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Guys take this site too seriously!!
October 18 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
A man-bashing thread written by a straight man, that's new. Hilloo, I'm not sure I understand why you'd be concerned about other guys. Or is it because those men give the good guys a bad name? Would love to hear your views.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Good on you Hilloo, that is invaluable to all the men I am sure and I know they will appreciate it. 😉
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RHP User
12 years ago
Won't......so I too, are confused as all hell why this keeps coming up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
12 years ago
Do you have a job on the side working for RHP ? You think the guys here in general don't know how to conduct themselves, after being on site for a considerably longer time than yourself ? Tall
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him_and_me
12 years ago
(I'm sure I replied to this last night from my phone...!?)You obviously have no difficulty expressing yourself clearly with the written word (very cool!) and although not everyone has it so easy I definitely agree - a well written profile or message (think whole words, a bit of grammar and some original thought) make a real difference to how I view people on here. So guys, even if it's hard, give it a go. Then you might get to give it a go when it's hard....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yep the honest n genuine guys suffer due to to fuk wits that get on here and other sites :( it's as simple as that and we the honest guys just have to deal with it... Lot of people over read into profiles because a few fake people have made it taht way...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'Those that need to read this.....Won't.Sirlurk is right.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's just my observation from talking to couples and singles! Everyone goes about contacting people in their own way! I'm in no way saying mine is better or it's the 'right' way, it's just my perspective. I get heaps of "thanks but no thanks" or no replies at all, so my emails could be the 'wrong I just write my emails the way I am, enthusiastic!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
*way
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RHP User
12 years ago
If guys need to be told how to behave themself , we have a hugh problem. Surely the majority have enough common sense to know whats right and whats wrong. I read what you had to say and agree with most, but dont that go without saying ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
You think the guys here in general don't know how to conduct themselves, after being on site for a considerably longer time than yourself ? I don't work for RHP, I actually teach kids, adults and special needs children how to swim! So maybe the chlorine has gone to my head!! Ha ha My email was just a statement on what I see and hear! Im sure its a very different experience for you, for me, for whoever! I'm not preaching, I'm just giving my perspective. I could be so far off the mark, and people who receive them could think my emails are lame and boring. So go nuts and write in whichever form you see fit!!! That the best thing about this site, you can just be yourself :)
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cleopatrababe
12 years ago
Love what u have to say ,, i to have been on different sites and have had some incredible messages sent to me over the years ,, some flattering and yes am i a brick , im surprised that so many men have so little to say except love ur boobs and can i send u a pic or can we do skype , as i am a mature woman i probably do have high expectations and rightly so i think , treat me with respect , have a conversation with me treat me like a human being with a BRAIN ,,, and maybe i will consider u ,,,
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RHP User
12 years ago
My only problem with spending a decent effort into writing a witty and eye catching email, is that many don't reply. I don't get pissed off if they don't and I understand that many women get many emails, but now I don't tend to bother spending too much of my time and effort if they're not interested anyway. So I simply send a quick hello message to let them know I'm interested, if they reply, awesome and if not, so be it. If they expect me to write a 450 page essay on why I wanted to contact them, then, they might be a bit too demanding for me anyway. And SirLurk is 100% correct, the bad eggs won't read the forums.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I rarely message anyone these days. Instead I wait til they show interest and take things from there.. I'm a face to face person and is where I'm at my best. If I do send a message , I've learnt to keep it short but interesting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's not rocket science.... Any message sent should be reflective of the person your sending it to. Read her/his profile and respond back on there level... Some might need well written messages, others inly need a straight to the point message. You just need to be able to read people the best you can from the profile they have. I have met Women after long and meaningful conversations, I have also met women from simply saying, love to come over and fuck your brains out.... Don't over think it, and dude... Whatever you do, don't try to educate the uneducated people the art of women... Let them struggle... I have a wide selection and never fail to meet new people... I don't need to compete against men who have had a "how to score on RHP 101" from you... Even though I don't agree with what you saying 100% - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't need to compete against men who have had a "how to score on RHP 101" from you... I know its not a completion, just my observation. Because if it was, I'd kick your arse :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Play nice- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I completely agree with Coops.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Message Title Hi, Message Content - hey there - Don't get a reply, because its in my profile,and they obviously just looked at my pics.I also tend to ignore the How are you? or simply reply "Good".... ball is back in their court!I do try to respond to emails that have had some thought put into them, and are more than one sentence.. Please dont give up Gavin! But yeah I agree - no essays! no life history! KISSBQ - keep it simple silly, but quirky!And I very rarely initiate contact, I don't search, so how would I find you Jay-me? Lucky I read the forums!So I agree with Hilloo, you are an astute learner! And dare I say an acute listener, because really, guys can't comment on what makes a successful message to a female.... unless they have taken onboard the trials and tribulations of those who have gone before him - and made adjustments accordingly.Coops? Was I that middle of the night message? Cos yes on occassion and only on occassion! that style of cheeky works!KissesAnnaxxxx
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