M50 F47
Frustrated about chatrooms
September 02 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mr C...I luvs ya and chat to you xooxoxoxoxoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
I saw this going on yesterday. The dude in the couple was in chat... and lads kept saying what a nice butt he has... on account of the fact that his wife's butt was his profile pic... He played along at first but it sure got monotamous. As it happened, he actually did have a nice butt... except all those guys assumed he was she. It's a bit of an animal house in there I think. He could have resolved the problme by turning on his cam.... but why should he have to! The sooner I get blocked by the people who are aren't very friendly anyway.. the better off I am... hehe! Hugs Gazza
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piercedfun
16 years ago
hey mr cuma yeah we dont see you in chat alot but your always a pleasure to chat to when your in but i see your point your a couple you come as a couple so people should treat you as a couple i met mrs cuma on her last trip and keen to meet mrsometime your always a pleasure to chat to but maybe some people cause they dont chat to you often they may not know what to talk to you about but at the same time there is no excuse for rudeness
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RHP User
16 years ago
Awww MrC I'll chat you up oooops I mean chat to ya! Just say hey Kaito show us ya tits and I will know its you behind the nickname ;) haha Nah seriously just say "oi kaito" and I will have a yarn with you :) Kaito x
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RHP User
16 years ago
As frustrating as it may be with just guys and guys from so called couples homing in on the mrs all the time and the bias towards other m halves of couples ....its all just in a chat room. Tell those that dont want to talk to your guy or have the tunnel vision going to just simply go jump and ignore them. Give your time only to those that take a couple as a couple and ignore the other trash on the site.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Very valid point it happens alot guys always over the women part of couple saying hi and xx's but when it the male part and they find out they stop chat..But then soon as the female partner gets on cam with hubby or b/f its like hi hi hi all over again.. Goes to show some have no manners or respect for the fact C means Couples which means 2 people and not 1.. TIT
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RHP User
16 years ago
we understand it's gonna happen no matter what site! but its just a shame to see those people so unfocused on what others are asking!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey cumas!!!I reckon guys must get embarrassed when they use their best lines on who they think it a girl...only to find its a guy.Do you both write in the same colour? Perhaps that would make it less confusing??But it really wont matter....the peeps that like to chat and are friendly will talk to you...and the ones that just wanna see a chick getting her kit off wont. Unless youre the one undressing her...most will conveniently forget you exist.Sad but true.Just talk to the peeps that talk to you....and ignore the rest of the dickeads!!!Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
We get this on MSN too, the first question is "Who's this?" or "is this the m or f?" and for that they get a ride on the bannned-wagon. If you want to get to know is, then it's irrelevant who is online, UNLESS you want to actually have a conversation. We always say who is on in the first few msg's anyway, just to clear it up.9 times out of 10, the ones that ask who's online first up are either fakes, guys online but no mrs - which leads to trying to play solo too, or just timewasters that have no intentions of getting to know us and just want to swap pics and have cybersex.Woo. Cybersex. Excitement plus!
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2more4fun
16 years ago
I find that annoying too, but mainly if someone is chatting to you for the first time. I remember the male of a couple we know was getting all suggestive and flirty on MSN when he finally stopped and asked if it was actually Mrs or Mr on the other end (both guys being straight). As HotOzCouple_cc said, it shouldn't matter who you're talking to if you're a couple looking to get to know the other couple.Mrs 2more
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mr C... We have the same issue here. We like to meet couples as well but people quite often do have tunnel vision. We will both happily talk to you both and hope you feel you can do the same with us, regardless of who is on cam or in chat at the same time.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Cumallova.......I have heard this from other couples i know....sorry to hear your the latest Victum of this behaviour But ....Like Anywhere on the Internet these Days Someone always Forget to Read What are called the" Commonsense Rules" To the Daft....before they ever gave them a An Account Everyones Got Rules for themselves.....and Expectations Of Behaviour from others....... Heres Mine....For when chatting to People In Realtionships on the Internet , As a single Woman.... * always ask if it it's Mr or Mrs when i say hello when chatting to me without a cam on....It Just polite....Ffs *Its a Given unless stated otherwise.....Couple Profile...Couple Deal ..kinda thing...not the right words there but hope yanno what i mean....( hopefully) * its also Nice to ask where MR or Mrs Is.....if they are Not around *i dont do or say anything that is not shared full knowledge to both partners.....( so not the way i Roll...Im famous for My blunt ..not very tactfully delivered honesty..and im keepin it that way) My thoughts anyways.... The Rude One....! XXXXXXXXXXX PS.......Join My team anyways Cumallova.......My team Dont take..... we Give......
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah I 'mra' understand where you are coming from too. But the cold hard fact is that the boys outnumber the girls 10 to one and i feel sorry for the women that not only have to try and hold 5 convos at once,,,,, but also have to deflect or ignore the barage of 'show us ya tits/pussy/arse/feet/footy card collection et al'. As for MSN how many of us have wasted hours talking to 'couples' and never get to see/chat to the female half..ohh shes asleep on the couch..at the gym....at work...curing cancer ffs. I guess we all work out pretty quick in chat whos the real deal ....the webcams help heaps....and those of us that can hold a coversation for more that 5 minutes before pulling out the tackle can make some good chat buddies. OK who wants to see my cock??????????MrAmoureux
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree Nudie! Couldn't have said it better myself!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well said Nudie xxxx As a single female I find that there are alot of males on couples profiles that aren't really in a couple situation so I always ask who it is and is both people there....... I don't tend to speak very much if its just one member of the couple male or female. Mr C you guys know me so i have thought alot about this situation before i answered it.... maybe it would help if mrs cuma didn't have a female profile... just stick to a couples profile. We all know some peeps on RHP cant read profiles but i guess when mrs C gets on with her female profile it may give an illusion that she plays alone. as I said I know you and am not making judgement just trying to have an open mind as to what peeps might think ...... I don't think alot of people realise that most times your sitting next to Mrs C when she is on cam, maybe saying hello as a couple could help also ..... I know myself I'd prefer to speak with both at the same time. Doing this may also reduce the number of people who only chat to mrs C and therefore will get to know you guys as a couple. Anyhow they really don't know what they are missing anyway............................ their loss .... oh and mr c hehe just block em its sooo much fun :) then they cant just chat with Mrs C at all either..... Luv ya's lots xxxxxxxx funfun :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, we have a mrs profile! and it is for good reason! and so do alot of other couples have a female profile for there cple statis!!!!! No i dont play alone and if they actually took the time to read ALL OF PROFILE, they would see that!!! Has anyone noticed how many couples actually survive of there female profile, even though they in a couple!!!!!!! We resort to our couple profile to anybody interested! I can understand what funfun is saying fully, Mrs C
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey mr & mrs c...i have chatted to mrs c lots but have only ever seen u around once i think...if i ever get back into "chat" on this site i will make it a priority to say hi....but.... i have to say it is a bit frustrating to see so much c**ck cam. I had better shud up before i get expelled again lolsammy xxps...the x x is one for u mr c & one for mrs cxx again lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
We've experienced that crap too. God how many times we get asked "is this mr or mrs?" The minute people do that we know they arent the real deal and we delete or block their sorry butts!
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RHP User
16 years ago
and folks this is exactly why we have two profiles on rhp...if the dont wanna talk too both of us.... they can take a flying f%&k...it amazing how many so called friends of my wifey have just vanshished into the dark corners of the chat rooms since i have made my presence felt in the rooms .. hold in there bro..just remember your not alone...time for a refill... bourbon glass is empty take care...
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floyd277
16 years ago
hey mr c - seen you in action a couple of times on cam hehe (totally awesome btw) - I lurv couples and would never be so rude as to not chat to either the m or the f. I think for the most part ppl my be chasing f and this is another example of rudness that prevails in chat
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RHP User
16 years ago
that is the reason why we have two profiles on rhp...is amazing how many so called friends of the wifes just disapaired into the dark corners of the chat rooms when i started to made my presence felt by regulary joining her..if they dont want to talk to both of us as a couple then we just wont talk back..totally understand where u coming from cuma...
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RHP User
16 years ago
sorry didnt think the first message worked...my bad...hehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
well u r not expellleedd yet xxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
well, how rude can ya get?....sheesh...just block the buggas and chat to the guys who will chat to ya...if i can find my way into the chat rooms...i will chat to any guy...as long as he isn't flopping his cock all over my screen...roflcheers and have a great time...jose
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have only just started to go in the Chat room, but we do have MSN and I would much rather chat to both people in a couple because that is what we are looking for and we want to get to know both of you, not just one of you. If we see you in chat we will both happily chat to you Mr C and Mrs C xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
We agree with you deeveeat time we have chatted to cpls but its alway the male half and the female half is never around
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RHP User
16 years ago
as the Mr of this lil pair we call schmoopsy i know too well the fact that everyone would prefer to talk to/ see mrs schmoopsy rather than me, but this is where i tell everyone that i do most of the talking whether mrs is sitting beside me or not. bottom line is she couldn't be stuffed sifting through the crap to find the people we want to chat to, she leaves that to me LOL so if by chance you do get to say hi to her your very lucky.
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RHP User
16 years ago
... I'm usually doing 10 things at once when online so just can't keep up with the flickering chats!!!!I concur that when I've requested a chat or had one requested of me it so often happens that the first question asked is "is this the male or female?" When I answer male then often they just leave without another word. What's with this? If I lied and said female, they'd continue? I've tried it to see and yes it works but sheesh we're not on here to lie. Fact is that it's my little job to do the net thing, Mrs Pup can't be bothered until there's a sexy person within touching distance! If someone is interested in our profile does it matter who is chatting? I often get "we'll chat when your girl can". Can someone explain what good that will do? My poor two-finger typing wife would only come off as a bit slow anyway (which she is most certainly not!)On the up side it serves as a filter for the genuine ones actually interested in both of us as the ones that just have to talk to the femme are usually the ones that will never meet or just after some cyber, which neither of us are that into.I wish more members would use these forums - seems like an even better way to get a feel of the person behind the profile.
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StookyAndChooky
16 years ago
its the same with us as well stooky feels like you do in a nut shell we both enjoy chatting to you both while we are in the same room we give couples the same respect we expect from another couple. yes guys do have tunnel vision so to speak will do or say anything to get between you both including spreading rumours and telling females to stay away etc i know you know what we are talking about here. Females well thats different again some are on here to boost egos not really here to play with ppl as such, some are on here just play pure mind games more so than meet up and have fun etc. WE BOTH LOVE CHATTING TO YOU BOTH HOPE WE CAN CHAT AGAIN SOON xxxxxx StookyAndChooky
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RHP User
16 years ago
ok guys n gals..my 2 cents. As the M half of a cple....I talk to anyone who is wanting to know BOTH of us..not just the missus. Majority of the time K is at work/sleeping on the couch (u know what I mean for those that have seen this!!) Any comments made during said conversation to anyone are relayed to k later. As for chatting..I just be urself...me..I'm upfront n honest from the start (Mr of couple) unless ur a dickwad then its different...lmao. D p.s..miss u guys (hugs n mwahs to those who wants em)
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