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Girl on Girl pick up lines

January 08 2018

Hi. So .. hubby and I want to try a FFM. I'm bi. We were chatting the other day about going out and me trying my luck at chatting with the odd sexy lady as a pick up. Has anyone tried this? I'm nervous as hell about it ... What works? Any suggestions and help is appreciated. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But never have. I just go the easier option and go along to swingers clubs and parties. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hello my wife Bday today and we will be in Melb tonight looking for fun peeps to meet and play

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    So explain this one to me... You’re a woman and yet you don’t know what would work as a pickup line on you??? Bahahaha that’s the best thing I’ve heard all day - Posted from rhpmobile

  • CompersionCouple

    CompersionCouple

    8 years ago

    My man got a single made up for me that I've worn to parties & it works every time. Printed on the the front r the words. "Don't just stand there girls" "I can't go down on myself" - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Question. Will this be the way the forums will go in 2018? That was a question by the way. Pickup line or not....the female that you do pick up or may, will have to like both. So hubby or bf has to be present in the "pickup". Sometime SOME folks think to send off one partner to get another play friend. Rarely works. But hey try your luck. Just think of the potential woman.. I like her but will I mingle and get along with him if we go off to play? My ex used to pick up other girls. She got pretty good at it. But for her every time was like the first time. It was not put on and she would be nervy as hell But I guess the women sense the nerves and it was well welcomed. So hubby has to do his part tio. But sounds like the mission is mostly you. The hardest part was to bring up the subject...we are swingers,we enjoy a threesome,she was bi, would you be interested in joining us in something like that with no pressure to join? Often times people especially guys would not take her seriously. But most women would start with drinks. And consider the fantasy or plausible bucket list item.

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    @fit chick that’s great , - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    complimenting her by saying something like love your top and when she says where she bought it or something like that ,respond with ,yes that’s nice too and cheekily smiling while making eye contact and see how the conversation evolves or dissolves from there 😆 mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Show her a close up of your bag tell her you can go all night with stamina to boot... .... and she won't be disappointed. Oh... and that your bloke would like to *watch only*.... unless she agrees. Seems to work in so many profiles in RHP, right?! OK OK..... forget lines...... focus on interest, attraction... and FULL disclosure that youre really doing this for your bloke... because she needs to know what the deal is DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Because ask a woman how she prefers her man to approach her and she’ll tell you exactly how she prefers it.... Yet they find it hard then to use that same theory amongst women who are going to be highly probably of similar preference.... And THAT....makes it funny - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    Hello. We are swingers and are looking for a FMF / FFM 3some. Would you like to join us? This has worked very well for us, so far - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    I'm no expert but I thought boobs or bust was on the money by starting off with something like ( without losing eye contact ) ' Hey ' nice top , couldnt help but notice how good it looks on you.. ? At least that would break the ice and you'll know by her reaction if anything's doing.. Just a suggestion...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Convincing a woman in a bar to go home with you and your husband for a threesome might be a little different. No? I mean... how would you pick up a bloke. Hi Mate, wanna come home and root my wife while I watch? Since you have all the answers, you can let us know what works best.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    That probably would work...men are such simple creatures 😂😂😂. Given the responses on the threads generated here.... Re: the first question why would it not work?? Most women I know get hit on...could be once a day, once a month, whatever.... Point is they have been the ones RECEIVING the attempts by others in order to seduce....so the LADY will know what it’s already like to have some douchebag approach.... So.... Knowing what woukd work for her, makes her already an informed little flower as to HOW to go about approaching another lady in order to avert said douchebag feelings of creepy stalker shit when she makes the approach herself.... I don’t think the real problem in this is technique related at all... I think the real question should be “How do I manage the feelings associated with making an approach to another woman??” - Posted from rhpmobile

  • SugarSugar69

    SugarSugar69

    8 years ago

    I've picked up woman on the dance floor. No words required to start with. A little dirty dancing, leads to touching, kissing then finally we may exchange names..... I don't plan for this to happen it just does! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    8 years ago

    Mr. B. I think that is a.nice way to approach a person of interest. compliment something about her that caught your attention. Not necessarily a compliment of sexual nature. Flattery gets you everywhere. 😉 If she is not interested, at least you haven't lost face and she had her ego boosted. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You think your Oprah now? Lmao!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    Other than being completely different, it seems men and women are much the same. Yeah no,it's an instinct thing, if someone a complete stranger even, are met by a true sense of welcome, kindness in nature, without prejudice.... that person will feel compelled to express their intensions. No better way than to show to who it may be, your selves getting off on each other, body language will show the invitation you both together wish to share and not much for anything said, you could get all your words arse about face and none the difference as the chemicals of arousal have begun and may just come up peaches. Yep that's about it. Mado Mado, Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    If that was for me, I don’t get the reference... Sorry :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thanks for the suggestions. It is different considering I've not been needing to pick up etc for over 22 years. And women hold the opinions of other women pretty highly - after all .. when we go out, we often dress to impress the other women even if we are not bi. So now thinking of approaching one is a little nerve racking. I like the comments and feedback - clearly many of you are in this mode more recently than I. I will just have to give some of those suggestions a go and see where it leads us. 😚 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    ..has a good point. Sometimes it's best say nothing and let your eyes do the talking and watch what happens .. If nothing , it's back to plan A...

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    8 years ago

    I can’t speak for anyone else but the direct approach works on me. I’m so clumsy missing all the clues. Boofhead. “Hi, your my type of guy. Would you like a shag me on the warmest bonnet we can find in the car park?” Me:”oh? ok” Her: “My boyfriend will be there. You do shag guys too, don’t you?” Me: “Sure. Yep. Let’s go”. Hugs G - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You could just message me!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    My friend has written a book on 3somes. He and I used to chase girls together a lot but his specialty was always having a girl and pulling another one home with them. Guys game girls by being dominant, cool, displaying higher value. Girls game girls by being friendly and paying compliments... There is no “line”. If your man is sexy and you’re both giving the girl attention she will know what’s up. - Posted from rhpmobile