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Goals for the New Year??
December 26 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
As the festive season comes to an end and the New Year approaches, we have both made the commitment to improve our health and fitness, and be more focused on doing things that make us happy. It’s so easy to get caught up in the everyday grind of work etc.., and life is so busy but we both enjoy the gym and our training, so 2018 is going to be about us making positive choices that will benefit our health and improve our lifestyle in so many ways ... Bring it on !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...thus the "Fear of Failure" has been eradicated. Now I can focus on being successful in the pursuits of life, health and utterly hopeless deviant persuasions. Simples...next question? 🤓👍🙃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just to live a long and happy life. And to live and let live. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
2018 is going to be a big year for me, and hopefully a fabulous one. Immediate goal: just keep swimming, both literally and figuratively 👍🏼
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GM4funxxx
8 years ago
Seeing as 2017 seemed to fly by so quickly. 2018 will be spent trying to spend more time with my friends and enjoying my young son who is growing up so fast. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
So I’m just aim to be the same cunt I was in 2017 😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Hopefully to continue a stable lifestyle and Worklife. Will be exploring BDSM to see if it's my thing. I have a prospective dominate that I'm meeting soon. I've survived the interview process. I already have a Dom mistress for my Brisbane trips. And a new profile in FetLife. Roll on 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
find a serious girl friend and settle down !travel more !
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hope you interviewed them too. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Venturing further into solo-polo. 😁 I think it might just be my thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Buy, convert and travel the country in a campervan :)
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compressor
8 years ago
to be honest I would be happy if I end up meeting and massaging one of the beautiful ladies on here. fingers crossed
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RHP User
8 years ago
This year's goal is to get the red bike roadworthy again. The engine has been fully rebuilt , new tyres fitted and now it's the finishing touches that are needed. The twentieth anniversary of it getting parked up is falling later in the year.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I aim to have the finances needed to head to Thailand. After losing 47kg I want a nip and tuck. Saving every penny I can 🙂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Hope you interviewed them too. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile Valid point. I did as much as my limited knowledge went. I guess for me it's meet and see how it goes. He's been living the style 13 years with his slave wife. My Mistress gave them the tick so onward with baby steps.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I have goals any time of year , without them you stagnate ' do nothing and life passes you by. I already have 3 for 2018 . Two involve overseas travel and the other to continue to increase my client base . Oh , and one more , keep ducking the punches thrown by those who think they'd like a shot at the title.. lol... You gotta believe in yourself or nothing happens.. Jay..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Considering it's been nearly a year, one goal for 2018 is to actually have sex again. That is apparently much more difficult than one would think, and it's very likely I'll have to travel for it since this town is a desert when it comes to single 25 to 45 year old men who don't smoke and have a vocabulary that consists of more than the words 'fishing', 'beer', and 'Cowboys' (nothing wrong with any of those things as such but as foreplay they don't really work for me, just call me a picky bitch).
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Congratulations, after losing 47 kg you deserve it. My daughter had surgery in Thailand to fix up a botched tummy after some horrific surgery here.. So I'm a big believer in correcting anything at all your not happy with no matter how minor. After my daughters experience , I was able to point one of our lady's here at RHP to the same surgeon who in turn gave the same glowing report. Good luck...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Venturing further into solo-polo. 😁 I think it might just be my thing. - Posted from rhpmobile Not being a twat, but did you mean solo poly? Or is solo polo a thing?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Having made a huge relocation in the latter half of this year I experienced a loss of my sense of self and my confidence. So in 2018 I am going to work on getting my mojo back.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Don't change!!You are soooo bloody raw and just crack me up!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I dunno how successful it will be, but I’d really love to grab my tent, finish the Ute build off, and head off on a trip up the east coast, then head back down inland coming home via Adelaide .... Catching up with those people I’ve made acquaintances of from here and other forums, for a coffee, or an overnight stopover in the tent with a few cans with said lovely people(If they’re open to it) and don’t worry I won’t invade your houses lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is to be happy - Posted from rhpmobile
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BrightBubbly
8 years ago
But I have this year. It is to reclaim my power and myself. I have lost myself and given away my power to those who don't deserve it, I have taken steps to claim that back and am moving towards finding myself again.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Such a positive thread and responses, some of which are very inspiring too. Mine... I started a little early and quit smoking a couple of weeks ago. Yeah, yeah, I know, nobody likes a quitter lol. Cut down on drinking a bit too. Started a Cert IV in WHS as well, all at the same time more or less. Goals for this year: carry on with the above, start doing some exercise and fire up the bike more often. Hope this isn’t my mid-life crisis 😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well done on the 2 weeks smoke free....May next year I’ll be 3 years since I had one...
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have my list of public goals (lose weight, drink less, focus on career blah blah) and then I have my secret personal goals I say to myself like "stop getting your penis out everytime you're drunk"
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wow. I only just read your comment. That's seriously impressive 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nothing wrong with a midlife crisis. I highly recommend it 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mine is more a late life crisis 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
but well done on giving up smoking, or working towards that. I'd like to but want to find my number 1 first so I have something else to put in my mouth lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
Travel More (Already booked our holiday to Africa & the Maldives!) Explore - Roadtrips, Camping, Waterfalls, Eating ! Find a gorgeous lady to have some fun with! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Typo. Solo-Poly. So far, so good. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You have my best wishes. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Bit scary but in control.......😂 Also decided suddenly on another tattoo for the new year. A transgender symbol on my shoulder. Proud to be me
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you. It’s not been easy and I have just 3kg to my goal weight. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We have the usual fitness goals after a wonderful food beer and wine holiday. Somethings around the house to be done. But after being so damn busy with our vanilla friends this past year we want to get our sexy back. So much more shagging to be done. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
God that's so great. I lost 30 kg about 4 years ago and haven't looked back. I didn't think it was possible, but was determined to change it permanently, which I have, I no longer have to worry about it. Well understand how focused you have to be. Huge amount of respect for what you're doing. It's life changing. Good for you xx Apology in advance if this double posts, not much signal where I am
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Katkat
8 years ago
- Concentrate on my studies - Buy out my ex for his share of the house - Expect less, stress less, praise life more - Work & save more $$$ - Enjoy life more & take it bit by bit - Exercise more to keep in shape - get my motor bike license - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for the support and well done you. Someone once told me long time ago that the challenges when quitting smoking happen at threes... three hours, three days, three weeks, three months and three years. They were correct! Don’t drop your guard at year three.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've extended the "spring clean" thing this year to make my bachelor pad more visitor friendly (some new furniture etc). I've even made a new furniture item for my dog :) So the same goal as all other years to lure a lovely single female back to my trap I mean pad. :P As for achievable goals: Visit NZ again (set in stone), and likely Antarctica also for the following summer. Write and record more songs (didn't manage to finalise any more this year).
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joanne1991
8 years ago
Spending time with family and friends and not so much time at work
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RHP User
8 years ago
- Search for that perfect (or close to perfect) apartment as my first home! I'm so excited about setting up my bachelorette pad! It'll be small, too small 😕😔, but I'd rather have a small, fully paid up apt home so that I can live mortgage-free! 😄 - Adopt a clutter-free Zen/minimalist lifestyle... with a Boho chic element. Easier said than done... for a lifetime pack rat! 🤣 But, where there's a will, there's a way. Ommm... 🤷 - Seriously look into switching careers, like I've wanted to for donkey years! - Learn to fortify myself against energy vampires. 🙅 - Continue to live a life full of joy, gratitude, and spirituality! Meditate to Manifest! 😃 - Manage my finances much better. No more indiscriminate shopping! 😝 I'm soooo looking forward to 2018! 😄😄😄
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RHP User
8 years ago
Forgot to add, learn basic DIY for stuff like hanging up picture frames, varnishing, wall-painting with effects, etc.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Enough said for now, it's early days and only half a plan.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Carry chewy at all times. 🤙
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RHP User
8 years ago
Been a tough last few years , fighting a tough battle with PTSD , finally feel there is light at the end of the tunnel Maybe time to get of my arse and help some of the boys I served with still suffering , wouldn't be here if someone hadn't helped me ... Bring on 2018 , feeling positive bout it 👍 Life is way too short 😊Hope it's a good one for all 👍👍👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
To continue being amazing 😂😂🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
2017 gas probably been tge hardest year of my life. So 2018 should be a doddle. Continue to build my business to I can actually live from it and not have to work part time to eat. Work towards making sure my daughters aren't completely lost to parental alienation and hopefully fend off my younger sons being affected. Find a home. Which is part of the job front. Get my confidence back to meet some great girls and continue my little journey in this lifestyle. Id eventually like a partner who swings but in the meantime some fun to be had as there is not much happening. Finally get back on my bke and my race fitness back so I can race at the highest level I can at my age. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Typo. Solo-Poly. So far, so good. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile Thanks for clarifying, was half asleep when I read it haha! I think I identify more as solo poly than anything else, will be keeping an eye out for updates from you
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
After a couple of years preparation with licensing and getting equipment I'm ready to kick off my aerial photography business in 2018 ☺ It's taken far too long but it'll be worth it to be able to work for myself at last. And if possible I'd love to find someone really special to get to know and hopefully settle down with 🤗 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I still want one....and will ALWAYS want one.... It’s just easier to say no as I’ve got my past to remind me how hard it was in that first 6 months.... Even with champix - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Advertise at your local yacht club and brokerages, owners love it. And I’d imagine flying over open water would be pretty easy redtape wise ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I always try and remember the first cigarette, the coughing and disgusting taste to remind myself that it doesn’t taste good rather than just the fact that it’s an addiction and “I want one” The other thing is seeing other people smoking and pushing away that “if they can why can’t I ?” Feeling. Replacing it with “because they are going to die earlier and more miserably than me” The die has been cast, we will always be ex smokers.
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RHP User
8 years ago
PTSD is a total bitch to fight and I'm glad that the worst seems to be over for you. It's really amazing that you now want to lend a helping hand and support your mates who are still trapped in it. 🖒 You are a Champ! 🏆👏 All the best for 2018!
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RHP User
8 years ago
... continue remaining ex's! 😃 Here's to your resolve and willpower! 👏👏👏 🏆🏆🏆
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RHP User
8 years ago
Cheers , PurePeony , it is a bastard when it gets hold of you, without mates helping me .... dunno ... but was in a pretty bad place id be piss weak if I didnt try and help some of the other boys doin it tough have an awesome 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
My wife tells me she wants an all girl gangbang. Her and 3 or more ladies playing with her. Hmmm might be tough to organize - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hyperarousal is a deadset cunt...people can mistake it for being bipolar, it’s something I’d not ever wish upon my enemies ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Shoogly
8 years ago
I like this post. I plan to continue with what I began this year. Over the past few years I am sorry to say I let myself go. Professionally and physically. I have lost 23kg so far. (10 to go). Also want to start my own business. Tired of working hard for other people. Hello everyone. Don’t think I know any of you but that could change. I’m an oldie. Not a newbie. Just been quiet for a few years. ( cause I was too fat lol) - Posted from rhpmobile
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OzRednecks
8 years ago
De-clutter, organise & simplify life. I get too sentimental over stuff. Silly stuff, really. Consolidate my 674 'to do lists' I try to make people happy and try again. It's made me unhappy & at times, bitter. I have already made progress with that goal this year. I need to finish reading books on my bookshelf before buying any more (that's going to be a hard one ☺️ Lol) Paint my toenails more often 👍 Mr Oz's goal is: more sex and even more sex.
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lowlux
8 years ago
Would love to meet more like minded people also meet with more like minded people even to just hang out with play to not play just to feel comfortable around - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You feeling ok? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You feeling ok? - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
8 years ago
Are to: 1) Regain my travel life; 2) Eat scampi & green shell Balmain Bugs; 3) Watch The Nun, The Conjuring 3, and The Insidious 4 and try to think that they are really horror lol.....for some reason, I don’t find those so called horror movies horror anymore 😕 and still can’t find any horror movies that can beat the Japanese version of The Grudge! 😫 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
To finalise my divorce .... seriously on the count down. - Posted from rhpmobile
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bonefide
8 years ago
Stand tall walk proud always. Mates of both genders are and will always be your greatest asset. Safe happy 2018 to u.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’d like to sleep more.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I plan on continuing to work on my confidence. This scene has been absolutely amazing for my self confidence but I still have a long way to go. I want to be able to approach people in a club and strike up a conversation. It's tough as I have never been the outgoing type, but Im working on it :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Get fit again and explore - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Education, travel, fitness/health, fun! - Posted from rhpmobile
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
Quoting 'Sailbadthesinner' Advertise at your local yacht club and brokerages, owners love it. And I’d imagine flying over open water would be pretty easy redtape wise ? Thanks for that tip Sailbad, brilliant idea!
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Sawadee
8 years ago
That's what I always told my kids.. Walk tall , walk straight and look the world right in the eye... ( I know it's a song ) but it's true... Walking with your head held high , shoulders back and looking a lot person directly in the eye is the only way ... The mouth might say one thing and the eyes another... eyes always tell the truth...
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IMTHAMAN72
8 years ago
just goin with the flow
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am committed to getting out of my comfort zone. I have the health and fitness thing sorted. I want find new circles. New experiences. Not original but valid. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My goal is to learn that no matter what happens i am enough - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Get a date or two on RHP. No success last year. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
To definitely try the mfm scene with the wife and also couple swapping. Done the fmf scene so it's time to explore new things. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
I need to finish things I start. Get back into a good exercise regime as the middle aged spread is taking over. “Edge play” I’ve been planning a needle suspension the past few years and finally found a good team of people to complete this early this year. I want a good usable dungeon:)
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RHP User
8 years ago
My biggest upcoming goal for 2018 is to go back to casual employment and embrace the gig economy. I went permanent a year ago, and it's just not working for me. The inflexibility does my head in. I'll get to it after Easter. Until then I have to move house and have some holiday plans in March.... I've been solo poly for many years and really enjoy my independence. Not sure what I was thinking going fulltime sometimes. Fulltime versus casual employment is really a lot like the difference between a traditional monogamous marriage and being solo poly, and I should have known that it would never work for me! :D On the personal front, I don't have any particular massive goals. Just plod along the way I have for the past few years. Life is pretty sorted for me in that department really, and I'm grateful for that!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry don't believe in it. Never had one or made one.
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RHP User
8 years ago
A scare with my daughter's health this year, it has really reinforced yet again how precious life is and to never take it for granted. So for me 2018 is just reinforcing how much my kids and granddaughter mean to me, to just love our family quirks and to continue on my 'Me' journey. .just grabbing opportunities and never stop being curious and giving new things a go, especially sexually
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RHP User
8 years ago
My goal is to be a better person - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
And making sure I do everything I can to ensure my little one is healthy and happy. Tough year so far but it can only get better! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi all Good luck to everyone for their new year resolutions! Other than get into Yoga and meditate more to clear my cluttered mind. Also, see subject ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm planning a public event to mark 100th anniversary of the end of WW1, to be held in King's Park, Perth. I need about 84 pairs of military boots, that's one pair to represent each ex service man or woman who committed suicide last year. LEST WE FORGET. 11/11/2018
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bonefide
8 years ago
ex service men or woman who committed suicide last year. 11/11/2018. Lest we forget. that's the ones we know of Phil. My hat off to u hopefully the Military boffins Could help. The Guardians of the ANZAC as I call them, will always be remembered. Since WW1 until now the service members men and woman have help this country become what it is today. They don't pass on, these brave souls just meet at a greater high.
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
That's awesome. I'm involved with a few Veterans, legacy and War Widow groups here in Brissy. Let me know if you need anything. Sucide is an issue for our ex service men/women, there's not enough support out there. Hope the RSL gets its shit together soon. Did you see insight, not that long ago about suicide with our veterans? Ms Foxy x
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bonefide
8 years ago
Ref the RSL getting behind him. The RSL of old is not the new RSL. Just my personnel oppion
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RHP User
8 years ago
First time taking part in a chat. 2017 kicked my arse so after 36 years of existing it is high time I lived. Bring on 2018 and enjoying life and hopefully expanding my horizons and I think I am in the right place. Cheers and good luck to all and to Phil nice work mate. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SydneySteve
8 years ago
Making sure I have a threesome I’d love to be part of one I have fantasied about it for a long time Either MMF or FFM either But totally straight - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My goal is to enjoy life more. Push myself to get outside my comfort zone and try new things. Work on my resumé to find new employment that I get a sense of achievement or atleast happiness from. Also I hope to get my wellness and mindfulness to a whole new level.
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