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Good guys, bad guys & games people play.

January 05 2010

All too often I hear from women complaining about how it is that they always get attracted to the wrong kind of man. Ladies, you know that if you hang out with a bad boy you are going to get played. Good guys, there's no sense whining about how the babe you have your eye on never roots you... but seems to root any bad boy that comes along on a whimsy... that is because you, Good Guy, are being played shamelessly by her. She thinks its perfectly alright to string you along because it makes her feel good to have you near. Yes, my friends, that babe is a bad babe... she us stringing you along as emotional backup when she has been scorched by yet another bad boy. She might even like being played. But she is using you. Taking advantage of you for no reward. She is playing you just like she has been played by her badboy suiters. There's no doubt that bad boys will take on either good or bad girls with the intention of screwing them over. It's in their nature.. a leopard doesnt change its spots. It is also obvious that bad girls will take on good or bad boys and screw them over. It's in their nature... a linz will never change it's ... errr.. whatever they have.. dum de dum de dum,.... moving right along... . What good girls and good boys need to do is source each other out and leave the bad girls and bad guys to their own miserable existence, playing each other off with other bad guys and bad girls.. with no moral support from you good guys and girls... dont let them play you. So, how do you do that? How do you work out if someone is a good guy or a bad guy? My thoughts are that you should root 'em and see what happens from there. I haven't given any thought yet to good girls gone bad... etc.. but Steven Speilberg teaches that once you choose the dark side.. there's obviously no turning back. Discussions??

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RHP User

16 years ago

well put stalky, but..........what happens when a supposed "good boy" turns out to be a closet "bad boy" player, who thinks little white lies are fine as long as no one gets hurt? someone i know fell heavily for what she termed a "nice genuine divorced guy who hasn't lied to me, been honest" - honest - yer right!!! until it surfaces he's in a "relationship" with a married lady, writes it off as "just good friends" - pity the married lady couldn't back the fuck off & give these two a chance to get to know each other...........bad boy/girl............there is potential in us all, it's the good ones that get hurt over & over again.where's this chick??? gone never to return & she was one of the most genuine women i've ever encountered.

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16 years ago

ok.. that's an example of a good guy gone bad... hotblonde52... your friend was played by a good guy done bad. There's no hope for him anymore.. but she is still as virtuous as ever before. She should finds solace in that and go and root a guy... to find out of he is any good. Well, it alwasy comes back to sex in the end... oops.. no not in the end.. I mean.... well you know what I mean. Hugs Stalky

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RHP User

16 years ago

Gazz old son that thar is da real trick aint it..........(good guys/girls sourcing each other out) I reckon they are more like Chameleons, or some kinda shape shifting demon!Girl finds nice guy, falls for his charms, Chameleon guy fucks nice girl....says NEXT !!!!....lol or vice a versa depending on your point of view.But yeah guess its often a case of "suck it and see"Cheers Nev ..........pun intended...or not

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16 years ago

'You give people the power to use over you' is something my father told me some time ago. If you feel you are being played is it because you have ALLOWED it to happen. I have no sympathy for those men and women who moan their feelings and the like have been toyed with. You and only you are responsible for the choices you make and the path you tread. As for women playing good guys - perhaps the good guys should not be so accommodating and give their time and ear so willingingly? AND perhaps ladies, like myself, could be upfront and make it clear that there is no chance that something may happen between said parties. That way everyone knows where they stand and can make choices accordingly. BUT we know that won't happen. Unfortunately too many women love the power they can assert over a male and whether conscious of it or not do take advantage of a good guy. So good guys - if this upsets/annoys you DON'T allow it to happen. Simple. So, if you are not prepared to take charge of your emotions and decisions then you can certainly expect to be hurt or disappointed at some stage. Take control of your life and the people you allow into it or deal with the results.

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16 years ago

In the imortal words of meatloaf, You took the words right outta my mouth! It really isn't rocket science is it? The good guy/girl Bad guy/girl scenario. We oscillate b'tween the two depending on the sucker/'the one' with whom the GG/BG has within their sights. From what I can gather, motivation is the key to either reforming the BG or having the opposite effect. Whether men like it or not, they too are not immune to having their socks knocked off & falling head over heels into something, be it love, lust, infatuation...the full gamut of the emotional maelstrom/cesspool. Just as with the AIDS/anti smoking & alcohol binging campaigns, I would love to see some form of awareness campaign designed to inform and educate ppl as to their ability or lack thereof, to engage in any manner of human interaction. Perhaps a card which certifies the holder is capable of engaging in a relationship (& which clearly defines any restrictions) could save us all from a whole lot of trouble. And for those insidious sycophants who somehow manage to find their way to me....for easy indentification, I demand a capital L on their forehead! (studs on their testicles, butt plugs in their urethra and razors sewn into their jocks!!!!!) Ah, that feels so much better

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RHP User

16 years ago

stalker........you cannot solve your problems with sex sadly, it would put therapists out of business for startersas for my friend, who knows what's happened to her, i'm guessing she's retreated back into her solo world of work/home - she certainly has gone from here & refuses to talk to me or anyone else she connected with on heresex CAUSES more problems than it solves, i'm worried for her

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16 years ago

hotblonde52 ~ Therapists can rot. hehe... sit here on uncle stalky's couch... lmfao... did I tell you Ive had my gyneochologists licence revoked? doesnt matter... hehe.... lay back, close your eyes and tell Uncle Stalky... hehe... My comments are nearly always laced with a little facetious gloss. The only way I know of to discover if someone is on the good team or the bad is to dive right in and trust them until you have reason not to... so the "have sex with them" concept, tongue in cheek as it may be is still metaphorically applicable. I'm a one chance kind of guy and after that I shut shop.. usually... exceptionally rare of me to intentionally open myself up for another whipping... but I do that too when I am feeling particularly brave or seeking to understand more about myself. In any case, its easy to make new friends... the difficulty as always is in hanging on to the "good" ones. I'm probably not considered to be in the good camp, btw... so I appreciate that I will reap what I sow... or is that sew... I dont know. HUgs Stalky.

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