Girls - Mind blowing sex, what constitutes this for you?

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  16 years ago

  casually_casual.....Babe I already told you what happened to me on the weekend and he rocked my world....so much..I wish I could have more of him. But alas it is not ment to be..I really wish he felt the same.     kisses sweetpetite41...<<<<  sighs cause she seems to find awesome men but who run from wanting to take that extra step further..Is it cause it was so good?   Sorry if I am off the topic..But I wanted to share my feelings..lol.

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  16 years ago

  Mate. Forget all that retrospective analysis crap. It'll do your head in. You've taken a hit over her its obvious but there's no point in feeling inadequate or going over all the details in your mind or even listening to what other people say she said.... none of it matters at all and you know its a distortion of the reality of what you shared, whatever you hear.    Now, I heard this morning that "what we have done in the passed or will do in future pales into insignificance compared to what we can do on the inside." This statement struck a chord with me. It just means trust in yourself!   Well... when it comes to sex, I reckon you should let go of your inhibitions and do what feels right at that instant in time and get some self satisfaction buddy. If your lovers can benefit from that then it's a bonus for them.     Tomorrow is going to be a beautiful day don't you think? C'mon show me your armpits.. :)   Hugs Gaz

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  16 years ago

  lmao, I will take a picture for you and upload my armpits tonight!Sweet, seems that you really enjoy the connection with sex, but is there anything else that really makes you tick?  Something a guy does to you?  How long he spends pleasing you?  What's your idea of short sex?Yes Gaz, I am partly asking because of what I heard, but also because I want to be a good lover so the more I know, the better.  Yes tomorrow will be a better day, but it will also be a boring one, because I have to go to work again! :DI want to see what the general consensus is with women here regarding what makes the BEST sex they've ever had.  At the moment all I know is to be selfless, generous and sensual.  I can be rough, I love to spank and be spanked, and I can take it up a rev or two when required lol.

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  16 years ago

  Oh, and she did say after the '2 pumps' bit, 'on a serious note' and then continue, but still, that stuck with me, as the bad things do.

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  16 years ago

  hmm..Well I wish I could tell ya what rocks me...but then I'd have to kill ya...lol     silly kisses sweetpetite41.

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  16 years ago

  great question casual!Sorry about your ex but don't let it get to you.  To use a worn out cliche, I think we are like wine when it comes to sex - we get better with age (and experience).  You seem to want to learn more now, because of what she's said, so it can only be a good thing.The thing I HATE most in terms of sex is any feeling that my partner is going through the motions, that it has become a formula - push this, pull that, tweak here, all done - you know what I mean? Even if it goes for an hour, if it feels like that I will hate it.  And when sex is just starting and the guy is grabbing for nipples or pussy first up - I'm thinking - geez, use your imagination please!  Sometimes I fall into the same trap and grab for my favourite bits (mmmm mmm) but usually I like to take the time to touch my man anywhere but, so he can feel his own body through my fingertips, tongue etc.Touch is an extraordinary sense.  And foreplay is something that, often for women and even some men I know, is best served as an all-day dish.  By this I mean glances, copping a feel, a foot massage, naughty text messages, play fighting - anything and everything can build the tension outside of the bedroom, and often the longer this goes on, the better things are in the bedroom.As for sex itself, for me the connection comes from a genuine sense of wonderment, awe for the shape, contours, textures and smells of my partner's body. When I can get lost in stroking his collar bone or the angle of his jaw, or he does the same by softly running his hand over the curve of my hip - well before we get directly sexual - I feel the connection, the desire, the anticipation build.  I often (to my partner's frustration) like to keep the direct foreplay short and get into the main act.  The more indirect foreplay though, the awe and getting lost and teasing I talk about above, I can't get enough.Mixing things up - only oral sometimes, quick and hard and dirty sometimes, slow and sensual and loving sometimes, hilarious and exploring sometimes, intense and chatty sometimes, incorporating toys for fun, trying heaps of positions in one session or choosing just one and spending as long in it as you can - all yummmmm!One thing that can be REALLY helpful is to find out if a woman generally likes to take charge or likes a man to take charge.  Most women will mix it up a bit, but will have a preference.  I LOVE it when a man takes charge.  I don't mean dom while I'm sub.  I mean more in a sweeping, romantic hero kind of way (yummmmm!)When I push my man for a quickie, and he finally agrees (god, I have to fight for them), his version of a quickie is 20-40 minutes.  Typically, we have sex for 1-2 hours, often 2-3 times a day (help, I need sleep).  I'm usually the one calling uncle.  I think 20 minutes is short sex, anything 30 minutes and up is acceptable unless it's an agreed quickie, and long divine sessions of 1 ++ hours need to be a regular event.God, I could go on.  But I think you get the picture.  It's all an adventure, relax, indulge, enjoy x

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  16 years ago

  Thanks lilmissfussy.  I have to call "uncle" sometimes as well.  When he says to me after my 5th, 8th or 10th orgasm "would you like one or two more" I think OMG.... give me time to recuperate babe - AND he hasn't cum once yet and he's still hard as a rock (with no medicinal assistance!!)  God I'm a lucky girl!!

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  16 years ago

  Thank you very much for the informative reply lilmissfussy, a few things I can store up here in my head for the next time i'm between the sheets. :)

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  16 years ago

  mind blowing sex is that amazing sex when u hav completely let go, your not worried bout your body, cock size, technique... its often spontaneous and yeh good stamina/high libido count not always size/experience...mind blowing is that mutual adoring oral, that connection where u know what each other want.. its the unexpected, having patience, i think that is often why chics go for older guys/or explore bisexuality..self control in a guy is very sexy young guys generally hav the technique /happy to learn but dont take as much time on our orgasms, of course last bit is a big generalisation.. and us chiccy's how 2 get us mutli orgasmin etc, well we all different hey, what works for me its different for another and we change our mind as well all part of the fun, the journey :) and self confidence (not arrogance!), when u know what u want turns us on and gives us confidence to voice what we want! mrs desire yes u r lucky girl! smakx

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  16 years ago

  lilmissfussy...very eloquently put!  You had me nodding furiously in agreement when reading your post.   S xox

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  16 years ago

  A couple of comments above sum it up completely for me - mind blowing sex for me is what I have no conscious thought about what is going on outside of the two/four of us.  I don't care where the kids are, whether my sister can hear us through the walls or if someone can see us going for it half hanging out the car door.    Timing also doesn't come into it here it could be a quick 5min before running out the door or a slow and sensual take all the time in the world encounter.   It needs to be mixed up and I too have called "uncle" on more than one occasion.  Just cause it is a long session doesn't make it great.   My only other tip is remember there is more to a girl than tits and a vagina....for me it's foot massage, kissing/touching inner thighs, stomach  - you get the picture.   K.

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  16 years ago

  What is all this uncle business, lol.I love the feeling of a woman's thighs, and massaging the feet is something I did although not always during sex, sometimes just as petting whilst we were sitting around watching the TV or whatever.I remember how nice it was having soft, lingering kisses placed all over my body, so I used to return the favour.I may have to start a thread about felatio soon, I like doing it, just want to make sure I'm not missing anything out.

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