RHP

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Guys being picky about other guys

March 02 2015

I have found that I am being picky when it comes to guys in this domain. If I look for a couple and I am attracted to the Female but the Male puts me off I reconsider sending any correspondence. Also I like to play with guys at times but I will pick almost anything to stop me from going ahead and meeting, he is too pushy and kinky, I don't like the hair on his chin, he is too tall...ect I am not like this with girls at all! I think it is because I am naturally attracted to girls and guys are a sexual afterthought? Anyone else have similar reactions?

Comments

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    You are obviously more orientated to females and need all the boxes ticked for your man play to be Initiated. All normal I think. We like what we like.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I can appreciate that a man is a nice guy, good looking, well built etc but I have never felt attraction to another man. However I have no problem having a bit of a play with one if he ticks ALL the boxes, as Annie said. With women there are so many different aspects that I find attractive in the feminine form, from personality through to pussy and everywhere in between. There is also a range in each aspect so it's not so specific; apart from the real extremes I find all size breasts attractive as long as they're reactive, similar with body shape as long as the woman has confidence in herself. I'm more likely to be turned off by how she kisses or her demeanour. So from my experience I'd say you're pretty normal for a guy who is basically straight but happy to experiment. Mr HnH

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    OP.if you don't want to play with men,why not choose couples where that is not a requirement..? XxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think that is quite common. Some people are very particular about their tastes in the opposite sex and not as fussy with the same sex and the reverse as applies as well. They are not as fussy with the opposite sex but have very particular tastes with same sex. Everyone is different. I would say I find lots of qualities about men attractive, yet I definitely would have a type when it comes to being sexually attracted to women. And I consider myself pretty much straight with a twist of lemon.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    not all men in couples want you playing with them....just playing along with them

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Although we are currently looking for a man only, strictly no MM play though, all for my greedy self .... But I tend to be so picky it's actually quite difficult to find suitable playmates, n most recently found one that ticks all the boxes and he decides not to show.....there seems to be a lot of people on here, just not a lot of my kind of talent..... I say it pays to be picky/ fussy, don't lower your standards for a quick roll .... :))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But why should he with a couple is he isn't attracted to both of Them? Maybe he wants make interaction. Not everyone finds a straight MFM exciting you know.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Make interaction should say male interaction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm what I like to call heteroflexible, 90% of the time I am looking for women. Then sometimes I like to if all are willing play with guys and girls together. I enjoy when I do it, but there are times when I am hungover and just really really horny when I check out bi/gay guys looking for guys, and if they're slightly too forward or pushy then I'm out straight away or if they're slightly too old I'm out no matter how buff they are. Also sometimes I like to just watch them and don't wanna join in at all. It's completely normal..... I hope hahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    im 39 gay male love to act out for str8 men

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Picky both ways for me. Though I could not quantify it entirely, apart from most people are too normal for me. Good for them bad for me, but I get by and just wait for that interesting person to come along, male or female.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I class myself as heterosexual, some people may disagree.. whatever. Even during mfm's swords sometimes cross. I'm not sure if attracted to the male is the word but I need to be comfortable with the male of a couple more so than the female. I guess it's a guy thing. Hell I had sex with my ex for years and I hated her. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I get SD's comment that some men just like others to play along and not with them and I am all for that, but my case still stands if that is the scenario. Even if there is no play with the male partner, if I think he is not my type of person then I would rather miss that chance to play with the couple. I love to focus on the woman!