Stickybuns69

Stickybuns69

M57 F52

Gangbang

July 01 2026

Chasing the hiveminds thoughts on gangbangs. Our sexy 'hotwife' has fantasised about having a gangbang for a long time now, but it seems that we can't make the fantasy materialise. We advertised ( and attempted to host ) one a few months ago, but were plagued with time-wasters, 'no-shows', and guys who simply misrepresented themselves i.e profile v reality. We also decided to attend a 'Greedy girls' event that was put on by a club on the Gold Coast. Contrary to promising a selection of vetted, quality gents, there was only a smattering of nervy singles and the rest were couples. Our question is, has anyone been able to organise a successful GB and how? Is there a particular venue in Australia that caters to this? It should be noted that we are into quality over quantity i.e Attractive, friendly, fit, respectful guys

Comments

  • AFMelbs2026

    AFMelbs2026

    11 hours ago

    I am with you, it sounds easier than you think to get a few guys over to help out

  • Thesunlovingsub

    Thesunlovingsub

    9 hours ago

    OSS in Sydney does an event called 3Cs every few months. I’ve been and had a great time, but heard mixed reviews. For private GBs - which are more work but way better because you control the setting - it takes a bit to get the right men in the room. It may be worth meeting a few guys who are experienced at group play, having a date, and if you’re feeling it then let them know what you’re interested in next. I say “experienced” for a few reasons. They’re less likely to suddenly realise that they’re not secure enough in themselves to be in that situation with other men (it happens and it ain’t fun for anyone!) They may also have friends they can recommend, or once you’ve met a few guys you like who you think will have fun together organise it then. A personal referral is always safer and better than a rando online if it’s an option, and it adds a layer of accountability and comfort to the guys to show up if it’s with their mates. If your wifey has female friends in the lifestyle, a quality check on a new online contact can help too. It’s a small world here! Finally, there’s a few GB groups on here that can help facilitate, but I think they may be in Sydney and Melbourne. Patience and groundwork will help to make sure you both have a sexy memorable time. Good luck and I hope you can make it happen 💖 Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

  • BarberBoss1981

    BarberBoss1981

    9 hours ago

    One of my girlfriends and I had a gangbang recently with 7 amazing guys that we have connected with over time and made friends with...cant really rely on strangers to ever meet the expectations so we stayed within our circle, sent out a text to our favourites and had the most flawless, fun filled night. Using your existing connections, in my opinion, is the only way to go!

  • PandaAndBri

    PandaAndBri

    8 hours ago

    We did see one in one of the rooms at Chatau Vino on the first night we ever went to a club, which was a dress down event. Lingerie or less after 9.30. I think there were 6 in the room and it was 2 ladies and the rest men. It was an eye opener for us. I’m not sure which club you went to but if it was Chatau, try a dress down event or a themed night. Make some friends while you are there. Once you know a few of the regulars, put what you want out there and they may be able to help make it happen. Good Luck, Bri

  • Shared_HotWife

    Shared_HotWife

    5 hours ago

    Gangbangs take a lot of effort to bring to reality. We aim for 1 every 8 weeks or so. We have found that any more than 6 fellows is almost impossible to deal with logistically. We have also found that there is a core group of fellows whom we have met on numerous occasions so it does help having a roster as such to call on.. It would be very hard to turn up from out of town and kind of hope that everyone is who they say they are… we take quite a bit of time to vet the list of fellows who we invite. It’s a huge benefit being able to meet them in MMF or MMMF on a more regular basis as you know exactly who you’re dealing with. This also allows a rapport to develop… this is really important. Most fellows actually want to be treated like a person not just a random cock for the night. One of the reasons that we end up with lots of choice is that we treat people like people and not like meat. Another really important part of a gangbang is to understand the TEAM mentality. You need a captain, you need someone (hopefully your hubby) to be able to lead the team and provide framework and keep everything on task. Gangbangs are a celebration of feminine desire so the male energy needs to be focused on that… hence a captain is imperative. Otherwise it would be very impersonal and a shallow pissing contest of who’s dick swings the biggest…

  • SweetSerenade

    SweetSerenade

    an hour ago

    Your profile consists of a large list of demands while effectively being devoid of what you have to offer. This will chase away potentially good candidates. Attractive and fit single men are as rare as attractive and fit women here - they can get plenty of action via tinder. MOST single men here seek the elusive from, which for a single guy is difficult to arrange, so they stick to tinder hookups. Truthfully the GB kink isn't that appealing to many men, especially singles who crave being the 'treat' rather than being one in a party mix. The best way to achieve your goal is probably to fill the stable by arranging a bunch of MMF dates first, and once you have several single males you have a FWB situation with, organise a private party with them. Even a gathering with good lifestyle friends as a group is difficult, let alone single guys. It's like herding cats! Good luck in your hot fantasy!

  • Pocketrocket602

    Pocketrocket602

    -4 hours ago

    It's difficult to find decent men who are on board with not only your requests, but completely comfortable around men in that kind of setting, even if they won't be touching each other. Instead of complaining about the lack of men you desire to seek, especially at this greedy girls event on the GC, how about you look at the upside and realise the lack of is to keep the women there SAFE. It sounds like you have fair experiences swinging, and instead of helping those nervy, single men feel valued by you being social with them, it sounds like you wanted to treat them.like a piece of meat. Men who'd be up for just about anything at the whim of your requests, how about making those men (who obviously were probably there for the first time) feel more comfortable by engaging with them. It sounds like you have a lot of expectations and demands, and I don't see them ever being fulfilled to your liking. That's ok though, some fantasies have to stay that way