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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  i have had a few ppl request to be on my friends list that i dont even know!!! how can u be my friend if ive never spoken to u?? bizarre. the ppl i do have on my list i consider friends........... those i have met, those i have spoken to often on rhp, and those i speak to often in msn. regards KL

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Yeah, I had a slight concern about this one too. Although I admit I joined RHP with the hope of getting laid, it has not become this for me. I've met some people from here in person, but haven't had sex with them, just social meets,coffees or a drink, and have made many friends in Vic chat room who I have never met at all. I work month on month off, and the Vic chat room has become a big social outlet for me , to chat and keep me sane when away in isolation, and to keep me from sitting in some pub drinking alone cos everyone else has to work the next day. Although I'd love to be able to say I get laid alot, it don't happen, and if I have loads of people added as my friends, I'm concerned that I would be percieved as a player, who's shagging all that were listed. I haven't , I consider them my friends., some on my friends I have never met in person. I wish they were notches to be honest, but if they were I wouldn't be announcing it to the world. I would like to keep my private adventures just that,private.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  i came across a profile 'marcedis'. just wondering...has anyone actually met or spoken to her?? or have ppl added her as a friend cos her profile pic is hot??? lol hot pic= my friend is hot...therefore so am i?? hot pic= my friend is hot...therefore i am a great person??? curious is all.. xx KL

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Lets ask Doctor Phil

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I personally have an aversion to the friends feature on here - and I guess it is partly because the use has not settled into a pattern yet, but mostly the inferences. I had a look at one lovely young lady's profile (ok lady may be generous) and this person had around forty showing. My impressions - well I hark back to one of Kiss's more grounded forum entries, STDs are real, if this lady is so active, how safe is it to have some fun with her? So my conclusion (right or wrong) is I'd prefer to appear to be a social reject than a walking infection. This young lady had no hope of bedding all those people, there is only so much you can do in 7 days (new profile). Can I suggest that if you are concerned about what people think, then make an appropriate comment in your profile. cheer Bob (and listen to Kiss - wise woman!)

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Good post. We think its better to keep our friends in our hot list etc rather than displaying for all to see. We have been asked to be friends with some even though we havent even spoken with them...go figure. Mars

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