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Foreplay
February 15 2026
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Pete10
3 months ago
That really sucks.... my experience with ex partner is we always spent near half hr to an hr with foreplay... that could be teasing to oral to passionate kissing, playing tonguesy. Hope you find the right guys....
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RHP User
3 months ago
I have a feeling you have just been selecting the wrong guys Rule of thumb. If somebody boasts about something they are usually full of shit. And as far as I'm concerned any bloke who isn't into foreplay is severely missing out. It could also be that those you speak of have had horror stories happen to them. Not such an uncommon thing
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RHP User
3 months ago
I'm very sorry to hear that your experience has been negative and I don't understand why that appears to be very common. What's with the rush? For me, the foreplay is like adding spices to food and extending a meal into a banquet. I always found that part of the magic of sexuality is watching your partner slowly get more excited from all sorts of things - conversation, touch, kissing, massage, having a spa together, more touch, slowly teasing her orally........until she says something like, "For God's sake, John, if you keep going, I'm going to cum on your tongue. Just fuck me now!!!" For me, the main event is the slow reciprocal tease, culminated slowly and inexorably by actually cumming. Maybe I'm just odd?
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Standavid
3 months ago
I always please before being please no matter how long it takes there’s alway a way
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RHP User
3 months ago
I love it myself! My ex has some sensitivity issues down there so it takes a long time to relax, sometimes I'm down there like an hour and just finish her off that way, I don't understand guys that don't make their partner orgasm it's super fun when you know what buttons to push
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Blueflamingo
3 months ago
There are some very selfish people and then there are some amazingly non selfish people out there. Raise your standards, update your profile and I'm sure you will start attracting the good guys and not the rifraf you currently have on your friends list. Know your worth and dont settle for anything less gurl! Good luck and I truly hope you find someone who will satisfy you. X 🩵🦩
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MrandMrsEss
3 months ago
That’s shite. Easy fix though, speak up and say no till you’re ready. The best sex happens when you can comfortably communicate with your lover. If they can’t, show them the door.
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JustAManNextDoor
3 months ago
Like anything worth doing well, foreplay is an area where genuine lovers tend to excel while others simply rush the process. Unfortunately, some men seem stuck in a bygone era, focused more on their own gratification than on shared pleasure. The “blow-and-go” mindset often comes with the hookup or ONS mentality, if their needs are met, they see little reason to change their approach. That said, there are plenty who truly enjoy the art of anticipation. Most may stumble at first, some will ask for guidance when needed, and the better ones learn to press all the right buttons in time. In the end, everyone deserves to enjoy the experience and end with the big O. However you get there shouldn't matter, as long as you both do.
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RHP User
3 months ago
Hi Bec, like the others I'm bewildered. I think foreplay is the best part. The time spent enjoying each others bodies from head to toe, the tease, the pleasure...is there nothing better than your lover orgasming with your touch, your mouth. I hope you can find a person that will listen to your words and your body and give you many explosive orgasms...
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TheMinx
3 months ago
Maybe invest in a cock cage and only unlock once you are truly satisfied 😈. I have a rule I don't cum you don't cum pretty simple.
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MsSuperFoxy
3 months ago
Foreplay is a slow burn, not a microwave. Lol! some guys think 30 seconds is all it takes to turn a vagina into soggy, wet instant noodles. Some of us like a little simmer, a little teasing. Patience goes a long way. Don’t rush it, gentlemen the payoff is worth every second. Ms Foxy
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CallMeCandyOk
3 months ago
Just tell them you're only down for receiving head, plenty of guys looking for that.
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selfless__lover
3 months ago
I am astounded when I talk to my female friends and how many of them tell me their partners don't reciprocate with oral sex, or instead of lots of long slow foreplay, they reach for the lube and are just worried about penetrative sex and their own pleasure. In my mind the foreplay, the build up of desire and edging each other to the point of begging for sex right now is what makes intimacy most enjoyable. I think you need to talk more with people you are potentially playing with and find out what their idea of foreplay is, what they enjoy and set healthy boundaries on what you are willing to accept. Someone who says "oh I don't do that" when you ask about giving oral sex for example is probably a very selfish lover in many other ways.
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CallMeV
3 months ago
Foreplay happens only if you genuinely interested in your partner, loved every inch of her body, if you are a giver and not expecting anything in return, you won’t even hesitate a small degree to rim as well !!! Well it’s my opinion…
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RHP User
3 months ago
Sad to hear. I love that time to explore the whole body, to find out what she likes and bring her to the brink - continuing if she wants. My tongue and lips all over her makes for an enjoyable time together, and any 'session' of playing of less than 30 mins instead foreplay...IMO!
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PepperDog1
3 months ago
Hello Bec, it’s a shame you’ve had to experience this. Myself personally I love foreplay and love to take my time teasing and pleasing. I find it rewarding and it definitely makes for better sex on both sides. Nothing more rewarding than eating a lady to a quivering orgasm or 3.
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SEMelb4Fun
3 months ago
I agree with you, most don't understand that women enjoy foreplay more than Whamm...Baaam thank you Ma'am. because lets face it once a guy goes in he would not quick in and out. to make a proper connection and keep being invited over and over again then thats the only way. Like the saying: To get to a man's heart is through his stomach. Similar saying to get a woman's heart is through foreplay. Thx BrianRamji
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Restlessgirl46
3 months ago
Yes… I find it particularly with the younger guys …they talk a big game in the lead up and then as soon you meet…a kiss an ass grab a tit squeeze…and here’s my hard cock…sir…this perimenopausal pussy needs a lot more preparation than that and YES I need lube. And I cannot even tell you how many guys who say they eat pussy will not get their faces down there for any number of reasons. Which is fine but I’m not interested in you if you don’t so don’t lie in the lead up. Leads to one very annoyed partner ruining the mood for all.
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Hornyjordy69
3 months ago
Foreplay is amazing as a bloke, it's gets everyone settled and right in the mood, I love it
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Tribute_pro
3 months ago
I love foreplay, I find it gives me more chance for a more intense finish or multiple finishes
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RealViking23
3 months ago
Foreplay is often more enjoyable than fucking 🤷🏼
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StewN
3 months ago
Geez what’s wrong with these dudes!
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G_banger69
3 months ago
Absolutely love foreplay. Maybe even more than sex itself lol
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Sunnycoastr
3 months ago
I always have some breast nipples play on my way down to wasting and finger my partners pussy until she cums or begs for dick. I love to see how juicy I can make her before she cums - then often I’ll use those juices on my hand to wank off in front of her - over her - showing how much I enjoyed tasting her.
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Mattholls
3 months ago
We are only in to foreplay we fined it hard to find couples or females that are ok with no sex
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Passionatedom69
2 months ago
Foreplay for me is sex! kissing cuddling fondling ear and neck kissing passion tickling oral 69ers facesitting toying gspots stimulation are some forms of it happy to play like this for hours, just having intercourse sounds very boring 🤷
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miezcandy
2 months ago
We love foreplay it's sooooo SEXY!!
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Readyforfun2469
2 months ago
Foreplay is my absolute favourite…
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Finmeetsx
2 months ago
I’m herring you I was in a 10 year relationship where my x misses would never do foreplay which sucked as I love going down on a woman and playing around it’s the best part in my opinion
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RHP User
2 months ago
Wow . Foreplay is the main event , the majority of the journey . Penetration is just the finishing line . Well t
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Footlong7519
2 months ago
Same here… Tbh not many people m/f get it’s the best bit
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Kinkytop4her
2 months ago
Being kinky foreplay can be this best bit, arousing , denying,arousing until eventually explosions. 😳😈😜
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Subman
2 months ago
I would like a dollar for everytime I've heard what you are saying. I don't understand why people aren't into foreplay but as a sub giving what my partner wants is my priority
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happygolucky82
one month ago
Bec I think foreplay is the best part of the meet. If that is the only thing that makes you climax you should communicate that to your partner. Most partner will Take that on board to make you have out of the world experienxe
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Pushing_it_deep
one month ago
I love the foreplay that’s how your body starts producing ecstasy between the both of you I love watching when she ends up cumin during foreplay
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