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Getting caught out
October 15 2013
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blondes6365
12 years ago
people need to keep there mouths shut
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RHP User
12 years ago
and shock em.....will shut them up. Or they dont believe you...BECAUSE
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RHP User
12 years ago
yeah we had the wifes brother in-law tell a lot of people in the small town we used to live in about our life style. never go back to that place anymore
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a young lady I consider AS one of my Daughters.... All of a sudden I saw her name come up... she has an unusual name.. so, I went clicked on it, to CHECK... it WAS her.. I rang her up to tease her...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know what the dilemma is.....which is your privacy, and the risk to those judging you, removing their interests in you in businesses and the potential for stalking, kids etc..... But really, let's face it, whose issue is it?? Yours, or theirs if they have a problem with it??- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We bumped into a client of mine one night on a swingers cruise organised by Utopia a few years ago..It was a bit awkward at first. Let's say our business relationship has boomed, as we have a little more than business in common.
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JohnAnn2227
12 years ago
We have been caught a couple of times. Once a cousin of mine was staying the night so we could go out and play at Couples Club and the stay in a hotel. It was winter and as I was walking down our stairs I slipped (platforms! )and landed near our front door. My cousin ran to help me and found me spread eagled with my long coat open and me in my tiny tiny dress with stockings and no panties. That got the questions started and she basically guessed that we were up to mischief. She was really cool about it and wnated all the stories when we returned. We also got sprung at a nude pool party by the next door neighbours of John's parents. Not that they could say much either LOL!
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RHP User
12 years ago
weve being caught out a couple of times, but, funny one was the other week. We have a young student flatmate from Sweden. Shes not the sexy naughty kind of swede either, shes very anti anything sex and very very focused on her studies. I on the other hand was watching ufc from my laptop onto my bigscreen plasma. During the commentary part which can get boring I opened an email that an AMM couple sent me with very xxx rated pics including cum dripping from pussy etc ..as I was looking at these pics on my big screen with ufc blaring through the speakers. I heard a noise and looked around. It was my flatmate staring at the screen lol she wasn't impressed at all ... Only comment she made was ,Oh "so is it normal to look at porn while watching ufc ?" .Then walked back into her room, lol I had nothing to say , I was busted lol She hardly ever leaves her room now unless my wife is home ...Told my wife about it later she laughed her ass off ..
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RHP User
12 years ago
into a couple that we know at Saints and sinners. The funny thing was we had been watching them and 2 other males really getting in to it in one of the booths just moments before. They were all wearing masks in line with the theme and we have never seen them naked before so we had no idea until he looked over and started calling our names. Normally we see him in suit and tie around the halls of Justice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thought it was safe to post a face pic after some 4 years. But It took approximately 2 days for someone to recognise me and another 2 days for a second. So I pulled the face pic and reverted back to the old one. My brother and sister in law had the same about 2years back. Their neighbour who was also on RHP fronted them. Was all good cause they couldn't say much... Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's shameful to say the least that if anyone stumbles over ur name or picture they feel the need to tell all! If anyone told me of this I'd ask them st8 up why where u on that site looking ??? Years ago I work with call girls ;) and there was an unspoken rule if u come across anyone u knew u never ever spoke of it either way :)) and that is how the swinging life should stand :)) I've seen couples out n about over the years with friends n have never even made eye contact out of respect :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
We were chatting online to a lovely young lady from the home town where Mr comes from thinking that maybe we might get some play in on the side when visiting. When she finally said her name and he said his we all broke out into histerical laughter when Mr and the lady realised that she was his cousin. Not going there of course and lucky that we hadnt entered into a hot and horny conversation albeit his cousin saw our pics. Oh well, I am woman and I have titts and a vag, and yes I like sucking Mr's cock which hopefully will make them think I keep Mr happy. Afterwards I blocked her account as it didnt feel right for his cousin to have access. Well it's normal to like sex so I was only a little embarrassed. His family are not in the swinging lifestyle and they are all aware of Mr's lifestyle of the past 20 years so no problems there as they see how much Mr loves me and they do too which is nice. Perhaps a different story would be told if it were my conservative family.
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RHP User
12 years ago
well there is nothing like keeping it in the family you guys and you know who your friends are when they wont pass on their cousins they have hit on lol ...... rember you would bave seen her nakid befor lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'welove2pleaseu' well there is nothing like keeping it in the family you guys and you know who your friends are when they wont pass on their cousins they have hit on lol ...... rember you would bave seen her nakid befor lol haha :D Well if your ever intending to travel to central NSW let us know. lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
hmmm depends if its quality cause it can be only a change over away lol
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JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
Last weekend we had a night in the city with a couple that we have played with before. We shared a room at The Star and had a great night at the casino. Unfortunately during the week I received a phone call from a mum of one of the girls in my daughters netball team. She wanted to catch up for a chat and a coffee. Nothing greatly disturbing there except that we haven't socialised like that before. Anyway, over coffee she told me that she had also been at the casino on the Saturday night with some of the other parents from the team and they had seen us there. They had in fact seen us kissing, stroking, groping etc our spouse and the other partner. I was mortified and did not know what to say. She said that her husband and her did not have an issue with this but one of the other women that was there was disgusted and was going to tell the other parents in the team that we were obviously swingers.She just thought that we deserved the warning but didn't know what we could do. An additional problem for us is that a few of the girls in the team go to school with our daughter. Should I contact this woman and beg for her silence or does anyone have a better idea? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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HotWifeUnicorn
10 years ago
Hubby was forgetful leaving the rhp app installed on our ipad and we got busted bigtime... One family member came across it and now EVERYONE on my side of the family knows... Fortunately only one element disapproves and everyone-else including my parents are all 'it's none of our business' and 'as long as you are happy'... We've also changed our facebook relationship status to 'open'. Sure it was messy in that first few weeks after the app incident but since family knowing was the worst case scenario in my head I could care less about other's judgements. But then 'open relationship' on facebook can mean lots of things which maybe diffuses some of the perceived seedy factor of swinging. But we're at a place now which hubby describes as 'on the front foot'. Let them gossip, let it titillate them... Be strong and sexy together. If I had a hot tub time machine, rather than change what happened I would have let the kids know casually that we see other people but it doesn't mean any changes about our relationship. It would have been a white lie back then when we only swung together but it would have empowered them with some knowledge in a less scary way... And taken power back from those who might try and use the information to hurt them or your family.
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is so not fair, what does she think she can gain out of this situation. Some people can be so soul destroying, I can nearly bet this person thinks she is a quality human........so perfect she has to tarnish others.does she realise your daughter will suffer more than anyone else, kids can be so cruel with bullying n so in. I hope you can get on top of this.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
My advice.... say nothing, do nothing. You don't know if she will say anything, and if she does you can deal with it at the time. To approach her and beg for her silence is putting a huge amount of power into her hands and leave you wondering if she will honor whatever commitment she makes... I don't think you want to live with that worry for the rest of your days. Hold you head up high and know that it is your life and your choices; if others don't agree with your choices well so be it. Fooling around in public always has risks attached, we all know that. Hopefully her moral outrage will dissipate and life will continue on as normal.
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JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
Thank you everyone for your thoughts and advice. Take our kids out of the equation and we would just laugh at her. As with everything in our life though, the kids come first.Love to you all,Ann & John
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'JohnAnn2227'An additional problem for us is that a few of the girls in the team go to school with our daughter. Should I contact this woman and beg for her silence or does anyone have a better idea? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you think she might do that, then it might pay to head it off at the pass with an appeal to "think of the children" and the flak your daughter would take. Though maybe if the Mum who gave you the heads up was enlisted to say it might not be fair on the kids, that could help the cause too. kissk: all well and good for JohnAnn to hold their heads up high, but their daughter won't be - anyone who thinks schoolkids wouldn't make some poor kid's life hell for a few weeks doesn't remember what it was like to be at school, kids are merciless.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'JohnAnn2227'An additional problem for us is that a few of the girls in the team go to school with our daughter. Should I contact this woman and beg for her silence or does anyone have a better idea? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you think she might do that, then it might pay to head it off at the pass with an appeal to "think of the children" and the flak your daughter would take. Though maybe if the Mum who gave you the heads up was enlisted to say it might not be fair on the kids, that could help the cause too. kissk: all well and good for JohnAnn to hold their heads up high, but their daughter won't be - anyone who thinks schoolkids wouldn't make some poor kid's life hell for a few weeks doesn't remember what it was like to be at school, kids are merciless. Trust me on this.......I know exactly how merciless kids can be! But you assume a) that the 'outraged' woman IS going to speak to other parents and b) that those parents then talk to their children about it. Do you really think those two things are both going to happen? I don't, because no parent is going to want to have a conversation about their kids friends parents being swingers or naughty people or parents with loose morals..... whatever bloody way they want to wrap up their moral outrage (and yes there is some missing apostrophes in that sentence - here they are for the the grammatically correct people to insert where they like.... ' ' ' ' ' ' ' ).
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JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
I approached the lady who was threatening the trouble and asked her if we could have a coffee together and a chat. She wasn't keen at first but I asked her politely and she eventually agreed. I said that I heard that she was not impressed with things she may have seen. She was hostile straight away and said that she couldn't believe "I would cheat on my husband", "was a lesbian" and that "we were perverts". I calmly said that we were none of these things but did explain that we were very much in love and would never cheat on each other and hurt each other. I said that we did include others at times in our sexlife but it was purely for fun. As far as being a lesbian I wasn't but I was bisexual. Didn't choose this but was born bisexual and happy to be bisexual. She was silent for a bit as I think my honesty was surprising. I said that while we did include other people in our sexlife we were not perverts and never did anything near our children. I then said to her that we keep this part of our life private and how devastating this would be to our family if it become common knowledge. She apologised that she had said she would tell others about what she had seen and that of course she wouldn't. After three coffees and lunch together we actually got on well and had a bit of a laugh about it. She ended up asking quite a lot of questions about our lifestyle and how we made it work. She admitted that she was a virgin when she married and as she was quite a large woman she was insecure about her body and realtionship confidence. She actually laughed and called me a "lucky bitch" to have the figure and confidence to get away wearing the dress I was wearing that night.We ended up hugging at the end of lunch and standing together today at netball chatting about the game. I did give the lady who gave us the warning a bunch of flowers and told her everything was now fine.RELIEF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Once again, thanks everyone for your advice.Ann & John
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RHP User
10 years ago
Awesome!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Recently I have come across a profile by chance and appears to be a relative who is married in a relationship of which profile displays 'Single Status' and knowingly they aren't in the swinging lifestyle ~ basically reading between the lines either a fake profile or my relative is cheating on their partner! Since I don't 'Kiss and Tell' it's not up to myself to ask or spill the beans but I am very thankful when I viewed profile there was no erotic or nudity pics in public gallery as I wouldn't want to see any of that :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
There's a guy on here who I know really well through work. He and his wife have face pics up and we don't so he hasn't twigged to us. We will never reveal it of course but they are expats so when they leave Australia we might go visit them on holiday as they are hot. ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
This happened to friends as there kids found outso they just explained it all and told them not totalk to others about there swinging.You have but one life so enjoy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But I did get "caught out" - so to speak - that I had the snip (during a prior relationship mind you). I made a post on a related group topic via Facebook which I didn't realise would end up on my friends newsfeeds... oops! Luckily I was able to limit the damage as the person(s) that found out let me know straight away so I could remove the comment... and then gave me the 20 questions thing in private about it. If said people had such issues around that fairly minor occurence, imagine what finding out the rest about me would do!
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