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Fussy Hussy? Picky Prick?
January 12 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
I feeling a little giddey. The colour you have chosen as your font is resonating so much that I cannot read it... or rather, so much so, that I can "barely" read it.... I cannot be expected to perform in these conditions, and you will be hearing from my agent!I rarely drink, but this one time in band camp... someone spiked their armpits. :)HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Threw rapidly blinking eyes ..case by case..i go with how well i get on with the person they could have 2 heads but are nice people..both of them !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think we all have a few deal breakers. For me, my deal breakers are.... - Redheads (sorry it not personal, just not attracted.) - people with no SOH. - Snobs/arrogent/cocky ppl. Having said that.... that one drink that pushes you over the line can make you see something that isnt there.... or not see something that is there. Then have another drink and you see nothing at all... just feel ur way through it.... 8inches... ding, ding, ding we have a winner!!!! LOL
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RHP User
14 years ago
I will never ever lower my standards when looking for hot sex - if I were looking for marriage, it would not be as purely physical. I am lucky enough to have it on tap with a hot man at home, anything extra NEEDS to be special for me to get into it . I can not take one for the team ! Which is why group sex is a major turn off for me , I like to be physically into the person I am fucking ! There is someone ( or ones) for everyone , we all have a right to be absurdly fussy !
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RHP User
14 years ago
No I dont believe that you can be too fussy. I dont think I should lower my standards. I know exactly what I want and I am not about to accept second best for anyone. No I dont get the beer goggles on and find otherwise unattractive people more attractive the more I drink. If they are not right sober, then they are not right drunk and for me it has very little to do with the looks department anyway.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I do not drink so, maybe if I took my contacts out? For me its chemistry and that’s about it, a guy could be the most hot looking male in the room, and care factor zero. On that note however I do have a few sexual cerebral triggers Tall is one of them or at least my hight, makes me feel all girlie to look up to a man. Clean, short hair cropped Lean body though not to skinny Though a guy could have all of these and nada, not a single tingle Or have none of these and I just lift my skirt and say please Sir may I have some more? Oh yes and if your make me laugh, your in like like Stalky, or umm Flynn I mean Flynn, dammit. I think I broke my nose getting to close to try and read the green font. nothing wrong with being fussy as what is the point of having sex with a person that does not do it for you?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I admit it, I am too fussy and I rarely meet guys I have met online. Not sure if its because I am shy or online dating isn't for me or I am just too damn lazy. I suspect it is laziness. . As for sex clubs well, that depends too, but overall I would say I am less fussy as my only criteria really is based on looks and if there is sexual chemistry there. I don't really need to know if they have a sense of humour or what they do for a living, etc, etc. . So I would say my fussines depends on what you want them for. A one night, for some group action, to be friends with, to be an FB, or if there is potential for something a little more serious. . xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
is a harsh word............'selective' or 'particular'...........suits much better............we think you can never be too selsctive...especially when it comes to searching for sexual encounters on sites like this...........aim higher than what you already have, or have had.....or theres simply no point is there? i said elsewhere that people should never settle for "OK" or 'second rate'..........theres no joy in indulging in many forgettable encounters....when its only ever going to be the ones you truly enjoyed, that you'll wish to remember...............we are here to pursue and satisfy fantasy.... and they have never included sex with mr or mrs average...or the single dad up the street.....or someone elses husband/wife or partner...........
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RHP User
14 years ago
believe it or not..... i think u will find a large number of us males are fussy too..... i am, if i do not find the female attractive then it just aint gonna happen, with my situation i get very few hits on this site and believe me i have walked away from 1 or 2 of the few i have got...... i recently had a couple in brisvegas invite me over, i clearly stipulated my mariral situation.... no probs, good as gold, here's the address etc etc....when i got there, suddenly average build became 15kg overweight, after a drink and chat i said "sorry mr and mrs x i dont think anything is going to happen i will leave"....well, didnt she turn on me about beig married !
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RHP User
14 years ago
those darn beer goggles .. mind you i've had some of the most mind blowing sex ever from people who, i would hate to admit it, wouldn't have been interested in prior to a few drinks
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tomrach79
14 years ago
Is fussy meeting an apparently hot couple and when you meet them they are a lot less hot then they seemed? I think it's hard not to post your best photos and use your best wit online but really, you need to leave some quality for the first meet!! 'hi, I'm x this is y, I know we look better in our photos, but we like to fuck. Wanna fuck?' 'um, we did, but no thank you, bye now' Brings 'we are real' to a whole new level.
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RHP User
14 years ago
and will never change it for anyone! I am accused alot of being "too" fussy...but sorry, my vagina...my body...I can be as fussy as I damn well want and moreso! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
As much as I would like to just accept everyone for what they are. " I cant ". Both my man and I put time into looking after ourselves both in appearance and physically , so it is only natural we look for ppl the same. We are not gym junkies, but we do put in the time to exercise , eat the right foods and along with good fashion sense keeps us looking fresh and attractive. This does'nt mean we're snobs ' far from it. Just know what we want...Not too long ago ' Mr JJ posted a similar thread titled " Punching above your weight" This post continued for quite awhile with many guys saying they always punched above their weight, hence the overwhelming amount of males sending nuisense messages and flirts. Mind you' if they were face to face they would probally just shy away, but behind a computer screen they become larger than life.So to all you posters above who refuse to accept any less than than what you want , stick to your guns. You obviously deserve what you expect Mrs JJ
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RHP User
14 years ago
For one on one….yep Im fussy and I make no apologies for that…..however I’d be lying if I said this fussiness hasn’t lead to lots of lonely nites at home dvding..and the mastering of self love !!! !!! but it is what it is…I like to make a connection witha my partner even if it’s for a quick one…and I’m very comfortable with that…..and intelligence (not too mention tall dark and handsome) rocks my world and I like my world to be rocked..even if it’s just for a couple of hours…having said that..in a swing club situation, I may not be as “fussy”….it depends on the vibe and what is going on and down, the mood, atmosphere of all that is happening . Must admit, after a really rough tough day at work (where have been left feeling wounded) and the tequila has kicked in..yep must admit the halo has at times slipped…something about comfort..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yes I suppose you could call me fussy because you have to filter out the ones that you don't find suitable. It think though that I prefer to be called "discerning".
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RHP User
14 years ago
discerning? .............. i like that one! i was using 'particular'......or 'selective' what about 'judicious' or even 'prudent'? or one i found.......'persnickety'........lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
What's the difference between a dog and a fox?.......six beers.
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TWOfourYOU
14 years ago
For us yes i beleive we are "SELECTIVE", we both prefer/need the person/s to be to our physical liking as well as to be engageing. We clas that as "selective" and at times i am sure that upsets some we so no to, but at the same breath we have been knocked back before and respect that as that is there choice and choice is what it is all about. Our thoughts anyway.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am so picky now it's not even funny I think it's because I know what I like and what I do not like :p
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Innercircle
14 years ago
We are a lot more picky online, than in person. And I think that is because we are both attracted to personalities... humour, sarcasm, happiness, is a big turn on. Sure, stunning people are, well, great to look at, but online, you can view a picture and move on, in person, we really get 'into' the person. Someone that can keep up with our humour, has a great time, and is genuinely happy with an interesting story or two, beats a pretty face and a dull attitude every time.But, having said all that, we definately have more offers to play than we have time to play, so it's easier to tend to bat above average if that's the case :PI guess it also comes down to the length of time we've all been doing this. When we were new, fresh, and HUNGRY, we'd be beeboppin and scatting all over the place trying to get a 'hit'. Nowadays, we have our friends, or "network" if you like, and tend to just sit back and see who comes to us...
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