M33
Getting zero replies! Please help 😂
September 04 2023
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cinnamon_whiskey
2 years ago
Lovely profile and great pics. Sorry to hear no replies? Wonder if you'd be prepared to show a little more of your sensual/sexual desires on your profile? That's my only suggestion... good luck 😘
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MrandMrsEss
2 years ago
Young, good looking, clean, healthy, interesting….mate you’ve got it all going on! Maybe there’s just too few people up your way as if you were close by we’d definitely be meeting for a drink at least! C’mon people, if this guy can’t at least score a date then this site is a complete failure!
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AussieKisser
2 years ago
Wait till you get the ones that ask money for sex lol. It can be frustrating but hang in there
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MFMHotWife
2 years ago
Profile looks Ok champ, sorry not hear you've had no replies. Hang in there and keep on persisting!
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RHP User
2 years ago
I joined last week. I am older than most on here so that is likely one reason I have less responses although I target older profiles. In your case not sure as you look healthy and handsome. So here are my stats for the first week and sometimes not always I add recent clothed pics: - 7 replies but not available/interested - i appreciate they took the time - 10 read message and no reply - 16 not read yet - 2 blocks (their choice) - 2 very obvious fake profiles - one I easily found as professional woman in the USA - now deleted From what female friends tell me, they get inundated with messages and overwhelmed. Also many dopey comments and unsolicited dick pics. Suspect many are cynical, cautious and wary
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Felicitous
2 years ago
Sorry it's really tough on here for guys! In my opinion you're profile is well written... However your last picture is very different to the second last for example. Which one is more recent? For people who are aesthetically oriented that could be an issue and off-putting. Why put up an older one (Is there something in it that you like about yourself that you can put your energy getting back into looking or feeling) Other than that also look at who you are messaging. Are you a match to what they are seeking? You're a creative so I feel like you'll inherently understand this. In the beginning seek out profiles that are verified and validated... You know for those women that they are genuine and are meeting. Note those that have been around for sometime don't do 'friends and validations' but their profile will generally state so. Go to meet and greets. Most importantly put the extra time into working on yourself and your passions and hopefully you'll attract someone like minded in the process. No response means not interested on here. It's a form of rejection without the engagement. Protect your heart and try not take it personally. Have fun with it all. Good luck! V
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Sawadee
2 years ago
Just the way it is here ? I think couples and women get so much crap from single ( or married singles ) men they mentally shut down . I didnt read your profile as the above replies told me enough.. Probally nothing wrong with it . . just the way it is..
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Alex_Lover
2 years ago
Great advice from everyone. Cairns is a tiny place population wise, which is going to be a factor too. I was up there working for a few days earlier this year. I reached out to a bunch of people, most ignored, which is how things are. Just keep at it. - Alex
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FeistyFatty
2 years ago
No reply is a reply in itself. Hope your time here improves x
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RHP User
2 years ago
Just had a quick look - your profile is based in Mareeba... are you actually in Mareeba? In your bio you say you're in Cairns... I reccommend setting your profile for Cairns, not Mareeba 😉 Otherwise, I can't see anything wrong mate 😎
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RHP User
2 years ago
Feel your pain. Being an older single (married) guy is tough. I am honest with the info on my profile and always respectful with my messaging but only seem to attract the scammers and fake profiles.
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sharingiscaringx
2 years ago
I hope this doesn’t get taken the wrong way but as a young couple we get quite the influx of single males which is fine but couple messages always get more focus from us. I always briefly click on the males profiles though to read bios. I do find it nice you display your face instead of body - that’s always more inviting tbh. I’ve looked at your profile and honestly you’re attractive and have a great straight forward bio; maybe location is the issue. Happy findings on your search lovely x
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unfinished_sente
2 years ago
Your profile is fine, I would remove the "why don't people message back" it just seems a little passive aggressive. Women get smashed on these sites there is probably 40 guys to 1 woman. I've been chatting to someone who has 700 plus unread messages, it's almost a full time job if someone was to respond to that amount of messages. Getting replies is trial and error, I get some replies but then may get blocked as they feel there is no vibe. Know that it's nothing personal on sites like this, there are some guys who talk to women like trash that doesn't help. Respect the women, look for verified accounts.
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FeistyFatty
2 years ago
He didn't last long 💨
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RHP User
2 years ago
Msgs me and I will promise to reply🤣 but not promising to meet let alone to date but Ill chat with u till you get bored of chatting with me🤣🤣🤣
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RHP User
2 years ago
Yep me too. Had my profile pic up , i acually took it down to see if maybe built more interaction up that way.... nothing!I am on the older side of demographic.. There are alot of Very attractive looking competition . Definitely not model material. Just a man but not too bad i reckon 100 percent good times and not a weirdo. Once this first month subscription expires im outta here im thinkin.....
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RHP User
2 years ago
There have been a lot of great pieces of advice here. Your profile does appear to be on target. There is one more perspective to look at which hasn't been addressed yet... a quick history on biological male and female hard wiring, the point's when connected draw a pattern so pay attention 😉 From as far back as when humans were a primitive species hunting and gathering, there was the social construct.... likely formulated not long after consciousness did. The social constructs relating to mate attraction hasn't changed for thousands of years... women would prefer choose the males that have strength, capability, resourcefulness and respected social status within the male grouping. More often than not in history only a handful of men would be able to mate with the females. This still happens today in an indirect path. Neither men nor women notice this construct even though it is far more prevalent in the online dating sphere. In groups were people meet face to face it becomes visible. But on the internet it is not visible at all unless it's something you are aware of through researching the modern world of dating and comparing it to the world of dating 20 years ago. I've experienced dating in both times so it's the main reason I was able to deduce this conclusion. Ok so what is the construct variable... well let's begin with hypergamy. Hypergamy is the instinctual mating strategy of females. The urge to date upwards on the social ladder is again connected to their original hardwiring... to select the best suitable mate to ensure security and a obtain the best genes for her offspring. Ok so considering the pool of men that women have access to nowadays is beyond comprehension to say the least. You are now competing for female attention with nearly every single man on the planet. It's like at the blackjack tables at the casino.... the 50$ and up tables have less decks in the shuffle than the tables with lower bet rates... this in turn lowers the amount of kings, jacks and aces.. the high profile cards if you like in the shuffle.the lower the high profile cards, the more likely it is that you will achieve a winning hand. So you can imagine the men who have exceptional handsomeness issues combined with an impressive financial empire and a highly respected status from other males are typically these high profile cards.. the ace, king or jack etc. The lower cards are more numerous in number and their value is obviously lower... these are the low profile cards... and these are also the average male types. So in effect and without it being visible in online dating... hypergamy is applied at an instinctual level l. So to sew it together for you.. the invention of the internet and social media applications such as Facebook, Instagram, twitter etc ... we begin to see that all of the decks are in the shuffle now... this means a multiplication many times over of the high profile males being within reach of the majority of women. In some senses I suppose you could say the woman are dating roughly All the same men within the top 20 -30% Lower profile males are typically largely ignored especially considering how many of those guys that are in the same shuffle now from the worldwide interconnected decks. So what's the takeout from this... well the most effecient and long lasting way for a man to climb the social ladder is to address his complete frame, so his fitness, his intelligence, his self development in all areas his financial capacity, his charisma and communication skills and of course his overall masculine presence. Women are very good at quickly and expertly assessing all of these components in a man's frame. It's quite often men who don't understand just how important this is particularly with how hyper competitive the dating market has become.
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RHP User
2 years ago
Try turning your phone off then on. With a compatible woman just concentrate on the “on” part.
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RHP User
2 years ago
Hi like the other gentlemen I don't get many replies if someone could check my bio and some advice please would be much appreciated
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RHP User
2 years ago
You will get them when your subscription expires hang in there
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WarmMasseuse
2 years ago
😎 post a pic , simple really . And not of your cock
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RHP User
2 years ago
Apparently it has nothing to do with fake profiles to attract membership
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RHP User
2 years ago
I like Women and have found this site is not very talkative. I guess I am no one's cup of tea.
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hisDarkSecret
2 years ago
I would appreciate if someone could check out my profile and give some honest feedback. I don't have the same success I have on other apps and can't pick why.
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RHP User
2 years ago
Zero fot me also. Been single for 4 years
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RHP User
2 years ago
Don’t worry, I am also getting no replies
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New2Tasman
2 years ago
I cant believe I paid money to be allowed to reach out and get zero response (ok 2 thanks but no) Still when you got a face n body and personality like mine....
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RHP User
2 years ago
Hardest thing about this place sadly. Not a great ratio of male to female. But like others have said you have a good profile but need a bit more on your preferences. The only advice I can give is spend some time in the forums and comment regularly. Probably the best way to get noticed over a profile. All the best bloke. Hang in there :)
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