Guys from couples hitting a female up

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  We have had the male half say they are keen to meet us without their partner or ask if I play alone. I just say no thanks and decide not to meet them. It’s up to you how you deal with that but it’s not a good start if they are trying to divide or meet up on their own

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  boobsandbusted

  7 years ago

  yeah that’s not cool - Posted from rhpmobile

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  FeistyFatty

  7 years ago

  I've been contacted many times by the male half of a couple's profile with a request to play solo. My case would not be the same as yours SweetJen as I clearly state no women and no couples as I have zero interest in either. So for me, it really doesn't bother me if they're "stepping out" solo. I can't recall ever playing with the male when I've been contacted from their cpl profile though, would have been more that I'm not interested in the drama that could unfold than taking the moral high ground though. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Sassinak72

  7 years ago

  If solo play is OK then I find it is stated in the profile, if it isn't, my advice is to assume it isn't unless advised by both parties. In my experience with chatting with couples I don't find it to be the norm but does occasionally happen

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  For me I’m just not interested in a guy on his own I love women and couples but a guy on his own bores me lol They are very opportunistic in their approach Happy to host me as a couple but always ask have I got somewhere to play as a single Cmon guys poor form

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  maybe reply with something along the lines of I'd like to see you both, when are the two of you available? Then if he replies that it's just him, decline if you're not interested.

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  AKAHunk

  7 years ago

  Quoting 'Bazingal' maybe reply with something along the lines of I'd like to see you both, when are the two of you available? Then if he replies that it's just him, decline if you're not interested. I was thinking the same Bazingal....if you're still interested in meeting with one or both of them, insist on at least chatting to both on the phone or meeting for a drink first. That would weed out the single guys with fake couples profiles, and the ones doing the dirty behind their partners back.

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  The swinging scene is primarily driven by Male lust. Add to that the fact that many couples profiles are often just the male, either cheating on his partner / wife or just a single male posing as a couple. The genetic programming of males, ensures that most are “hunters” ready to hump at every opportunity, we believe. We therefore never give out MrsD ‘s contact details. That way she is projected from such predatory behaviour. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  Should read protected - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  The single male uses the false couples profile to get to be able to chat. He then selects a suitable moment to try and meet with bullshit excuse. This is single male ploy #34. One of the more successful routines in their armoury.....

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I am not kidding when I say the idea of # list is brilliant. You have a sharp mind for getting at the heart of many realities not that I have said that to you before. I'd love to see a thread by you. Just saying. Peachy

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I always ask to chat to her on the phone 1 to make sure she is real 2 make sure it’s her idea I get the she prefers me to arrange thing She is working Or I get ghosted when I ask to chat on the phone lol Thanks for the input

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Sweet Jen7. You make some good points. My lady has given me the latitude to play on my own if I choose to do so. We have also freely stated on our profile that if there's any concern the other half is willing participant in this arrangement. Removes any issues that may arise 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I totally read that with David Attenborough narrating in my head 🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Sweet Jen, sounds like you just want a green light to get into drama. The completely obvious fucking answer is if you're not interested, walk away. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  When Fabe and I started this journery we agreed ALL meets would be both of us, even the 1st general hello. we both habe to agree to continue, this is our journey together not a solo event for either of us.

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