RHP

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Getting old. Young guys - you're gonna get old!

November 13 2017

I've been pondering recently. I'm the wrong side of 60, but I still adore sex. My bits work just fine, but other bits, well not so much. I'm (reasonably) sure there are other guys on the site as old as me, but I haven't come across any. Why would I? I'm talking about me, and maybe to other guys. If it hasn't occurred to you yet, there's an enormous imbalance on sites like this. Quite apart from the imbalance between the sexes, the other imbalance is this. Many older women prefer younger guys. Not many younger women prefer older guys. Just the way it is. Not complaining. Carrying some "baggage" doesn't help, but I won't ditch it. The days when I could fuck for hours are way past. But along the way, I've tried to pay attention to what pleases and what doesn't. Tried to hone my skills. Because when the stallion stuff is gone, that's all you've got guys, skills and personality. And for me, personality and the way I think about women has become paramount. It's everything, even though it might be just for one night, I want my partner to think "that was awesome'. And it won't have been "awesome" because of the pounding and the fucking and the screaming. It will be the other stuff, which I yearn to bring to the table. I've never been afraid to ask and to learn. The understanding, the sensitivity, the respect, the sheer enjoyment of sharing some erotic time with another human being. The laughing, the cuddling, the simple joy, the satisfaction of bringing deep pleasure to someone else. And if it doesn't work for me? That's ok, PROVIDED my partner still walks away satisfied. Like me, one day your hands will hurt, your shoulders will be buggered, your back will ache. But I aim to make any get together the best it can possibly be

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yeah yeah. Fuck like there is no tomorrow.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    8 years ago

    Are you just having a whinge/rant or trying to impress a point? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Must say, I too adore a woman regardless of age. I enjoy intelligence and sexual spontaneity (meander comes to mind). The best part of getting older is the people you tend to share with are normally on the same wave length. If you seek sex, they come straight to you and say it Being a single guy over 40 I do find RHP a bit of a time waste though no matter what you seek. I have had a lady previously who joined me as a couple. We were still buggered about a bit but that happens on these sites I suppose. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You might be an old bastard and I might be an ugly bastard but as you say, the key is not to be a selfish bastard! Unfortunately your post here will probably fall on deaf ears because those who haven’t worked it out yet probably never will and they probably couldn’t be bothered reading your lengthy post either. The young bulls will come and go quickly (read that either way) whereas the old bull... well we all know how that story ends. Hope you stick around for a while Jimmy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I'm not entirely sure why you wrote this..... but thank you for sharing. Good to have a decent older bloke in here with a calm head - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I'm not entirely sure why you wrote this..... but thank you for sharing. Good to have a decent older bloke in here with a calm head - Posted from rhpmobile Thank you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Your age has gone from 67? to 61 yesterday, now 62 today and you removed my last query about that. Lying about your age mate won't make you any younger 👎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Is looming on the horizon and it doesn’t bother me, I learnt a while ago not to be ruled by my cock so to find it not as demanding as it used to is no shock. I’m totally ok with it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Like all older guys...Ive honed my skills....my wife has heard it all Lors of women like younger men. So what. Then we read you age yoyos around. Tell the truth. If they aren't interested they aren't interested. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I could not write it down better, good on ya