side...bring the big black dong that Puppy has lol roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
My partner knows not to buy me roses as I prefer them on the plant. But one time he did buy me roses - they were leather and attached to the end of a flogger!! Very romantic and I still treasure my flogger. I like what Roxxy and Midnight said. Forget the flowers and take some massage oil. It's a good way to break the ice as you can chat and rub at the same time and it's a good way to get in the mood.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hope it went well, craigwashere. Did you take the flowers or not? xx nosynewgirl ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey nah no flowers but she was happy with what she got. ;) and thanks for all the tips and feed back it helped. I did think of taking a single flower as a bit of foreplay but we just went straight to it :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ok... Now I think it's appropriate to send flowers!hehe..Hugss
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RHP User
15 years ago
see sometimes we do do good im so proud of us plus as an added bonus...the boy got laid whoohooo roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
*wipes tear from eye* it's just so beautiful to see them spread their wings and leave the nest.... LOL I'm glad it went well! xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yay good news and good work. Got to luv it when all falls into place
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RHP User
15 years ago
Go with roses and chocolates instead if you get a bunch of flowers that's not really very sexy but if you go with the roses and chocies it says sexy and thoughtful you can't go wrong
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