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Funky 2 eat slice of humble pie - small slice

September 22 2013

We have said people must stand by their words & we always will practice this ourselves. we do walk the walk when we talk the talk. A post was written as a reply to a thread by Jay_Me where we slammed this member for his dislike of the term 'Dude' & had assumed the topic was linked to another thread where we had addressed him. Yep, never assume because blah blah blah We fucked up, got dates wrong, 'Dude' thread wasn't related to the thread we thought. So, Jay_Me, the attack we made in the 'Dude' referencing was incorrect. This is a correction only. We are not apologising as the fuel for this post we made relates to not only this 'Dude' title but more towards the ignorance displayed by Jay_Me. The same ignorance displayed by too many supposedly modern, enlightened, sexually open people. Jay_Me, yes, you are entitled to your 'opinion'. A person's sexual identity is not an 'opinion' though. To use a very basic example everybody will be able to understand, you have 2 legs. Can't argue with that. We say a person is Bisexual, you also can't argue about that. Simple, concise, no more to ponder, discuss or think about. We have egg on our face because we jumped on a thread unrelated to the topic we had linked it to. We owe Jay_Me an open post in the forums admitting this. That is all. Mr & Mrs Funky (.)(.) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I am confused,is this an apology or another attack on jay_me?I didn't respond to your first post as I definitely do not agree with homophobic crap in any way shape or form but this a bit of over kill me thinks

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Same same but different :) It read like an attack disguised as an apology to me. But I have no context for the post, so I might be misreading it all.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I've got no idea what Posts you're talking about , I don't read 'em all , but I am touched by the sight of an open apology on the Forums ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    😁

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Humble pie? More like you wanted to have your cake and eat it. If you thought this would make you look good: It doesn't.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Don't worry about it. Had childish and repugnant run-in's with this clown in the past. There should be a "Warm Custard Pie" site for these moral majority representatives of the forums.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    FunkyPrrthbicple, I love bi men, adore them in fact, and I can understand your anger about something that is so important to you, but I think you have misunderstood what Jay_Me said in that gay/bi thread. His views may be old fashioned at times but he doesn't advocate hate, and he hasn't said anything along those lines about gays or bi's that I can remember. xx 😘

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    And just let me check.....but this in your universe is an apology?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It's a small slice of humble pie!!! Small being the operative word there.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I am still not convinced that humble is the flavour of the pie.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    LOL.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Ice cream cake*. Looks impressive at first sight, but is cold and doesn't have a lot of substance.     *The post, not the poster.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    The Funkys did say it was a small slice. . Nice to see you acknlowledge your mistake Funkys. I think it would have been just as well to post it on the 'Dude' thread. And skip mentioning anything unrelated to the direct apology. :-)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear' I think it would have been just as well to post it on the 'Dude' thread. Already done.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    There was no implication within our opening post indicating an apology though it appears people consider there was. Again that word 'assume' appears..... We were not 'eating the whole cake' we were not throwing further stones. We were definitely not trying to redeem ourselves in anybody eyes. In our universe we are positive the words which were written said we were making a correction regarding the links of two threads. For those who care to just read our words as they were written, check the thread we referred to which we had incorrectly linked to the 'Dude' thread and note the words used in this post when we refer to 'opinion'. For those hung up on thinking humble equates to apologising & are now struggling to find a different filling, just continue eating or bake another pie or whatever you need to do. The 'substance' was never to be found in the 'pie' if you blindedly were pulling it apart searching for this apology which you had already been told was not there. Correction, opinion, first thread mentioned in the 'Dude' thread itself. That is the trail. Not apology, hint of apology, hope of redemption. That is a trail we have not paved & which you appear to think we had pointed you towards. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Can someone please direct me to where this storm in a teacup took place?   Er.. actually - no thanks.   I'm not armed with the background on this issue, but agree with others above that this is either the worst apology ever, or a sideswipe badly attempting to look like an olive branch.   Please clarify (and be honest) so we can all get some rest. LOL.   BTW, I want my Funky nickname back please! ; )

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Rather than spreading this any further through the forums Funkys, I would have thought it would have been best for you to have posted any attempt at an apology on Jay_me's 'Dude' thread where the issue is already being discussed. Now it's a big drama and I'm guessing, like Chev, it's you two I'm going to be reading comments about all over the forums... sigh....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I posted the link to this thread on the Dudes forum, as some new posters were taking what Funky said as gospel, and continuing the Jay_me bashing. Jay, I just get jealous when it's not me.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Aside from stuff it would be a waste of time me going into because it's not based on anything solid enough, most of the posts after the few by the Funkys seem to be relating to the OP, which has nothing to do with the Funkys. imo. . and I'm not getting into Funky bashing...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It would have been good if the Funky couple had had the chance to post their own take on the thread.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' I posted the link to this thread on the Dudes forum, as some new posters were taking what Funky said as gospel, and continuing the Jay_me bashing. Jay, I just get jealous when it's not me.    The DUDE writes some incredibly narrow minded posts. He's like a resurrected Charles. Good on the Funky's for calling him out on his opinions.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    those like me who are

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    When commenting on a direct post, sure. But reading someone else's comments about Jay and running with those is a different matter. What if someone posted untrue stuff about you, and people posted responses to you based on those things. Ok, I'm done. Off to find new pie flavours to stuff my pretty little face with.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Meeka Pie....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    All the "hold on bitch" and "liar liar pants on fire" and the other vitriol stands and you just put it in the wrong thread?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Self saucing Meeka pie 😀

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' When commenting on a direct post, sure. But reading someone else's comments about Jay and running with those is a different matter. What if someone posted untrue stuff about you, and people posted responses to you based on those things. Ok, I'm done. Off to find new pie flavours to stuff my pretty little face with. I would think that people arnt sheep and can make up their own mind without being influenced by others. Hey but Im a bitter twisted bitch with baggage apparently. Sigh. And Mes. If anyone dares to call me vanilla on the forums, fuck I will defend myself :P

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' What if someone posted untrue stuff about you, and people posted responses to you based on those things. I've had plenty of this in my time on RHP LOL! Sassy soul that I am... . It is incredibly rare to see someone post right out that they were wrong. I have to admire that, even if it was poorly presented.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I see a cynical exercise in reiterating what they said about jay-me before.Now they have a whole thread,not just a few posts.I rarely agree with Jay about anything much, but I find this treatment of him OTT.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Without adding anymore fuel to the flames, we would like to explain why this new thread was started & not added to the thread where we posted the comments attacking Jay_Me   1. for quite obvious reasons, we have been blocked by Jay_Me & are unable to send him a private message 2. we posted a public attack, it is only the right thing that we post in public we were wrong in linking 2 threads which were unrelated 3. we felt by posting something like this on a very lengthy thread, Jay_Me would not see it, our post would become lost in the masses & the main point attempting to be brought to the attention of everybody would be forever overshadowed & trivialised.   With complete sincerity, no hidden agenda or hidden motive, we apologise for the aggressive attack made towards Jay_Me with all referencing to any mention of labelling "Dude", the context used and for incorrectly linking his thread to the thread "Are Bi Guys Gay".   Without deflecting from this apology or diluting it any way, we stand by every word, every statement & every attack which referenced the ignorant statements made by Jay_Me when he stated ALL Bi people were Gay, black & white, end of story.   We will not accept this as old fashioned thinking to just be indulged & will not tolerate this ignorant, dismissive & arrogant behaviour when we see it. It is offensive, it is degrading & in this particular post our reply came down to this same level in our attack. It's there now though & we will stand by it & accept the consequences.   Our argument is not that people are not entitled to an opinion. That is ridiculous. Our argument is a person's sexual identity is not open for others to form an individual opinion. To repeat what we wrote earlier, very simple example is you stand there & say you have 2 legs. No argument, no opinion & no questions can be formed or asked about that, it's fact, it's accepted, move on. somebody else will now stand there & say they are Bisexual. Again fact & what everybody needs to accept, understand & educate themselves about is the reality of the similarity we are attempting to put forward so everybody can hopefully grasp this meaning.   A person's sexuality is not a lifestyle choice. A person's sexuality is not up for discussion. When somebody dismisses, questions, ridicules or ignorantly labels somebody 'confused' because of another's sexuality they should be held accountable for their statements & words & they should be told this behaviour is not acceptable or tolerated.   Forum members who are posting their own views against us in response to the posts which we have made, are exercising their right to have their opinions, about what we have written, how we have portrayed ourselves & what our posts have indicated to them the type people we are. These are the true meaning of that word 'opinion'. This is the example which should be shown in future when a person's sexuality is believed to be the subject of discussion.   The Funky 2 (.)(.)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Again half a post. I so much want to convert him to the bi side. He would so love it. Poor Jay_me is so missing out on some of life's great pleasures.Guilty pleasures for me in the post, love pie. As a BI guy I do resent some of the homophobic dribble some do present. I try not to name names, oops to late. Kisses Jay_me I still love you, would you like a blow job, it will make you feel better. Where is he?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ... Look Up ... Did anyone notice the Full Moon ? GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I didnt do it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It is us who have made this thread what it is lol. . You're right Funky couple you haven't apologised at all... merely corrected yourself. . There is no humble pie... not even a teeny slice or crumb. Humble implies a completely different attitude to what you have put across here. Part of the the definition tells me humble: is not arrogant, that it's reflecting, expressing, or offered in a spirit of deference, or submission Fool me for reading too much into that one word in your heading. I stick by my early assertion that your OP could very well have been posted on the other thread... . I offer my apologies Mes, I have linked threads myself in the past, I had hoped for a different outcome here though. I was wrong. :-)

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I'm completely oblivious to all of this stuff...(wandering around in the dark looking for a light switch or a box of candles and a match!!). Seems there's a bit of "bashing" happening all round, come on team; pull together now.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Yes ma'am...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Oh, he's absent. Speechless. All cut up.... says volumes. Maybe he's at Mike and Shells doing vanilla cake?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    *passes around marshmallows*Come on peeps pull up a log each and lets sing .....Kum ba yah, my lord, Kum ba yah! Kum ba yah, my lord, Kum ba yah! Kum ba yah, my lord, Kum ba yah. O Lord, Kum ba yah Someone's crying, Lord, Kum ba yah! Someone's crying, Lord, Kum ba yah! Someone's crying, Lord, Kum ba yah! O Lord, Kum ba yah Someone's singing, Lord, Kum ba yah! Someone's singing, Lord, Kum ba yah! Someone's singing, Lord, Kum ba yah! O Lord, Kum ba yah Someone's praying, Lord, Kum ba yah! Someone's praying, Lord, Kum ba yah! Someone's praying, Lord, Kum ba yah! O Lord, Kum ba yah FOXY

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Can we do the hokey pokey next?...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY'*passes around marshmallows*Come on peeps pull up a log each and lets sing ..... Kum ba yah, my lord, Kum ba yah! Kum ba yah, my lord, Kum ba yah! Kum ba yah, my lord, Kum ba yah. O Lord, Kum ba yah Someone's crying, Lord, Kum ba yah!Someone's crying, Lord, Kum ba yah!Someone's crying, Lord, Kum ba yah! O Lord, Kum ba yah Someone's singing, Lord, Kum ba yah!Someone's singing, Lord, Kum ba yah!Someone's singing, Lord, Kum ba yah! O Lord, Kum ba yah Someone's praying, Lord, Kum ba yah!Someone's praying, Lord, Kum ba yah!Someone's praying, Lord, Kum ba yah! O Lord, Kum ba yah FOXY   No effing way would I sing that

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Now just before we get going with the guitar...Wedgey dear you get it tuned up for us hey? Niw the Funky's on reading your last post I think this topic lays very close to your heart and may even lay closer still to someone/situation close to you. I applaud your passion on all points rasied. As for Jay_Me well..... I'm sure it was just a view put forward. To err is human, to forgive divine. Now ladies piss that kum bye yar shit off!! My mates mum has a female version to put another log on the fire which I will share because sharing's caring (copyrighted so pls don't pinch) now, guitar ready Wedgey dear? Me me me me meeeeeeeee...... Put another log on the fire, you've dashed all my desires and my dreams, now go and make me up a nice cup of tea and come and tell me why you're leavin' me? Come on baby you can scrub my back then wash my hair on Sundays, and cook me up a budget gourmet tea and put another log in the fire babe then come and tell me why you're leavin' me. Oh aren't I always nice to your week's pay cheque? And don't I take ya shopping Thursday nights? Then come and rub my feet cos I like it when you're sweet and ya know that And don't you know I'll flog ya if we fight! Come on baby you can wash my back and then go pick the kids up, then cook me up a budget gourmet tea and put another log on the fire babe and come and tell me why you're leavin' meeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeeee!! Lmao. Marshmallow please!!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think this fire is screaming for roadkill ! Impaled on a stick and turned slowly.Pass.

  • BrightBubbly

    BrightBubbly

    12 years ago

    This is what happens when you are sick with the flu - you miss ALL the good stuff !!!Now I am slinking off to find what on earth happened...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Take my hat off to you both. You did not have to post this but show you are genuine nice people who are real. Shame that there are not more like you. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    this book is available to read on -line and has some interesting points to makeA Critical Introduction to Queer Theory...Nikki Sullivan.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Is that like the string theory but a little we mmm.....queer?? :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Can we spit roast you????? Lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Self saucing Meeka pie 😀 Sticky date pudding?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Cheers guys, I admire your efforts, good on you.