M42
Guys are disgusting 😂😂😂
January 19 2025
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OpalRose
one year ago
I had 20 messages like than on Friday alone. 57 messages in total. Only 3-4 were well constructed but none read my profile.
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RHP User
one year ago
Usual story… if you weed out the fakes, the ones with fraudulent pics 🤣, the dreamers, the ones who left their profiles in place and are still either in therapy or hiding under their beds 10yrs later… there’s us 3 here and hopeful of meeting someone… anyone… Laugh or cry, there’s not much we can do 🤷🏼♂️
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RHP User
one year ago
To be fair, your profile doesn’t say “I won’t blow my raw load into some dudes arse” so I can see where he’s coming from 😎 I was offered $1500 to send a guy in WA a video of me nutting and saying his name as I came. I didn’t express that I didn’t send videos for money on my profile so I forgave the approach.
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FeistyFatty
one year ago
Try getting at least 20 of those messages a day..... Most offering money for services rendered...... Its not just the single guy profiles either.... Some of my most cringey messages have been from "Couples".
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Flirty2020
one year ago
Unfortunately so many of the males, on sites like this, feel that they are entitled to behave the way that they do. They believe that because this is a swingers /sex site, that they have carte blanche, to behave in a vulgar , predatory & disrespectful manner. When questioned they say “This is a sex site, why are you here, if you don’t like it then leave “. It all comes down to the fact that they feel most probably feel entitled to get some action on here. More so if they are paid up members. You can see them in action in the chat rooms - barking demands and directing the live camera feeds. No respect. No care, just selfish and entitled in our opinion and based on our experience on here. We probably get around 12-20 disrespectful & demanding messages daily. We report and then block.
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RHP User
one year ago
Yea, guys are pretty vulgar. What I don’t understand is why people don’t use the settings available to not get so many of those messages???
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Daniel20221
one year ago
My wife and I are looking for any younger couples that would like to play in logan and obviously any single women's hhaha we in qld logan add us if this is you 😉
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RHP User
one year ago
Disappointment and frustration after the realisation that there's no sex on tap eventually spills over into messaging. Changing your settings ...I've done that but have met guys at events that I clicked with who were not in my preference settings, so you could miss out on meeting some good people. If you wouldn't approach a woman on a night out and say things like " I wanna suck on those titties" or " My fingers were made for your pussy and arsehole" then why do so in a first message? There's sexy banter and then there's just downright crass.
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MrandMrsEss
one year ago
Yes they are, from what we see here it’s “any hole is a goal’ and that includes the nicer ones too. There’s a whole lot of thirst and most don’t care what they get to drink so long as they get one. Yes it’s a swingers site but does this really mean there can’t be a little discernment in selecting who you’re going to chase?
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RHP User
one year ago
Yes some men are disgusting and vulgar but I get a bit sick of all the posts on this topic. I often wonder if things were different and women made the approach not men we would find that there are a lot of vulgar disgusting women who are not getting anywhere with the site. I would gladly swap the 20 messages a day be it nice or crap, instead of the totally ignoring we men tend to get here even with the considerate messages sent
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RHP User
one year ago
Yes many men let the team down badly. I've been seeing a new lady. After 3 weeks she has already hidden her profile, cancelled the app she was using for chat, and taken a step back as it just so overwhelming to her. Another woman recently told me she reported a guy because of his vile, and illegal, propositions to her. More generally i was having a similar conversation with some single female friends I have known forever. They aren’t on sites like RHP just more general dating app. They all have men with selfish expectations and also scammers. One guy seemed nice until he started dropping hints she should change her will !!! WTF
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seekandplay
one year ago
Of course they’re the type of messages we get, that’s a mild one you’ve received. They are either deadly boring with a one worded ‘Hey’, or disgustingly inappropriate, vulgar and degrading. I also learnt quickly: do not open photos! That’s a whole other issue in itself. Now it’s a simple delete, move on. Or, if they catch me on a bad day, I’ll stir the pot and put them in their place. It does come with being on a site like this - it shouldn’t, but it just is. I wasn’t aware of the privacy settings Alexis mentioned, so perhaps it’s time to put them on. But even now with no photo, my profile saying I’m not active, there’s a select few who like to send disgusting comments. ‘I want to put a baby inside of you and make you fat’ was my last laughable moment. We know how to separate the men from the boys! Not many of you here, but you do exist and we are grateful for the lovely ones that do.
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RHP User
one year ago
So is everyone duly offended by the internets then? It’s not IRL x
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No_probLlama68
one year ago
If there could be some upgrades to the app to help stamp out these kinds of practices what would work best? Only receiving messages from matches? Only women initiate messages first? You can’t send or receive photos until there has been at least 5 messages each way? Some of these are in use in other places. It would be good if there was something useful to come out of the frustration felt by most users. Even better if the pie gods were active or receptive enough to use some of the suggestions, but it’s hard to see that happening if there isn’t a dollar to be made…
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SweetSerenade
one year ago
It's just fake or joke profiles. Not real men.
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MsSuperFoxy
one year ago
Your received message is quite tame. I've received and seen a lot worse. You should see the messages, a male friend of mine receives on Grinder! They're very inspiring. 🤣😂🤣 Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
one year ago
Yes, some men believe it's the only way to get "a girls attention". "Ladies", on the other hand; just ignore and move on because we've got hot girl shit to do. 💅 🤣 Ms Foxy
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Gentlelovers
one year ago
That's disgusting to say the least. What ever happened to real men,not many left on this site.
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Obi1kenietzsche
one year ago
I agree… simply disgusting… you would have thought at the very least he would have used a question mark!
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happytrails67
one year ago
Yeah unfortunately there's a real lack of imagination 😕
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BooTLiciousViXn
one year ago
If people don't read the profile they aren't worth your time. This is how you weed out people. Don't get offended, they do this to see if they get a response or some type of engagement, doesn't matter if it is positive or negative. They don't really care who it is, it's purely a numbers game. Ignore and move on.
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squirtingmilf1
one year ago
@MsSuperFoxy could not agree more with you. My profile is as clear as it gets. I even make a point of distinguishing between 'dirty' and 'filth.' Whilst I understand these terms can vary in meaning, it’s not exactly rocket science to tell the difference. As a result, I’ve accumulated thousands of unread messages that won’t be getting a response. I do, however, genuinely appreciate those who take the time to read my profile and craft a message that reflects that effort. It's refreshing when someone actually engages thoughtfully instead of sending a generic line. These days, it seems like some people think being on this app means they can say whatever pops into their head, but I value respect and a little bit of common sense in communication. While I’m far from perfect, I do appreciate when someone makes the effort to reference something from my profile, showing that they’ve actually read it. We all have our boundaries, and that’s completely fair. But I think it’s only reasonable to expect a little customisation in your message to fit the individual you’re reaching out to. And, as you might guess, if that’s not happening, well… that’s why the block button exists!
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RHP User
one year ago
Only someone raised by wolves wouldn't know that messaging a lady like that is a definite no-go, it's Human Decency 101, it's not exactly brain surgery.
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lilcurvysuccubus
one year ago
😂😂😂 I get a kick out of reading disgusting messages, I check the profile out, then I politely ignore. If persistent, I block. I think I have about 85 messages I'm actively ignoring unless I see it on the top. The first week I'm here. I actually reply when I find someone hilarious enough or I fantasise about them.
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RHP User
one year ago
I know exactly what you mean by your definition of Disgusting. I just spent 6 hours in a Brisbane Gay Sauna looking for some action, craving for attention and desperate for intimacy. All I got out of it was a brutal Brush off from guys who I found attractive and found myself in the middle of Blokes bonking each other whilst I was struggling to get erected. It's alright for some blokes to get it up in the 'Heat of the Moment', while others take longer than expected to make some magic before it disappears. Meanwhile, at Perth Steamworx, you wouldn't believe the amount of attention I craved when it comes to having same sex where I felt like I could be just about anyone I wanted; much more of a positive experience compared to the one I just had at Brisbane's Wet sauna, last night. Some nights are better than others depending on the kind of people you attract.
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Hopeandglory
one year ago
Hi to all the nice girls out there. Remember it's the poor quality of males out there who also make it very difficult for the nice ones.
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EBR1190
one year ago
I agree, I had a bloke tell me last night I am a good looking man and he would love to play with me but please don't be offended. I replied thanks for the compliment I wish more ladies on here took that view. He replied with what do you want a ladies for etc then escalated rapidly into I want to deep throat you etc.... Had to block him
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BiPeggyGal
one year ago
I've just rejoined after 5 years, oh dear, I'm waiting to see I I get them again too, ZZZ.
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BiPeggyGal
one year ago
Yes tonight I got a series of about 4 messages with long descriptions of what he wanted to do to.me including apparently we're going all night for 12 hours and graphic depictions of stuff. I tend to mock and spar with such types, for my fun.
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bedfun
one year ago
Yeah look, guys are disgusting generally, myself included, but not all of us think it's ok to send unsolicited messages like that or worse. Unfortunately there are enough creeps out there making it hard for those of us who are reasonable to even start a conversation with someone.
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Hotdan79
one year ago
Bro feel ya on this one getting mad guys hitting me up offering to suck my cock lol 😂 even though profile says straight
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Intemperance
one year ago
Yep, welcome to our world. Its disgusting. Also, you may be proud of it but we do not want to see a photo of it unless we specifically ask. And I would assume most wouldnt ask :) . Great post. Have a good day
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RHP User
one year ago
yes, some guys are weirdos. They can't read probably, just keep sending messages.
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RHP User
one year ago
I enjoy meeting couples when I can, I have found what is clearly unattached guys hiding in couple profiles. Dissapointing.
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RHP User
one year ago
Men dont want o go to jail because they dont want done to them what they do to us.
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shavernudist1975
one year ago
To be fair, about 60% of so called straight guys I approach are interested in having fun with guys too. And some people like the direct requests etc. Nothing disgusting about being to the point and saying what you want. Some people want to cut the chit chat and just want a load somewhere.
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RHP User
one year ago
If you think that's bad here you should see bi australia. Dick and pussy profile pics mostly. Everyone is an individual som e like to be dirty tongued to add to the essence of what us essentially not the norms society expects.
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FireHorse101
one year ago
No excuse and I do find it appaling behaviour- yet like everything theres a good side and theres a not so good side. Its rather easy to think of the good side to all those unwelcomed and vulgar messages- thats its a numbers game- in that for every f wit- there is more chance of meeting the more appropriate one/s. Stay positive RHP'ers
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RHP User
one year ago
So, what's a guy that's genuinely interested in meeting women and couples supposed to do when he doesn't get any replies or first messages?
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