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Good in bed
July 09 2025
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RHP User
11 months ago
For me it’s the connection and the chemistry. Also knowing what turns the other person on and making sure you get turned on by seeing them turned on is always a great sign on someone who is good in bed.
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MrandMrsEss
11 months ago
Attention. When 2 (or more) people really pay attention to each other and want each other to have the best time then it’s likely going to be a good session. Skills, looks, equipment can all help but without that attention or desire to blow each others minds it’ll be lacklustre.
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RHP User
11 months ago
I guess that depends on what you are seeking in a bed partner. Just three words for me though. Attentive, generous and open/honest. Dammit I added a fourth
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BarberBoss1981
11 months ago
Being able to have fun with it..reading each other's bodies and staying tuned in...I love to be able to laugh and joke around...sex is supposed to be fun 😁
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nightingale8
11 months ago
Oh I love this topic. Am interested to hear some of the answers. No doubt your ability to create anticipation and interest is an important part of it all, *the connection* etc but I really do think some people are also better skilled than others. Being able to read the other’s body cues - when and how to move, when to stop, when to linger, how to apply pressure, and keep things creative. Tbh core stability control and flute strength really does a lot for..ahem.. purposeful thrusting 🤭 no one likes a flopping fish
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NeoAndTrin
11 months ago
I think there's a lot of right answers and it's a case by case scenario. There's no one description that is universal. It's different for different people. Obviously attention to your partner is a common theme so far and I would agree to an extent absolutely. I like to give alot of attention to Trin but she also likes to steer a bit as well. At the end of the day it does actually come back to you... did you get what you wanted? And if you did then your partner is good in bed.
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Brian_Breynolds
11 months ago
Oooh very good question. I think there’s three things: 1) The right attitude. Actually wanting your partner to have pleasure and be satisfied and giving some attention to that, rather than just being there for your own pleasure. Also having an open mind about how things will go, as opposed to a rigid view of what’s “supposed” to happen. 2) Social/Emotional/Energetic awareness and intelligence. Being able to be present and pick up on cues your partner is giving and know how to respond. So you know when to start building up the intensity, how much intensity to build up to, when to calm the vibe down, and when to just keep doing what you’re doing. This could also mean if you are unsure about the signals your partner is giving, being able to communicate and ask, then respond accordingly. Social intelligence is also knowing how to act and communicate before things get to the bedroom, so your partner is relaxed and turned on by the time you’re there. 3) The knowledge of how pleasure works and the skills to give it. The theoretical knowledge of the human body and where our erogenous zones are, what things generally turn people on, what turns people off. How to give great head, what sex positions work in what scenarios and how to do them, etc. Then, like Nightingale said above, the physical skills to put that knowledge into practice. Being fit, having good sexual stamina, flexibility, strength, etc. I think a combination of these will make someone an amazing lover.
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Cucknshells
11 months ago
For me it’s starts with connection both mentally and physically. That initial banter, flirting, seduction. Building trust and honest open communication. Making me feel relaxed and comfortable. Knowing they want me. Ensuring me that I am sexy and desired. Touching and kissing. Setting the tone. Exploring each other. Moving as one. Sensuality. Intimacy. Giving and taking. Being generous and mindful. Exploring, teasing, different positions, stamina. Experienced. Openness. Knowing their way around a women’s body. Not shy in telling me what they like. Asking if that feels good. Getting lost in the moment. Both sharing a climactic end. Having a laugh. Hugging. Talking. Validation. Having that mind set and traits makes someone, for me, good in bed. Someone who brings out the best in me. Shells xx
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MsSuperFoxy
11 months ago
When another states they enjoyed themselves and thanks them. When they receive the feedback they are humble and not boast to others- usually very private people as they respect other peoples privacy. Those who Humble brag or publicly boast usually "are NOT good in bed" because they use as it a tatic to win over another to get a root. They are gross. Ms Foxy
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Cucknshells
11 months ago
Loving all the comments. Makes for an interesting and great read. Just a reminder it is a positive forum. What makes someone GOOD in bed. Keep them coming. :-) Shells xx
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Sawadee
11 months ago
She will tell you .. lf the chemistry was right and she still has that big knowing smile is still wet , cuddling, rubbing and asking for more .. tells you it was good..
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RHP User
10 months ago
From broad experience, being good at life is a pretty solid marker for being good in bed. Certain characteristic translates well; Self-awareness. Empathy. Curiosity. Self-worth. I look for those in a potential partner and it typically works out well.
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AnnieWhichway
10 months ago
A person who doesnt hog the doona. Doesn't fart. Either fucks off before you wake up or brings you the perfect coffee as you wake up. There are many rules. Hello Shells. Hope you are doing well. Xx
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HotAppitite
10 months ago
Be enthusiastic, but not over eager. Don't peak too soon, now. Quality time....savour the moment! Read the room. Sometimes important cues are more subtle..... Just because they're not screaming & moaning to the point that your neighbours will never speak to you again. Doesn't mean they're not enjoying themselves. For example, it's not necessary to satisfy a man by choking down a 🐓 like you trying to swallow a minibus....classy. but that monent, when you look up into his eyes &, they are swelling with tears , it looks like he's about to cry, & has been rendered speechless. Your doing OK. Your eyes should be watering..... not mine😉
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Symeon
9 months ago
For me a connection and pure ecstasy. I'm very good at giving G Spot and A spot Orgasms and making women squirt. It's my favourite thing to watch is a women in absolute pleasure in a wave of orgasm after orgasm after orgasm.
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NIRVANA123
8 months ago
Old topic but got bored and had a good read. All great answers. When it truely boils down to it. A true twin lover experience depends on the emotional maturity of both parties as they both wish to see to the satisfaction of their partners. Plus this is the big one. There must be that hot deep flesh desire within. To want to look within the others eyes. To kiss the others lips. To want to touch the others body when you are together. Almost irresistable. Each others laugh a delight. When apart its almost unbearable and the other is in your mind and you desire them. Very much. You w a n t them. That is when you have a great hot sex and dont want to be parted. Think of ways to keep it kinky and all is good 😉
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Onehunglow
7 months ago
Flirty connection, touch, suggestive and chemistry.
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Christian833
4 months ago
Guy making the women feel so comfy that she loses control of her mind and stays in moment.
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