RHP

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Grade yourself.

December 06 2012

I remember a while back, we were discussing sexuality as being on a scale. Rather than being labeled as hetero, bisexual or gay, people are actually on a gradient somewhere between the extremes of pure hetero and pure gay. If we were to consider that, on this scale, pure hetero is 0 and pure gay is 10, the levels of bisexuality would be - liking both but with a preference for the opposite sex at around 2 or 3, no preference at about 5 and a preference for the same sex would be about 7 or 8. Where do you think you sit on this scale? I figure on being a 1 maybe. I don't feel any attraction for other men but I don't feel any revulsion or embarrasment from incidental contact with other males during group play. Okay, who's up next?

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    if it is a scale,it's a sliding scale jman.I like men but there have been two women I have been really attracted to.So if I met another woman I was really attracted to,then the scale would definitely slllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiide.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I would say I'm a 4, enjoy and always have men but have loved the experience of FFM as well.

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    13 years ago

    I (MrsPP) identify as bisexual because I am certainly not curious. I can give and let go equally with either sex, am attracted to an individual by their qualities etc but hypothetically - if I had to choose between a man and woman who I was equally attracted to - it would be the guy.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I think I'd be about a 2 - very hetro but a few women have been known to float my boat - that said they need to really pursue me and force my attention away from the men in the room . I never ever fantasize about women or watch girl porn, and I don't perve sexually on women ...... I wish I was more bi or curious , would make meeting couples a LOT easier !!! Mr del is 0 :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    100%.......0

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I have lots of love for women and would happily play if it feels right but my preference is for men for both relationships and sex...

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    I'm bisexual n my husband is straight I am not attracted to all women or men! But when I am attracted to them it is magic! My husband is remarkable in a ffm mmf mfmf - he doesn't get stage fright or won't stand next to another naked man!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Well that depends on the day and who is standing in front of me. :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    i am fully man crazy..BUT if either Monica Bellucci or Sophia Vergara were to show up on my doorstep ...i would skyrocket to a 10 i think! ;))

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    0

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ... about a five ;) but that is also, as Meeks says, very person dependant. I don't gravitate to a gender, but to a personality type. So a "5" guy and a "5" girl could be waaaaaay different on the 'scale'. This is way too complicated a question for me! Lets just say... as a 'rule'... I like women with masculine attributes. and guys with feminine attributes... although this is far from being a truism. I. Like. People. :D

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    a one or two ... depending on how uch interest i would have in the other woman

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Men do absolutely nothing for me at all.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Ook this I s a recent development fo me but I've grown to understand why a woman would is attracted to MR XYZ, however I'd never act on it. Not for any other reason other than its not my thing

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Definitely 0.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I am a 0 girls don't do anything for me. I like strong and hard not soft and squishy.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Seems very extreme and maybe a bit defensive. If you've ever rubbed your cock up against another guy's cock while giving a woman a vaginal DP, I figure that's worth a 1. There's also lot's of blokes who consider themselves hetero but include TV/TS on their 'seeking' criteria, that's gotta be at least a 1.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I have never been attracted to women, have absolutely no desire to kiss them, fondle them in a sexual manner, let alone have them lick me or me lick them. Nope. I have even wondered over the years if maybe I was missing out so made my self watch two or more female porno's. Nope. Still not even the slightest twinge. I can look at them completely dispassionately.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903' Seems very extreme and maybe a bit defensive. If you've ever rubbed your cock up against another guy's cock while giving a woman a vaginal DP, I figure that's worth a 1. There's also lot's of blokes who consider themselves hetero but include TV/TS on their 'seeking' criteria, that's gotta be at least a 1. Or defensive? Just stating a fact - it is what it is.

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Well that depends on the day and who is standing in front of me. :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I prefer to leave my scales buried at the back of the cupboard!! No numbers for me, just pure feeling and intuition - if I’m erotically attracted to a male or female then it’s on; if I’m not attracted then it’s not. A positive personality, witty repartee and some intelligent discourse are what turn me on; not the persons gender. xxxxx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ...and I'm not suggesting that a person can't be purely heterosexual. I was suggesting that perhaps some might feel that their masculinity is threatened if they don't declare themselves to be purely hetero.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    1/2 because I'm tempted to kiss a girl just to see if I like it

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I'd say I'm a 4.5. Definitely more than bi-curious, but only certain women that have the form of sex appeal, sass and personality that I find attractive. Which is essentially the same as I view men - I'm also just as selective. The only difference is that I wouldn't consider having a relationship with a woman, or I'm yet to have my mind changed.If a man and a woman were standing in front of me, both on the same level on the attraction scale? A verrrry hard decision to make - I'm not sure what I would do!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Depends on who I'm with

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Dark, weird like fantasies that you'd never act upon jman??

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' Does this encompass Dark, weird like fantasies that you'd never act upon jman??

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903' ...and I'm not suggesting that a person can't be purely heterosexual. I was suggesting that perhaps some might feel that their masculinity is threatened if they don't declare themselves to be purely hetero. Definitely secure in my masculinity. I even occasionally wear pink.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ...at least Mr Gready does.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Im definately a 5.. Far out I love women as much as men.. woot woot...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Jman are you a number too

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13'Jman are you a number too Go figure, hey.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    probably 2-3.... not attracted to men at all but i can appreciate the male form.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I love men and women. I have had relationships with both but I prefer men.